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I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

nov2004bride Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:07 PM+

nov2004bride MEMBER SINCE: 8/03 TOTAL POSTS : 4661 WEDDING DATE: Nov 05, 2004

Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:07 PM

I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

I am moving into Nassau County when I get married so I had to change my dentist. Well, I decided to go to me ex-boyfriend. He was my dentist for a couple of years and his work is awesome. I am so nervous and I know I shouldn't be but I am. I also am stressing out about what to wear. What is wrong with me? I just wanted to share because it helps when it is written out

allure Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:11 PM+

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Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:11 PM

Re: I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

Well does Fh know about this?
How weird is this gonna be for you?

Good Luck keep us posted

nov2004bride Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:16 PM+

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Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:16 PM

Re: I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

I asked my FI and he asked his wife. I have always kept in contact with him via e-mail and my father sees him every week. It is definetly going to be weird at first. It's weird because do we shake hands or hug? It is so strange but I am doing it to myself. I will let you know how weird it get's

I better to get to sleep so I don't have bags under my eyes

allure Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:20 PM+

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Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:20 PM

Re: I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

Good night Allison

wc0143 Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:26 PM+

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Posted: Apr 02, 2004 11:26 PM

Re: I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

LOL!! Pretty funny - my ex is my dentist & I ended sending FH to him. So maybe it's just funny to me.

Every time I go for a cleaning, I stress for a minute about what to wear, do I have a pimple, etc but seriously get over it quickly!

I will say I was supposed to go for a cleaning in Feb but had to cancel because of work & other stuff. Now I actually FEEL like I NEED a cleaning but I am not making an appt before the wedding cause to me it would be weird. Like would he think I was giving him his last chance? Or was I trying to rub it in his face? Blah blah blah. Anyway, hate to say it, but I think we women *think* too much about this kind of stuff sometimes!!

Nora101004 Posted: Apr 03, 2004 09:41 PM+

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Posted: Apr 03, 2004 09:41 PM

Re: I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

Brush your teeth before you go. I bet your FH is glad he's not an obgyn!!!!

wc0143 Posted: Apr 03, 2004 09:42 PM+

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Posted: Apr 03, 2004 09:42 PM

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Posted by Nora101004

Brush your teeth before you go. I bet your FH is glad he's not an obgyn!!!!

OMG - TOO FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

butterfly20 Posted: Apr 04, 2004 12:30 AM+

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Posted: Apr 04, 2004 12:30 AM

Re: I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

hope it goes ok......

just remember, your engaged and marrying your fiance, so there is no need to worry about what you look like or anything!

cocoa Posted: Apr 04, 2004 12:43 AM+

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Posted: Apr 04, 2004 12:43 AM

Re: I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

Posted by Nora101004

Brush your teeth before you go. I bet your FH is glad he's not an obgyn!!!!

nov2004bride Posted: Apr 04, 2004 12:27 PM+

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Posted: Apr 04, 2004 12:27 PM

Re: I am seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 4 years

Well, I went and everything went very well. He was shaking he was so nervous. I broke up with him so I guess it was harder for him. I felt like a celebrity going into the office because everyone knew I was coming. I think it is good that I am going to him because we really never got closure and now we have. I was a lot more relaxed then I thought I would be. I am glad the initial visit is over. Now I need a crown on a tooth that another dentist messed up on so I will have to see him 3 more times next month.

Posted by Nora101004

Brush your teeth before you go. I bet your FH is glad he's not an obgyn!!!!

I'm sure he is very happy