Do you tip the band?

Do you tip every member....how does that work. Also what about the photo and video and their asst. do they all get tips???

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I think usually you tip the band leader, and he/she divies it out.. but if you just LOVED the sax player, etc you can give him/her an extra tip.
JMO

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we tipped $50 per band member

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think you are suppposed to tip each member

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Gosh, another huge expense...I have a 9 piece band...how much should I give each?

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Posted by Chloegirl

Gosh, another huge expense...I have a 9 piece band...how much should I give each?

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oyyy vey.. me too

i have heard 20-30$ a band member but i have also heard more
use your discretion

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If you did not book your band through an agent, don't they split the fee anyway? Is it always necessary to tip them? My band is 10 pieces.

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i don't think i am tipping the band.....i think i am paying them enough already, but that is just me

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Posted by nicknmb

i don't think i am tipping the band.....i think i am paying them enough already, but that is just me

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So glad you said that!

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Posted by nicknmb

i don't think i am tipping the band.....i think i am paying them enough already, but that is just me

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Thats what my FI said...he said they are getting enough!

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I am sorry but I think you should tip the band...

my mother is a musician and they work very hard for the $, believe me... learning new songs, judging the crowds correctly and playing what they want to hear.

If you are paying all this $ for a band, I don't understand why you wouldn't want to do right by them.

I had a 12 piece band... $50 was $600... I set aside $1000 in my budget for tips. I don't think it's right to tip the photographer, the videographer, etc and ignore the band... especially when they are (in my opinion) one of the most important aspects of the day.

I also think it's sort of cheap... we spend on average 20-40k on weddings on Long Island, yet you'll fuss over spending $500 on tips?

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Posted by Sassyz75

I am sorry but I think you should tip the band...

my mother is a musician and they work very hard for the $, believe me... learning new songs, judging the crowds correctly and playing what they want to hear.

If you are paying all this $ for a band, I don't understand why you wouldn't want to do right by them.

I had a 12 piece band... $50 was $600... I set aside $1000 in my budget for tips. I don't think it's right to tip the photographer, the videographer, etc and ignore the band... especially when they are (in my opinion) one of the most important aspects of the day.

I also think it's sort of cheap... we spend on average 20-40k on weddings on Long Island, yet you'll fuss over spending $500 on tips?

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I understand where you are coming from, but bands aren't exactly cheap. Yes, they work hard, but isn't that why they get paid $6,500+?

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Posted by Sassyz75

I am sorry but I think you should tip the band...

my mother is a musician and they work very hard for the $, believe me... learning new songs, judging the crowds correctly and playing what they want to hear.

If you are paying all this $ for a band, I don't understand why you wouldn't want to do right by them.

I had a 12 piece band... $50 was $600... I set aside $1000 in my budget for tips. I don't think it's right to tip the photographer, the videographer, etc and ignore the band... especially when they are (in my opinion) one of the most important aspects of the day.

I also think it's sort of cheap... we spend on average 20-40k on weddings on Long Island, yet you'll fuss over spending $500 on tips?

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i agree with you ... yes it is very expensive and if you are supposed to tip the band then you should

even$25-30 is fine but nothing is not right at all....the music really MAKES OR BREAKS your affair
that is the truth

i don't know what i will give but i am sur eif they do a fantastic job like i expect than they will get as much as they deserve-JMO

you always tip for services
they don't see all of that $7000..the company sees much of it

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Yeah and that $6500 is divided by a few people, and the band leader usually gets a large percentage of that. Band members have a very hard job as well as a high overhead to take care of their instruments and equipment, as well as keeping up to date with modern music, etc.

I think we tip so many people at the wedding- hair dressers, make up artists, photographers, etc- I don't understand why bands wouldn't get tipped?

If you can't afford a band, get a DJ and then you only have to tip 2 people...

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Posted by Sassyz75

Yeah and that $6500 is divided by a few people, and the band leader usually gets a large percentage of that. Band members have a very hard job as well as a high overhead to take care of their instruments and equipment, as well as keeping up to date with modern music, etc.

I think we tip so many people at the wedding- hair dressers, make up artists, photographers, etc- I don't understand why bands wouldn't get tipped?

If you can't afford a band, get a DJ and then you only have to tip 2 people...

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Who said they couldn't afford it, we are just asking questions, you don't have to get nasty!

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I don't plan to tip the band that much - probably $20 each (8 pieces).

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I am not getting nasty.

Just telling it how I see it...

This is the one tip that everyone sees as *optional* and I don't understand why.. yes, there are a lot of band members- but that doesn't mean they should be penalized for it.

It's an issue I take to heart, as my mother usually gets no tip, and no meals because people are so busy spending $40k on a wedding, they can't be bothered to pay $50 for her to eat- so by the time she goes to work, plays and comes home- like 10 hours later- she hasn't eaten one thing and it pisses me off- because they are PEOPLE.. and then she does all this work, sets up, has a nice waredrobe, learns new songs, special for the bride & groom, and then gets no tip.

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Posted by Sassyz75

I am not getting nasty.

Just telling it how I see it...

This is the one tip that everyone sees as *optional* and I don't understand why.. yes, there are a lot of band members- but that doesn't mean they should be penalized for it.

It's an issue I take to heart, as my mother usually gets no tip, and no meals because people are so busy spending $40k on a wedding, they can't be bothered to pay $50 for her to eat- so by the time she goes to work, plays and comes home- like 10 hours later- she hasn't eaten one thing and it pisses me off- because they are PEOPLE.. and then she does all this work, sets up, has a nice waredrobe, learns new songs, special for the bride & groom, and then gets no tip.

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That's pretty bad that someone wouldn't feed the band. I know how I get when I'm hungry. I wouldn't want any of my vendors to feel that way!

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Posted by reed2be

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Posted by Sassyz75

Yeah and that $6500 is divided by a few people, and the band leader usually gets a large percentage of that. Band members have a very hard job as well as a high overhead to take care of their instruments and equipment, as well as keeping up to date with modern music, etc.

I think we tip so many people at the wedding- hair dressers, make up artists, photographers, etc- I don't understand why bands wouldn't get tipped?

If you can't afford a band, get a DJ and then you only have to tip 2 people...

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Who said they couldn't afford it, we are just asking questions, you don't have to get nasty!

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My thought exactly. I have no problem affording a band. Tipping is not mandatory, it is suggested. If you don't want to tip, you don't have to.