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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer

Member since 7/04 3999 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/30/2006 6:00 PM
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SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
Hi ladies,
After looking at a lot of halls and then running the numbers, we nearly decided to just elope.
As a lot of you know, I almost booked Jericho Terrace but the expense of it all and some posts on the newlywed board stopped me in my tracks. We agreed to scrap the initial wedding plans but I realized that I really do want a wedding. I just can't bring myself to elope or to spend $20K - $25K.
So, my proposed solution is an all inclusive wedding package. Now my task is to get all the info for any such halls in the area.
Can anyone tell me more about Brentwood Country Club??? I know it's in Suffolk and we had previously limited ourselves to Nassau County since we live in Brooklyn. But I am one to travel for a good deal.
I know Brentwood has a package for $8995 + 18% (ETA: 15%) service charge (for off season) for 100 guests including photo/video, all flowers, DJ, limos, invites, cocktail hour & reception.
I understand that BCC credits like $700 - $1,000 if there photo/video is not used but that is definitely not enough to use anyone else - OR IS IT? Any photo/video packages for $1,000 - $1,500?
Thanks much
Message edited 9/15/2004 9:30:33 PM.
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Posted 9/15/04 7:24 PM
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maralynne
Board Enthusiast

Member since 9/04 134 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/4/2004 4:30 PM
Wed. Location: Med Manor, Patchogue
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
hey i just got online and replied to your fm also try marconi manor in the islip area!! check your fm!! Good luck Tami... I'll see if i still have my reception research book somewere around here!!!
Message edited 9/15/2004 7:36:17 PM.
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Posted 9/15/04 7:35 PM
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MamanDaddyof2
We are so Lucky

Member since 6/04 1769 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/18/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Westbury Manor
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
actually the photo guy (HILITE STUDIOS) is really good I have seen his work before i even went to see him to book for my wedding
there are quite a few places that have all inclusive pkges
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Posted 9/15/04 7:38 PM
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AndreaLMT
Ahhhhh.....

Member since 12/03 2858 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/14/2004 2:30 PM
Wed. Location: Atlantica
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
Hi! My Future Cousin-in-Law got married at Brentwood CC last year- it was a wonderful wedding. She is the one who actually introduced me to LIW. I'm sure she wouldn't mind if you FM'd her with any questions...Her LIW name is :
oneday
Good Luck!
Message edited 9/15/2004 7:46:45 PM.
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Posted 9/15/04 7:46 PM
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mikeysgirl
Board Fanatic
Member since 11/03 387 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/24/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: fox hollow-recom
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
The package at BCC is $8995.00 for 100 people plus 15% service and sales tax. although the price is mainly for off-season such as Jan, Feb, Dec. You can also find a date or so throughout the year for that price. I.E. Sundays
And I also know that if you don't use one of their vendors they give you credit.
Good Luck!!!!
Message edited 9/15/2004 8:04:31 PM.
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Posted 9/15/04 8:00 PM
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janwinterbridejoy
islanders season

Member since 12/03 6844 total posts
Wedding Date: 1/9/2004 2:30 PM
Wed. Location: chateau briandA+
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
doesnt ariana waterfall have all inclusive packages as well and there in nassau closer to brooklyn.
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Posted 9/15/04 8:10 PM
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hbradio
Our board is gone :-(

Member since 11/03 9841 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/29/2005 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: Chateau Briand
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
Douglaston Manor has an all inclusive package too.
I dont understand - are you eloping or not!?!?! You are so lucky to have sat down and thought this through either way. I wish I did!
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Posted 9/15/04 8:15 PM
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mosh913
Board Fanatic

Member since 11/03 619 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/1/2004 3:30 PM
Wed. Location: Milleridge Cottage
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
My sis got married there in Dec. '00, and it was wonderful. FM me if you want anymore details. The DJ they had was great. I wonder if the place still uses them.
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Posted 9/15/04 8:17 PM
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May2704bride
And I'm supposed to say wha???

Member since 9/03 1073 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/27/2004 6:30 PM
Wed. Location: Fox Hollow
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
Posted by janwinterbridejoy
doesnt ariana waterfall have all inclusive packages as well and there in nassau closer to brooklyn.
ditto
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Posted 9/15/04 8:29 PM
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dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!

