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I am so mad...(VENT)
MrsBrad Posted: Aug 09, 2004 01:51 AM+
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I am so mad...(VENT)

Long story short... my aunt is a hairdresser, way back in December I was talking to my other aunt and told her that I thought I wanted to have my hair done by a wedding hairsylists. This aunt went and told the hairdresser that I didnt want her to do my hair... then I decided I actually wanted my aunt and when I went to ask her to do my hair she flipped out on me.

I felt so bad for hurting my aunt (the hairdressers feelings) like that - but I hadnt really meant what I said BACK IN DECEMBER. Oh, I AM FUMING .... why does my other aunt feel the need to start drama! I told her that in confidence!! Did she really think any good would come out of that conversation?? I am never talking to her about anything personal again...

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Boop2704 Posted: Aug 09, 2004 08:52 AM+
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Re: I am so mad...(VENT)

Tell her you said that because she is going to be a guest at your wedding and you didn't want to rush her or put pressure on her that day, so you were looking at what other options could be. Tell her you never said you were going to another person, it was just an idea thrown out there.

Good Luck!!!
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prncssrachel Posted: Aug 09, 2004 08:54 AM+
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Re: I am so mad...(VENT)


Posted by Boop2704

Tell her you said that because she is going to be a guest at your wedding and you didn't want to rush her or put pressure on her that day, so you were looking at what other options could be. Tell her you never said you were going to another person, it was just an idea thrown out there.

Good Luck!!!



I agree!
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MrsBrad Posted: Aug 09, 2004 10:04 AM+
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Re: I am so mad...(VENT)


Posted by 121502


Posted by Boop2704

Tell her you said that because she is going to be a guest at your wedding and you didn't want to rush her or put pressure on her that day, so you were looking at what other options could be. Tell her you never said you were going to another person, it was just an idea thrown out there.

Good Luck!!!



I agree!



Tried that -she told me it was her decision to decide whether she wanted to or not. I also explaoined that I was aware that the wedding it at 1030 am and she needs to do everyone's hair in the family (like 15 people) BLAH
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BCTM33 Posted: Aug 09, 2004 10:13 AM+
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Re: I am so mad...(VENT)

Why do people always start drama?! May be your Mom (or Dad - whoever's sister it is)could speak with your Aunt and explain the situation? Good Luck!
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MrsBrad Posted: Aug 09, 2004 06:48 PM+
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Re: I am so mad...(VENT)


Posted by BCTM33

Why do people always start drama?! May be your Mom (or Dad - whoever's sister it is)could speak with your Aunt and explain the situation? Good Luck!



My mom did, without talking to me, and it escalated.... blah blah blah


I WANT TO ELOPE!!
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prncssrachel Posted: Aug 09, 2004 06:51 PM+
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Re: I am so mad...(VENT)

Oh, Revert to the Bridezilla escape....Start crying really loud and screaming: THIS IS MY DAY! WHY CAN'T I JUST BE HAPPY?!?!?!?! Just scare them
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