OK Controversy- DO you 100% fully trust your Signigificant other, or do you think anything is possible

wacky Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:17 PM

OK Controversy- DO you 100% fully trust your Signigificant other, or do you think anything is possible

Friend and I were speaking over some drinks about life

We were speaking about a girl we know that validates herself by her man. She is smug, like she is the only girl married in the world. I think its BS. We both said that you can never be too sure.

What do you think? I believe that no matter how much you love, you just never know what the outcome may be, and I just cant put all my faith in my hubby.

NYCHICK Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:19 PM

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i agree, NO ONE knows someone else to a T....You defintely trust as much as you can but always have strenght to call your own(derived from you and not DH) so that one day if the sh!t were to hit the fan you could be ok...............

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:20 PM

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i think you're right.
(up to a point.)
things DO happen...
but you can't worry about it or let it hinder your life or connection you have with a person.

wacky Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:21 PM

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Posted by NYCHICK

i agree, NO ONE knows someone else to a T....You defintely trust as much as you can but always have strenght to call your own(derived from you and not DH) so that one day if the sh!t were to hit the fan you could be ok...............

Thats what I say, but then there are women (aquaintences) that cant understand that and when things go wrong they totally sink

gaby25 Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:21 PM

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Agree!!!!! I trust FH but to a point and that is that he is human and can make a mistake and hes a MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He has never given me a reason to not trust him but hey! you never know. I think its just good to be realistic! JMO

nrvbrd Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:22 PM

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Dh admitted to me that he trusts me 99%, leaving one percent for error because you never know, and I agree with that philosophy.

Wacky, think we have the same friend- the one with the PERFECT marriage and the PERFECT husband who does EVERYTHING right- yeah right get over yourself.

You have to have faith, but be prepared.

Anything can happen.

franksbride Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:22 PM

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I do trust hubby 100%...however I think anything is possible.

I see it this way...if my own dad could do it to my mom than any man in the world could too...even my own husband.

wacky Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:23 PM

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Posted by CIMINOK

i think you're right.
(up to a point.)
things DO happen...
but you can't worry about it or let it hinder your life or connection you have with a person.

Oh I dont let it hinder my relationship, Im just saying particularly my friend that DH is the world to her, doesnt have many friends, doesnt have goals she would like for herself.

Sometimes I look at her and Im like WAKEUP

wacky Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:24 PM

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Posted by nrvbrd

Dh admitted to me that he trusts me 99%, leaving one percent for error because you never know, and I agree with that philosophy.

Wacky, think we have the same friend- the one with the PERFECT marriage and the PERFECT husband who does EVERYTHING right- yeah right get over yourself.

You have to have faith, but be prepared.

Anything can happen.

Probably, shes not married yet,but she hangs on every freaking word he says, I think shes a puppet

Its weird or maybe I am.

We went out with them a couple of times and it was the most aggrevating thing. Paul and I were cracking up when we left

Lunatrek Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:25 PM

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I trust 1000% that my husband would never be unfaithful to me, but as far as falling out of love with me because I'm a psychotic b!tch... that I can't say for sure!!!

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:25 PM

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Posted by wacky

Posted by CIMINOK

i think you're right.
(up to a point.)
things DO happen...
but you can't worry about it or let it hinder your life or connection you have with a person.

Oh I dont let it hinder my relationship, Im just saying particularly my friend that DH is the world to her, doesnt have many friends, doesnt have goals she would like for herself.

Sometimes I look at her and Im like WAKEUP

i understood what you were saying...i agreed...and added a side note.

wacky Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:26 PM

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Posted by Lunatrek

I trust 1000% that my husband would never be unfaithful to me, but as far as falling out of love with me because I'm a psychotic b!tch... that I can't say for sure!!!

sandj100304 Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:26 PM

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I completely trust my FH but I am aware that anything can happen and things change. Nothing in life is guaranteed (well, except death and taxes). Those that don't see that are usually in for a rude awakening one day.

julz33 Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:26 PM

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Posted by franksbride

I do trust hubby 100%...however I think anything is possible.

I see it this way...if my own dad could do it to my mom than any man in the world could too...even my own husband.

I feel the same way!

wacky Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:26 PM

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Posted by CIMINOK

Posted by wacky

Posted by CIMINOK

i think you're right.
(up to a point.)
things DO happen...
but you can't worry about it or let it hinder your life or connection you have with a person.

Oh I dont let it hinder my relationship, Im just saying particularly my friend that DH is the world to her, doesnt have many friends, doesnt have goals she would like for herself.

Sometimes I look at her and Im like WAKEUP

i understood what you were saying...i agreed...and added a side note.

Side notes are good

NYCHICK Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:30 PM

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I had a friend like that until one day the wife slept with the BROTHER...unreal..........then he tried to kill himself, he even ran off and joined the circus afterwards...how in the world can you allow someone to have that much control over your emotions to the point you joint he circus...............people are weird

wacky Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:31 PM

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Posted by NYCHICK

I had a friend like that until one day the wife slept with the BROTHER...unreal..........then he tried to kill himself, he even ran off and joined the circus afterwards...how in the world can you allow someone to have that much control over your emotions to the point you joint he circus...............people are weird

Wow, sad

franksbride Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:32 PM

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Posted by julz33

Posted by franksbride

I do trust hubby 100%...however I think anything is possible.

I see it this way...if my own dad could do it to my mom than any man in the world could too...even my own husband.

I feel the same way!

This has caused me to have lots of trust issues (not only with men...but just people in general). I thank my lucky stars that I have found someone I feel I can trust 100%. From the day I met him I knew he was a keeper...I never questioned him one bit...and it was completely different before...I never trusted a damn thing a man would say to me.

NYCHICK Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:33 PM

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Ain't it...I just could not imagine loving somebody to the poitn to being self destructive Before I love anybody else, I LOVE ME!!!!!!!!!!

cocoa Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:33 PM

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agree...i know that people can change and that you will never know someone 100%, noteven yourself. and you can't predict the future...but the great part about marriage is that it is a journey and each day is a challenge that we got to get through together...OMG, watching OLTL and fh just turned up the volume!!! LMAO!!!