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WHen the HELL did my guest list get to be so big??!! (VENT)

nsgraham Posted: May 13, 2004 05:37 PM+

nsgraham MEMBER SINCE: 10/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2267 WEDDING DATE: May 30, 2004

Posted: May 13, 2004 05:37 PM

WHen the HELL did my guest list get to be so big??!! (VENT)

We have 161 people coming so far - it might get up to 165! My budget was for 120! I could KILL my family, and FI's family - We just had to keep inviting people, and inviting people, and people they thought would definetely say no are saying yes, and everyone's being cagey about finding the MONEY for these extra 45 people!

I RAN OUT OF INVITES, and had to MAKE NEW ONES. And FI's mom would be like - why didn't you just mail so and so's invite out, what's taking so long? And we're answer - because we have to MAKE EACH ONE BRAND NEW!

And we have to have 3-4 more centerpieces, and 20+ more favors.

Just shoot me please.

bridzilla Posted: May 13, 2004 05:40 PM+

bridzilla MEMBER SINCE: 12/03 TOTAL POSTS : 671 WEDDING DATE: Aug 27, 2004

Posted: May 13, 2004 05:40 PM

Re: WHen the HELL did my guest list get to be so big??!! (VENT)

I can see why you have so many

icons. I have no advice, but I'm sorry your guest list has gotten so big. I'd be fuming too.

JZNCK Posted: May 13, 2004 05:41 PM+

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Posted: May 13, 2004 05:41 PM

Re: WHen the HELL did my guest list get to be so big??!! (VENT)

SORRY NADINE..
Unfortunately EVERYONE LOVES YOU.. Look at it that way.. lol.. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!

june262004 Posted: May 13, 2004 05:42 PM+

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Posted: May 13, 2004 05:42 PM

Re: WHen the HELL did my guest list get to be so big??!! (VENT)

I FEEL URE PAIN. Im freaking out too. when we first started this. We had like 150-200 The room will only hold 230 Our list is 288 Everyday I am CRAPING myself when the mail comes. Praying for NO'S!

suven Posted: May 13, 2004 05:56 PM+

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Posted: May 13, 2004 05:56 PM

Re: WHen the HELL did my guest list get to be so big??!! (VENT)

We budgeted for 150 and ended up with 125.

I wish I had extra people. We're really sad because no one can/no one wants to make it to the wedding

mrswask Posted: May 13, 2004 05:56 PM+

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Posted: May 13, 2004 05:56 PM

Re: WHen the HELL did my guest list get to be so big??!! (VENT)

I don't have any advice but I just wanted to say that I am sorry and hang in there!!!

JimmysBride Posted: May 13, 2004 06:00 PM+

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Posted: May 13, 2004 06:00 PM

Re: WHen the HELL did my guest list get to be so big??!! (VENT)

OMG!!! Poor Nadine!!!

I'm sorry your family is doing this to you but it will all work out somehow!!

myasmom Posted: May 13, 2004 07:16 PM+

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Posted: May 13, 2004 07:16 PM

Re: WHen the HELL did my guest list get to be so big??!! (VENT)

We are like 30+ over so I can feel your pain too. But its nice to know you are loved. Everyone tells us we get extra gifts but honestly I would rather have saved the $$$.

molly25 Posted: May 13, 2004 09:11 PM+

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Posted: May 13, 2004 09:11 PM