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Repost from BHB: Do I really need to send a thank you for this?
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suven
Sunny skies on my wedding day!
Member since 8/03 5968 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/30/2004 2:00 PM
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Leonard's of Great Neck: A
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Repost from BHB: Do I really need to send a thank you for this?
My grandmother (on my Dad's side) sent me a card for the wedding with a little religious card inside of it.
She did not attend the wedding, and sent her decline in a week after the RSVP.
For the shower, which she did not attend, she sent a check for $25. And, I sent her a nice thank you card and included photos from the shower.
I am pretty upset that she did not send a wedding gift (I think it's because I am not speaking to my father and she wanted me to call him up and get him to come to the wedding- which I did not do)
But, 2 of my aunts (her daughter's) did send gifts, so I wanted to send them thank-yous, with some photos and a favor.
but, if I do that, but not send anything to my grandmother, I think it may make her mad...
But, I don't think it's fair that I should have to send her a thank-you when she didn't even send me a gift in the first place...
thoughts?
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Posted 7/2/04 4:16 PM 
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HearzBellz
Always a bridesmaid 3x over
Member since 4/03 10390 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/9/2004 1:00 PM
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Harbor Club
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Re: Repost from BHB: Do I really need to send a thank you for this?
I dunno, but I think I might send a thank-you...if you have enough. I ama lla bout trying to be the bigger person these days, b/c a lot of drama came out of my wedding. JMHO
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Posted 7/2/04 4:18 PM
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suven
Sunny skies on my wedding day!
Member since 8/03 5968 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/30/2004 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck: A
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Re: Repost from BHB: Do I really need to send a thank you for this?
Posted by HearzBellz
I dunno, but I think I might send a thank-you...if you have enough. I ama lla bout trying to be the bigger person these days, b/c a lot of drama came out of my wedding. JMHO
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Posted 7/2/04 4:42 PM
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janwinterbridejoy
islanders season
Member since 12/03 6844 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/9/2004 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
chateau briandA+
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Re: Repost from BHB: Do I really need to send a thank you for this?
i agree i would be the bigger person as well and just send her thank you.
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Posted 7/2/04 4:49 PM
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Sandy&Ben
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Member since 2/03 621 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/22/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Land's End
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Re: Repost from BHB: Do I really need to send a thank you for this?
Send the thank-you. 2 minutes of your time is not worth a long battle with your grandmother.
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Posted 7/2/04 5:11 PM
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