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WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??
holly231 Posted: May 27, 2004 08:54 PM+
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WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

I still have not picked out any...I am having a hard time loving any....


ANd, when I do order, how long does it take to come in??
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RedHead Posted: May 27, 2004 08:57 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

I picked mine out on sunday and i am ordering tomorrow!

I want to send mine out first or second week in July

I was told it takes about 2-3 weeks to come in
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1017Bride Posted: May 27, 2004 09:03 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

I am thinking of looking at invitations next week and hope to order them in the next week or two.
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fallinlove04 Posted: May 27, 2004 09:04 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

we got our proofs and checked them which took a couple of days, and then we orderd them and the invites came in a week. i was very suprised...i haven't picked them up yet...we will most likely send them out around august 16th for our october 23rd wedding.
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Stacey04 Posted: May 27, 2004 09:39 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

I;m getting married the end of November, I already got my invites. It was hard for us to pick one so I figured since we did I didn't want them discontinued or anything. I;m sending mine out in the middle of Sep.

It depends when you want your RSVP to when you send them out..
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holly231 Posted: May 27, 2004 09:41 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

How do we decide when we want the RSVP date?? DO we have to find out when the hall needs the count or somethign? I am sooo clueless!
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Stacey04 Posted: May 27, 2004 10:21 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

Sometimes it says in your contract, but probably anywhere from 1-4 weeks before.

I made my rsvp date 6 or 7 weeks before my wedding. I want to have plently of time reserved for late responses, making place cards and we may wait to order our favors, depending on what we decide to give. I don;t want to have a bunch of favors left over.

Also doing seating..I'm not sure how long that will take, but I;m sure it will take some thought!
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holly231 Posted: May 27, 2004 10:24 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

yes, I think I want 5 weeks for RSVP...seasting charts, etc!
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Stacey04 Posted: May 27, 2004 10:25 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

Don't forget about late people.
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RedHead Posted: May 27, 2004 10:27 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

mine will be 1-2 week in aug!...I have a lot of OOT'ers who i don't think will be coming, so we have a B-list..
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tourist Posted: May 27, 2004 11:08 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??


Posted by holly231

yes, I think I want 5 weeks for RSVP...seasting charts, etc!



That's what I did.
Wedding October 9
RSVP September 4
plan to send last weekof July ( the 26th30th)so that they will arrive around 8/4.

I orderd them about two weeks ago. They came in 9 days.( this tuesday! yay!)
I know that was alittle early, but I foudn oens I liked, so why not?

I am going to send them to the calligrapher by the end of June, to allow 2 week to get them back & 2 weeks to assemble them.

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whb2004 Posted: May 27, 2004 11:40 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

i'm sending mine out in july...maybe mid july. my rsvp date will be august 21st...that is lots of time, but i don't care! :)
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Stavia Posted: May 27, 2004 11:48 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

We sent ours out in the beginning of July w/ our wedding on 10/3 & our rsvp date 9/3. We had a lot of OOT, so we wanted them to have ample time.
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SandraLynn Posted: May 28, 2004 08:14 AM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

For October 1st - I already have my invites (got them in last month)...all I know I had my RSVP date Aug 18 (dad's birthday)...i forgot when I planned on sending them out, I have to Call Laura (LAProductions) to remind me (can't remember everything, can I?)....
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cluelessbride Posted: May 28, 2004 08:29 AM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

Holly we are a week apart, and I'm sending mine the first week of September. I think about 6-8 weeks is good, with more than 8 weeks a little too far away.

If you order your invites by late June you should be ok.
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cluelessbride Posted: May 28, 2004 08:30 AM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

Your rsvp date is August 18 for your 10/1 wedding?

Is that the usual amount of time? If so, I am in trouble (I wrote 2 weeks before I need the final count for the caterer - or 3 weeks before the wedding).

Holy mackeral - reading everyone's responses I see I am really out of the oridinary. Then again, I'm not having assigned seating, so I guess that makes a difference.
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oakslady Posted: May 28, 2004 02:20 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

i sent mine last week -
but alot of them are overseas so i wanted extra time
eta our response date - september 18
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peabody Posted: May 28, 2004 03:21 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

I am going to send them out last week of June, first week of July. I made the RSVP date Aug 23.

September is a really busy month for me at work, so I want hat last week of August to deal with people who didn't respond.

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SeptemberBride03 Posted: May 28, 2004 03:29 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

You should mail them two months before your date. That being said, start to look for them now - some places take longer than others to get them in and you don't want to not be able to get one you like.
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gtbride04 Posted: May 28, 2004 03:47 PM+
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Re: WEDDING IN OCTOBER--WHEN DO I SEND INVITES??

Hey there another 10/17 bride! I have looked at a lot but have yet to find the one! Hopefully I will decide by early June and place the order then... Good Luck
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