Poll: What part of the planning did you hate the most?

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Re: Poll: What part of the planning did you hate the most?

Guest List!!!! I was so hard to decide who and who not to invite!!

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The part I think I least enjoyed is the photogrsphy, we looked at soooo many before we found the perfect one.

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I also hated the invitation part. I couldn't find anything that I liked.

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Reception hall... That's where so much of the money I don't have will go... its nerve wracking.

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Just got back from a day of HELL picking invitations... so that tops my list of most hated planning activities!

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I too pick photography. It is stressful because they are a lot of money. The wedding is a one time/one day only thing...can't go back if the pictures don't come out.

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Hair and make-up BY FAR! I am procrastinating STILL! I just don't even know where to start

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The guest list, that's what I'm working on now, and its driving me crazy!

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RSVP's...waiting for them, asking for them, talking to guests who wanted to bring extra people...

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The worst for me is flowers- because i cannot even meet a floris in their shop without getting horribly sick - so i have to try to arrange all flower appointments out of the shop which is hard.

I also am having trouble with invitations- i can not find what i want but i enjoy looking

The place where i luck out is the guest list becaus ef my mom - my dad's list was pretty bad but she got him to realize this day is about me and my Fi and not him and decided to take 50 people off the list

sorry so long

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to be honest- - I answered photo/ video b/c thats where my fi got involved.

I have to day that I haven't enjoyed much of any of this planning. Except for the info I get here. Other then that its been PURE stress.

As far as the guest list- we are paying for the wedding ourselves and feel I still have no input.

Planning this has not been what I expected-


Can I say - honeymoon!

Re: Poll: What part of the planning did you hate the most?

my guest list is out of control

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The guest list definitely caused the most disagreements and anxiety in our relationship.

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the seating chart it is the worst part of the planning process.

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I haven't really had any planning that I hate. FH and I are paying for the wedding so the guest list was easy for us to decide.

I loved shopping for my dress, photographer, videographer, invitations etc...

I HATE WAITING!!!

Re: Poll: What part of the planning did you hate the most?

None of those were really the worst part for me... for me it was the DJ ( I had to drive all the way to Bayridge Brooklyn before I finally found someone that could do what I wanted) and making stuff ... which I still have to do! Dreading making the programs, the menus, the votive placecards, but ribbon wands were fun.

Ah, yes, and chasing after the BMs to get their stuff done. You'd think they were a bunch of 8 year olds.

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We constantly stressed over the guest list! In the end it all worked out, but we had grief with each other, our budget and both sets of parents

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The flowers. I hated spending all that money on the flowers....I had to have them but felt they were the biggest waste of money.

On a good note...they came out goregous!

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okm they aren't oin teh lsit, but finding a church & picking BM's dresses were the hardest for me.

I haven't done the seating arrangements yet though. . .

The church was hard becaue we don't belong to one & couldn't join one because we live in Westchester, & we tried to go Catholic first, b/c we thought that's what our families wanted, so we called around & all the rejections upset me, then we found one & i was miserable so we had to start all over with Episcopal churches & got a few rejections, but we are very happy with the one we chose.

The BM dresses were a pain b/c both my MOH & my BM are out of state. And my MOH was really busy at the time so it was taking so long for us to each go & chek out something the other one found , we went back & forth so many times before we found something.