Ok, so I have a massive problem with people on LIW who don't share vendor information.
I'm not talking about prices, because I understand that money is a sensitive topic. I understand not wanting to share the costs of things (although I always do...), but I can totally get that.
But telling someone the VENDOR you're using or the name of a person is ridiculous. And I'm not even talking about over the public board...I'm talking about through FM where NO ONE ELSE will see it!
Isn't this board geared towards helping EACH OTHER to plan the wedding of our dreams?!
Is it because people are afriad you're copying them?! I mean, you're never even going to SEE that person's wedding so why should it matter?!?! That is just so absurd.
Unreal.
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But again, this was for a vendor that had already completed the service. She had the end product already.... There was nothing to cancel or to change pricing, etc....
ahh...i see. well in that case...she's just a twat
exactamundo. PS - you were a hottie hot hot bride! CONGRATS!
failurebydsign
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thats crazy..but i trust you all..
ant n tilde
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i totally just LOLed at work - oops.
Espo22
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yeah i know i see it alot, i dont care i share my information...I mean please im sure people who keep everything a secret copy from others. Hey were all getting our ideas from somewhere, give me a break.
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now that my wedding is over, i have all my vendors in my profile..BUT let me just give this little story as to reasons why ppl don't mention vendors at all:
Last year, on a random sat. afternoon, I get a phone call from my banquet manager. he tells me that a girl came to visit his hall, and began telling him that Melissa & Peter who were marrying there on Feb. 25, 2007 (she acted like she KNEW us) told her DIRECTLY that we were getting this AMAZING deal and that cause we paid cash, WE told her that WE got the sales tax taken off our bill! (sooooooo not true, we paid full tax and usually gave them a check). she even describd what we looked like (from my avatar) and truly acted as if we were friends with her and gave up this informaiton. you can imagine how my banquet manager was quite shocked, and actually was calling me to tell me to stop talking to ppl and telling them this!!! i explained that i never spoke to anyone like that at all....and it was all straightened out.
after that, i took just about all info out of my profile concerning vendors....cause sadly...ppl are weird and this biitch could have cost me my contract at my hall. it's stories like THAT, that cause girls to be paranoid and cautious!
Wow that's serious. There are crazy people out there.
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now that my wedding is over, i have all my vendors in my profile..BUT let me just give this little story as to reasons why ppl don't mention vendors at all:
Last year, on a random sat. afternoon, I get a phone call from my banquet manager. he tells me that a girl came to visit his hall, and began telling him that Melissa & Peter who were marrying there on Feb. 25, 2007 (she acted like she KNEW us) told her DIRECTLY that we were getting this AMAZING deal and that cause we paid cash, WE told her that WE got the sales tax taken off our bill! (sooooooo not true, we paid full tax and usually gave them a check). she even describd what we looked like (from my avatar) and truly acted as if we were friends with her and gave up this informaiton. you can imagine how my banquet manager was quite shocked, and actually was calling me to tell me to stop talking to ppl and telling them this!!! i explained that i never spoke to anyone like that at all....and it was all straightened out.
after that, i took just about all info out of my profile concerning vendors....cause sadly...ppl are weird and this biitch could have cost me my contract at my hall. it's stories like THAT, that cause girls to be paranoid and cautious!
Wooowwww!!! A real psycho biitch, lol!
failurebydsign
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ist this the purpose????
i got so much help from everyone on her ebeing out of state..i knew where to go and where not to go..and im all booked with my big vendors..whatever
MJDoc12
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exactamundo. PS - you were a hottie hot hot bride! CONGRATS!
Spank you very much..
i'll share all my vendors right now!
Photo: Marianela Vera Video: TWC String Trio: Capriccio DJ : Elegancia Florist: Burton's Limo: Sir Oliver Hall: Watermill HM: In & Out Travel
i'm sharrrrrrrring!!!!!!
i know i used more ppl...can't remember now. lol
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Also, this was a vendor that had already DONE the service for her. So its not like I COULD call and cancel it on her....
ooooooooooooo biitchy, biitchy... i would hate that too!
beachbum05
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I think its flattering if someone likes my ideas!