Member since 2/04 8534 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/11/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location: Water Mill
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
Its in suffolk but Mediterrian Manor offers a similair deal for about the same price...
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Posted 9/15/04 8:33 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer

Member since 7/04 3999 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/30/2006 6:00 PM
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
Posted by AndreaLMT
Hi! My Future Cousin-in-Law got married at Brentwood CC last year- it was a wonderful wedding. She is the one who actually introduced me to LIW. I'm sure she wouldn't mind if you FM'd her with any questions...Her LIW name is :
oneday
Good Luck!
Thanks so much. I have been sending and getting FM from Pam for a couple of days. LOL
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Posted 9/15/04 8:37 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer

Member since 7/04 3999 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/30/2006 6:00 PM
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake) - I just want to show up with my dress
You ladies are AWESOME!!!!
FI is fine with eloping in Hawaii but I just can't do it. I would not feel right if my family is not there - at least mom, dad, sis, bro, grandma, best friend of 25 years and 2 favorite uncles. One uncle does not fly and my mom says Hawaii is expensive and a 13 hour flight with a layover (from Virginia) so she is not feeling that idea either.
I had Mexico in mind (Royal Hideaway) but again (uncle that does not fly - military thing from Vietnam I think) and FI's brother complained so much about the price and travel involved that FI gave in. We priced it at $1500 pp for Royal Hideaway - which we absolutely loved when we visited this year (my second trip to the resort).
FI did not like Ariana Waterfall (on the web site since we did not visit). I will try to get him to at least visit the place as well as Brentwood Country Club, Med Manor, Douglaston Manor and Holbrook Country Club. From what I gather, they all have all inclusive packages for about $10,000 for 100 people.
Thanks ladies.
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Posted 9/15/04 8:46 PM
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LIJuneBride
Jesse's mom!

Member since 9/03 2152 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/26/2004 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Areca
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
I believe the Holiday Inn in Plainview also has an all-inclusive package. That's Nassau so that's closer to you.
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Posted 9/15/04 9:06 PM
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Boop2704
It's A Sickness!
Member since 3/03 6050 total posts
Wedding Date: 2/7/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Stuart Thomas Manor A+++++++
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
I just FM'd you about Stuart Thomas and a lot of info on packages. Hope it all helps!!
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Posted 9/15/04 9:09 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer

Member since 7/04 3999 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/30/2006 6:00 PM
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
Posted by LIJuneBride
I believe the Holiday Inn in Plainview also has an all-inclusive package. That's Nassau so that's closer to you.
Great. Thanks. I am adding them to the list. (ETA: sent e-mail about the package and expect to hear back by the end of the week).
Message edited 9/15/2004 9:32:55 PM.
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Posted 9/15/04 9:10 PM
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daisy122
Board Fanatic

Member since 8/02 417 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/29/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Tall Grass Country Club
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
CHECK OUT HOLBROOK COUNTRY CLUB
THEY HAVE A SEP PACKAGE THAT INCLUDES PHOTO/VIDEO/DJ/LIMO
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Posted 9/15/04 9:16 PM
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lilacwine
In-between days

Member since 9/04 1471 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/14/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: booked
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
My parents' friends' son got married at BCC in January '00 or '01 (I don't recall which). They did the all-inclusive package so they didn't have to spend time worrying about details.
My parents said it was nice -- not fancy, but they didn't have anything negative to say about it.
I'm so proud of you for being real about finances! If my FH and I didn't have such large families, I'd consider a package, too. It kills me that this one day (albiet a special day) will cost more than my car.
good luck and please keep us posted!
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Posted 9/15/04 9:16 PM
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btrflygrl
Counting My Blessings

Member since 7/03 11106 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/6/2004 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Timber Point Country Club
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
a coworker of mine got married at Brentwood and RAVED about it!! Food, service, location...all great....and the directions don't take you through the "bad" part of Brentwood
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Posted 9/15/04 9:18 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer

Member since 7/04 3999 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/30/2006 6:00 PM
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
Posted by btrflygrl
a coworker of mine got married at Brentwood and RAVED about it!! Food, service, location...all great....and the directions don't take you through the "bad" part of Brentwood
Oh my God! Is this place is a bad neighborhood? I'm not concerned since I have lived in Brooklyn long enough to handle most situaitons but my family will be traveling from VA and they are not used to NY at all.
Should I be worried?
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Posted 9/15/04 9:23 PM
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rrdm782004
Board Fanatic

