How long did your fiance wait to ask the Guys to be in the wedding party??

I was just wondering how long your fiance waited until he asked the guys to be in the wedding!! Mine keeps dragging his feet and it is driving me nuts!! He is only have 3 guys so this isn't a hard thing to do!! The only problem is the BM and MOH are getting divorced now and he has asked the husband to be the bestman but he was going to but now not sure!! Just wondering thanks girls

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My fiance said he's not asking until the last possible minute! I want to strangle him! He says he wants to make sure he has no doubts about who he asks...unlike me, who sometimes wonders why I even bothered having BM's...they seem to vanish as soon as you ask!

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I asked them right after I got engaged. Best man is my younger brother, then my older brother, a friend I've had for years, and my FW's younger brother. Pretty easy for me.

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My fi wants to wait until 6 months before the wedding, BUT, we had an engagment party, and we invited our families, and people in the bp so I'm sure they just assume... I wish he would just ask them..

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He has one more friend he wants to ask. What the Hell is he waiting for I want to know.

He keeps saying he's gonna ask him when he see's him but he hasnt.

He will eventually I am sure

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MY FH hasn't even asked his Best Man yet! The rest he asked about 5 months after we got engaged. He's also waiting til the last possible minute to ask the BM!

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We're only having a Best Man and a MOH and we asked them both 2 weeks ago, so basically 8 months before the wedding.

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We're getting married in five months and he still hasn't even asked his own brother.

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He thinks they know they will have to be in it already. He has to formally ask 1 more usher.

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My fiance is still waiting to ask my brother. And my brother asked if he was going to be asked. I wish I had waited because I regret someone I asked, she turned out to be beackstabbing me to family!!!!!! I wish she would disappear!!!!!!!!!!

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my dh did the same thing i kept hounding him untill he finally did it

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mine waited forever.. he doesnt like "ranking" people, as he calls it..
about a year after we were engaged...

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lol all men are the same!! FH told his brother and one of his cousins, I told my sister who told my brother in law lol - then he finally told my brother two weeks ago and he still hasnt asked his other 2 cousins... " he's calling this week"

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We discussed this before calling everyone to tell them we got engaged. Then we called our bridal party and let them know of our engagement and we then asked them to be in our wedding. It was all done the same day as our actual engagement.

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My FH literally asked his best man and all groomsmen BEFORE he proposed to me! He said he was so excited that he was going to ask that he had to tell his friends!