ETA: Im going to do some pottery now. Thank you all for letting me vent to you.
and as a final note, ladies:
'Sharing is caring'
Espo22
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now that my wedding is over, i have all my vendors in my profile..BUT let me just give this little story as to reasons why ppl don't mention vendors at all:
Last year, on a random sat. afternoon, I get a phone call from my banquet manager. he tells me that a girl came to visit his hall, and began telling him that Melissa & Peter who were marrying there on Feb. 25, 2007 (she acted like she KNEW us) told her DIRECTLY that we were getting this AMAZING deal and that cause we paid cash, WE told her that WE got the sales tax taken off our bill! (sooooooo not true, we paid full tax and usually gave them a check). she even describd what we looked like (from my avatar) and truly acted as if we were friends with her and gave up this informaiton. you can imagine how my banquet manager was quite shocked, and actually was calling me to tell me to stop talking to ppl and telling them this!!! i explained that i never spoke to anyone like that at all....and it was all straightened out.
after that, i took just about all info out of my profile concerning vendors....cause sadly...ppl are weird and this biitch could have cost me my contract at my hall. it's stories like THAT, that cause girls to be paranoid and cautious!
That is insane, i seriously dont understand what is wrong with some people. Crazy *** C**** everywhere lol
Espo22
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I think its flattering if someone likes my ideas!
WORD!!!!
failurebydsign
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I think its flattering if someone likes my ideas!
WORD!!!!
word..i love it
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that is ridiculous. Some girls are extremely paranoid, I've noticed sometimes I've goine to check profiles and they don't even have their names on there! Sorry bon, if you want to know about all 2 of my vendors I'll tell you.
Espo22
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that is ridiculous. Some girls are extremely paranoid, I've noticed sometimes I've goine to check profiles and they don't even have their names on there! Sorry bon, if you want to know about all 2 of my vendors I'll tell you.
WOO HOO I only have 2 vendors too...You could know anything too Bon, but we share one of them so i only have info on 1 vendor for you lol, but wait you booked a florist so yeah im of no help lol
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that is ridiculous. Some girls are extremely paranoid, I've noticed sometimes I've goine to check profiles and they don't even have their names on there! Sorry bon, if you want to know about all 2 of my vendors I'll tell you.
WOO HOO I only have 2 vendors too...You could know anything too Bon, but we share one of them so i only have info on 1 vendor for you lol, but wait you booked a florist so yeah im of no help lol
Its the thought that counts
Ok, seriously now, I need to get off my a$s and do some pottery.
HAPPY FRIDAY LADIES!!!!
MikeandJess
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that is ridiculous. Some girls are extremely paranoid, I've noticed sometimes I've goine to check profiles and they don't even have their names on there! Sorry bon, if you want to know about all 2 of my vendors I'll tell you.
WOO HOO I only have 2 vendors too...You could know anything too Bon, but we share one of them so i only have info on 1 vendor for you lol, but wait you booked a florist so yeah im of no help lol
lol by 2 vendors I meant the RH and the photographer, I'm so lazy
Espo22
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that is ridiculous. Some girls are extremely paranoid, I've noticed sometimes I've goine to check profiles and they don't even have their names on there! Sorry bon, if you want to know about all 2 of my vendors I'll tell you.
WOO HOO I only have 2 vendors too...You could know anything too Bon, but we share one of them so i only have info on 1 vendor for you lol, but wait you booked a florist so yeah im of no help lol
Its the thought that counts
Ok, seriously now, I need to get off my a$s and do some pottery.
HAPPY FRIDAY LADIES!!!!
hmmm pottery? interesting...ok have fun and happy friday to you too...BTW what did you want to know about maybe we can find out for you mwahahaha
Espo22
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that is ridiculous. Some girls are extremely paranoid, I've noticed sometimes I've goine to check profiles and they don't even have their names on there! Sorry bon, if you want to know about all 2 of my vendors I'll tell you.
WOO HOO I only have 2 vendors too...You could know anything too Bon, but we share one of them so i only have info on 1 vendor for you lol, but wait you booked a florist so yeah im of no help lol
lol by 2 vendors I meant the RH and the photographer, I'm so lazy
oooooooohhhhhhhh hahahaha...well i JUST booked the florist this week so yeah im lazy too
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I would share my info. I just removed it from my profile b/c of a post I read yesterday on this board about fake brides canceling vendors.