Member since 4/04 610 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/28/2004 11:00 AM
Wed. Location: The Huntington Townhouse
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
If you are looking for affordable Photography let me know. I got married at the Huntington Townhouse my entire wedding cost me $13,000 for 133 people that included my dress, invitations, doves, photography, video, deejay and limo. Check me outwww.flicksphotography.com
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Posted 9/15/04 9:41 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer

Member since 7/04 3999 total posts
Wedding Date: 3/30/2006 6:00 PM
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
Posted by lilacwine
My parents' friends' son got married at BCC in January '00 or '01 (I don't recall which). They did the all-inclusive package so they didn't have to spend time worrying about details.
My parents said it was nice -- not fancy, but they didn't have anything negative to say about it.
I'm so proud of you for being real about finances! If my FH and I didn't have such large families, I'd consider a package, too. It kills me that this one day (albiet a special day) will cost more than my car.
good luck and please keep us posted!
Glad there is nothing negative about BCC.
FI keeps saying it's "our day" but I am more about the expense of it all.
I am just as sentimental as the next woman (I hope LOL) but I do not see it as "our day" to blow $20K+. I want to be surrounded by family and friends but not to the tune of $20K or even $15K if I can help it.
I can relate about the car. FI bought a nice one for what I think is a ridiculous price to get from point A to point B but he is really into cars (FFIL was a mechanic and FI helped in the shop a lot and went to school to learn to fix cars in a former life). I cna't imagine spending that kind of $$ on a car - or a wedding. LOL
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Posted 9/15/04 9:42 PM
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rrdm782004
Board Fanatic

Member since 4/04 610 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/28/2004 11:00 AM
Wed. Location: The Huntington Townhouse
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
If you need help with anything FM
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Posted 9/15/04 9:44 PM
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lilacwine
In-between days

Member since 9/04 1471 total posts
Wedding Date: 5/14/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: booked
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
Overall, Brentwood's not great. The drive from the Sagtikos to BCC should be fine, though. It's definitely worth it to see it for yourself.
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Posted 9/15/04 9:50 PM
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tourist
Beyond Obsession
Member since 12/03 9094 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/9/2004 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: Milleridge Carriage House
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
Not that I'm trying to get rid of you, but would you consider getting maried in Virginia, since that's where your family is? It would probably save you $, from what you've mentioned in the past.
Also, Rainmama scrapped her original NY wedding plans & is getting married at a resort upstate.
She is getting married this weekend, so she might be a little busy, but maybe you could so a search or ask her when she gets back.
Somethinglike that might not be bada idea. A coworker of mine got married at a winery upstate & that was lovely. Not sure about $ though, but I am pretty sure it was less than a winery here, b/c he tried that first.
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Posted 9/15/04 11:13 PM
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akaMrsT
Formally Mrs. T -aka no longer

Member since 7/04 3999 total posts
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Re: SCRAPPING WEDDING PLANS - Need info on Brentwood Country Club & other all inclusive wedding packages (photo/video, DJ, limos, flowers, invites, cake)
Posted by tourist
Not that I'm trying to get rid of you, but would you consider getting maried in Virginia, since that's where your family is? It would probably save you $, from what you've mentioned in the past.
Also, Rainmama scrapped her original NY wedding plans & is getting married at a resort upstate.
She is getting married this weekend, so she might be a little busy, but maybe you could so a search or ask her when she gets back.
Somethinglike that might not be bada idea. A coworker of mine got married at a winery upstate & that was lovely. Not sure about $ though, but I am pretty sure it was less than a winery here, b/c he tried that first.
Yep, checked that out first. The one place I would do it in VA (that no family or friend used) is The Chrsyler Museum. The rental fee is about $3,000 and I would have to use Cuisine and Company caterers. I called the caterer and talked about menu's and pricing - linen rental, flatware and china rental is an extra $10pp. All in all it came out to $55pp plus the site fee. So it is still is the same range as NY. I was shocked!!!! And that is not including open bar. The caterer suggested we bring out own liquor and they would supply bartenders - for a fee.
I also checked another place - Norfolk Botanical Garden. A cousin was married there but I was willing to overlook that since I did not attend that wedding. Ceremony fee is $600 ($500 at the hall in NY) for the garden and the site fee for the reception hall is $3500 for October - the date we want is 10/10/05. Tack on catering for 150 people as well as flowers, photo, video, DJ, limo & tips and it's just as expensive as NY. I thought it would be cheaper too but I was wrong.
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Posted 9/15/04 11:24 PM
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