what is your biggest pet peeve when it comes to the wedding?
LuvMyAlfonse
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what is your biggest pet peeve when it comes to the wedding?
it used to be everyone telling me 'why you doing it so eeeeeearly?'
now I don't have any BECAUSE I did everything so eeeeeeearly.
akrasner
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If people I don't know very well want to start a conversation they ask 'how's the wedding planning coming' It just gets me more stressed!
MrsD71208
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When people say, ' I can't wait to party at your wedding'.....wait, who said you were invited? lol
JeanetteandSteve
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the thing that bothers me is people are talking about bringing their kids. we aren't inviting kids. i hate telling people that b/c i feel like the mean bride who doesn't like kids.
...i LOVE kids...i just don't want them at our wedding b/c once you let one person bring their kids you have to let EVERYONE...and that would add like 25 people to our guestlist...we just don't have the room!!!
jjk1007
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at this point right now..........INVITATIONS!!!
But I also hate talking about the wedding to random people. The only people I really like discussing it with is FH, you ladies, my mom, and the people in the wedding. So I really dont like when random people ask me 'how the wedding planning is going.' For some reason, it stresses me out even more. lol I mean, I know theyre just being nice....but I dont want to talk about it.
MrsD71208
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Posted by JeanetteandSteve
the thing that bothers me is people are talking about bringing their kids. we aren't inviting kids. i hate telling people that b/c i feel like the mean bride who doesn't like kids.
...i LOVE kids...i just don't want them at our wedding b/c once you let one person bring their kids you have to let EVERYONE...and that would add like 25 people to our guestlist...we just don't have the room!!!
I agree. I am going to write it on our invites somehow....not quite sure how we are going to word it. The only kid (under 10) we are having is our FG..she's a good kid though.
LuvMyAlfonse
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I agree. I am going to write it on our invites somehow....not quite sure how we are going to word it. The only kid (under 10) we are having is our FG..she's a good kid though.
some people write on the reception card
'Adult reception to follow'
I think that gets the point across, I think I'm going to do that...
dream426
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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse
it used to be everyone telling me 'why you doing it so eeeeeearly?'
now I don't have any BECAUSE I did everything so eeeeeeearly.
Same with me. People were like oh you have time for that. You don't have to worry about it and now I feel I am behind because I did wait for some things.
JeanetteandSteve
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Posted by MrsDtoBe
I agree. I am going to write it on our invites somehow....not quite sure how we are going to word it. The only kid (under 10) we are having is our FG..she's a good kid though.
some people write on the reception card
'Adult reception to follow'
I think that gets the point across, I think I'm going to do that...
that is seriously a great idea...thanks!!
DiamondPipa
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i hate when people tell me what to do or better yet, that they are going to do stuff at my wedding without ever asking my permission! (such as, 'i can't wait for my speech at your wedding)
TheFutureMrsM
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i hated when we booked our hall in november 06 and people kept reminding me i had 2 years and what was the rush
Now its almost 10 months away, and i really havnt done anything wedding related in a while, i pretty much sit back and relax now
Soon2beAlberti
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wether or not to invite children and where to draw the line... and people saying 'when do we pick out our bridesmaids dresses?' when i haven't even asked them to be in the bridal party
ant n tilde
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If I hear 'What if it snows?' ONE MORE TIME.
Rayjenn317
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maybe im a b*tch but i have a few peeves and i dont care!! 1) inviting yourself to my wedding 2) telling me what to do when i never asked -- 'this is what i would do'- i cant stand that !!! ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING!!!! 3) not listening to me with what i would like to do
ChristineAaron08
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Posted by ant n tilde
If I hear 'What if it snows?' ONE MORE TIME.
OMG- yeah- I am getting married 4/06. It snowed this year, so aahhh. People are telling me- 'oh- yeah- its gonna snow on your wedding' Are they jus tsaying it so it wont happen. I'm like why the he!! would you tell someone that- why not just tell me im fat...lol
And I want an outdoor ceremony, but if its too cold out, OBVIOUSLY- we wont be outside. SoI am tired of people (is- my Mom) saying- 'IDK- it probably wont be warm enough to be outside' We have had freak 70 degree days in Feb so humor me and give me a glimmer of hope that the ceremony can be outside! geeezz people.
ChristineAaron08
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oh- and another one.
I am tired of FMIL saying to me. 'so you really need a tiara headpiece if you have all those sparkles on the gown' or 'do you reall need a necklace'
I love her , but (A) there are not a lot of sparkles on my dress (B) It is my wedding and I will wear what (C) I am not exactly a walking fashion 'dont' so I can handle accessorizing, (D) If I end up looing like a glittery fairy freakin princess, then oh freakin well- sorry to have embarrased you in front of your family! LOL
BNBride60
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my mother, by far and away.
her moods change like the wind, she interrupts every word that comes out of my mouth, she hangs up on me when she feels like it. i'm literally at the end of my rope.
branNjay
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The wedding is 10 months away and I still dont have FH side of the family guest list!!! We have asked a hundred times and his step mom says shes going to email it.
Oh and the fact that this is 2007 and FH mom thinks that the brides family is still supposed to pay for everything. its really annoying!!!!!
xXxNovember08xXx
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liek what someone else said...
ppl jsut inviting themself!!!
sigh.
MikeandJess
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people asking me how much things cost, it's one thing for you girls to ask me for informational purposes but when people ask me just because they're nosey, it irks me, I am irked
