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Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?

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suven
Sunny skies on my wedding day!

Member since 8/03

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Wedding Date:
5/30/2004 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck: A

Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?

So, I don't want to actually say "not invited" because that just sounds mean...

But, I recently discovered that I had a wedding guest who was 'not on the invite list'.

I didn't realize it. And, nope, he didnt' take anyone else's spot. His parents told him that since he was in the area, and always carries a tux in his car (he's a musician), that he should stop by. Well, he was VERY nice, and he enjoyed everything: the cocktail hour, dinner, desert...

Posted 7/7/04 8:56 AM
 

wc0143
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Wedding Date:
5/1/2004 3:30 PM

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Re: Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?

Did he give you a gift or at least a card for technically crashing?

Posted 7/7/04 11:26 AM
 

CherylBooch
My little man

Member since 1/03

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Wedding Date:
4/17/2004 2:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Milleridge Inn Cottage

Re: Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?

Oh I most certainly did!!!!
He was NOT INVITED whatsoever! He is a friend of my uncle's and grandmother that I can not stand.
And to top it off... He came in JEANS AND A T-SHIRT! I was beyond mad... but I let it slide since I didn't want any drama on my day.
And of course, he showed up with nothing... not even a card!
I was planning to confront him, but since it's been 3 months since my wedding, DH convinced me to just let it go.
Once a loser... ALWAYS a loser.

Posted 7/7/04 11:40 AM
 

sweetadeline
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Wedding Date:
5/28/2004 5:00 PM

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Re: Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?


Posted by CherylBooch

Oh I most certainly did!!!!
He was NOT INVITED whatsoever! He is a friend of my uncle's and grandmother that I can not stand.
And to top it off... He came in JEANS AND A T-SHIRT! I was beyond mad... but I let it slide since I didn't want any drama on my day.
And of course, he showed up with nothing... not even a card!
I was planning to confront him, but since it's been 3 months since my wedding, DH convinced me to just let it go.
Once a loser... ALWAYS a loser.



WOW! That's a LOT of nerve!!!!

I didn't have anyone who wasn't invited show up, but I did have two people who said "no" appear at the wedding. Didn't mind at all, really -- I was just happy to see them. Plus, they took the place of two people who said they were coming and then DIDN'T!

Posted 7/7/04 12:59 PM
 
 

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