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long vent..MOH from HELL

TinaTan Posted: Feb 24, 2004 03:43 PM+

TinaTan MEMBER SINCE: 12/03 TOTAL POSTS : 86 WEDDING DATE: Aug 14, 2004

Posted: Feb 24, 2004 03:43 PM

long vent..MOH from HELL

Hi,girls...
I just need to vent. My MOH just informed me that she will not be attending my bachelorette party b/c her family is planning a trip to Asia during the same time. I'm soo upset given that we spoken months in advance about this and June seemed to be okay with everyone. Plus, she didn't even buy her ticket to Asia yet so i don't see what the problem is changing the dates. Am i being insentivtive about this?
I know she feels bad about not going because she's offering to help me look on-line for the best deals for the bachelorette party in MIAMI...what B.S.!!!!

p.s. i forgot to add that she hated the whole south beach idea anyway. so i'm sure she's not bummed that she's not going.

Sage10.03 Posted: Feb 24, 2004 04:00 PM+

Sage10.03 MEMBER SINCE: 11/02 TOTAL POSTS : 4365 WEDDING DATE: Jan 01, 2011

Posted: Feb 24, 2004 04:00 PM

Re: long vent..MOH from HELL

If she is going with her family, she may not have a choice in the dates....
Can you possibly move the date of your bachelorette party? If it's in June, it seems like you have plenty of time to change it???

I would be bummed that my MOH couldn't make it, but I wouldn't be mad AT her...some things you just can't avoid...and a family trip to Asia might be one of them....

Bebalina Posted: Feb 24, 2004 04:15 PM+

Bebalina MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 4892 WEDDING DATE: May 14, 2005

Posted: Feb 24, 2004 04:15 PM

Re: long vent..MOH from HELL

You have every right to be upset....what a B$#@&

xcuse me pardon my french

mrswask Posted: Feb 24, 2004 05:04 PM+

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Posted: Feb 24, 2004 05:04 PM

Re: long vent..MOH from HELL

Posted by Sage10.03

If she is going with her family, she may not have a choice in the dates....
Can you possibly move the date of your bachelorette party? If it's in June, it seems like you have plenty of time to change it???

I would be bummed that my MOH couldn't make it, but I wouldn't be mad AT her...some things you just can't avoid...and a family trip to Asia might be one of them....

I agree - can you move your bachelorette party? It's not as if she is giving some lame-o excuse for not coming to your party! Good luck - if it's that important to you that she's there - i would try to change it.

AJsMommy122 Posted: Feb 24, 2004 05:06 PM+

AJsMommy122 MEMBER SINCE: 12/03 TOTAL POSTS : 10711 WEDDING DATE: Feb 20, 2005

Posted: Feb 24, 2004 05:06 PM

Re: long vent..MOH from HELL

Posted by mrswask

Posted by Sage10.03

If she is going with her family, she may not have a choice in the dates....
Can you possibly move the date of your bachelorette party? If it's in June, it seems like you have plenty of time to change it???

I would be bummed that my MOH couldn't make it, but I wouldn't be mad AT her...some things you just can't avoid...and a family trip to Asia might be one of them....

I agree - can you move your bachelorette party? It's not as if she is giving some lame-o excuse for not coming to your party! Good luck - if it's that important to you that she's there - i would try to change it.

I Agree.. tell her its important to you that she be there and that you are willing to change the dates around maybe... then if she makes another exuse or basically tells you to have it without her.. move on and dont let her bother you.