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I am finally at my breaking point

BriBri529 Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:11 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:11 PM

I am finally at my breaking point

I never thought it would happen but it has- I am SO fed up with wedding planning! Everyone is crazy!!!! Did you know that people get kidnapped when they vacation in MEXICO??? My aunt has my mother convinced that Mexico is a dangerous place to go for a honeymoon because of KIDNAPPING. My mother and I do not get along anymore - we argue CONSTANTLY when it comes to anything wedding related. I am her only daughter and the first to get married, so I think she is having separation anxiety but STILL. I don't get along with my dad because he defends my mom. I SWEAR I am going to go crazy. I love my family, but I have had ENOUGH!!!!!!

and this is just a SMALL portion of why I am at my witts end!!!!!

BriBri529 Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:12 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:12 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

BTW- thanks for letting me vent

KimberlyBride Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:13 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:13 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

Big hugs!!!!!!!

RedHead Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:16 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:16 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

aaawwww sweetie...you are going to go through these crazy phases...but let me tell you...it is all worth it in the end

The whole month before i got married..whenever someone asked me 'are you excited/nervous???'
I replied with a rude NO i just want to get this over with...

TRUST ME...I know a lot of people say this but You day is going to turn out fabulous and all this stress and anxiety goes away!
BIG HUG

OSCARtheGROOM Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:21 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:21 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

Baby... don't worry about it. You and I are so use to this. Once we're married we won't have to worry about the bs anymore.

BriBri529 Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:26 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:26 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

Posted by oct.2004bride

aaawwww sweetie...you are going to go through these crazy phases...but let me tell you...it is all worth it in the end

The whole month before i got married..whenever someone asked me 'are you excited/nervous???'
I replied with a rude NO i just want to get this over with...

TRUST ME...I know a lot of people say this but You day is going to turn out fabulous and all this stress and anxiety goes away!
BIG HUG

Thanks Jen, as always

BriBri529 Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:27 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:27 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

Posted by OSCARtheGROOM

Baby... don't worry about it. You and I are so use to this. Once we're married we won't have to worry about the bs anymore.

Thanks honey

amyandeddie Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:40 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:40 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

It will all be over soon! Lotsa hugs your way!

brooklynbridezilla Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:57 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 07:57 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

BriBri, I am sure you will love your HM!

Vicky1706 Posted: Nov 01, 2004 08:11 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 08:11 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

Posted by OSCARtheGROOM

Baby... don't worry about it. You and I are so use to this. Once we're married we won't have to worry about the bs anymore.

...this is why it is all worth it

Good luck

Dooodles Posted: Nov 01, 2004 08:27 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 08:27 PM

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Princess047 Posted: Nov 01, 2004 08:31 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 08:31 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

I totally understand - my mom is having seperation anxiety also. It's hard for them to let go of their baby's. Sometime's I don't want to get married and wish this whole thing could just go away. I get fed up every week. Everyone is crazy - your right! I guess we are just gonna have to get ustu it.

GoingNutty Posted: Nov 01, 2004 09:52 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 09:52 PM

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nferrandi Posted: Nov 01, 2004 10:47 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 10:47 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

I know its a stressful time, but it will get better. Your parents are just concerned, but I know it can be very overwhelming. As for Mexico, I just got back from my HM in Acapulco and Puerto Vallarta and no body tried to 'kidnap' me and I'm quite cute, if I do say so myself.

allure Posted: Nov 01, 2004 10:52 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 10:52 PM

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peabody Posted: Nov 01, 2004 11:06 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 11:06 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

Posted by BriBri529

I never thought it would happen but it has- I am SO fed up with wedding planning! Everyone is crazy!!!! Did you know that people get kidnapped when they vacation in MEXICO??? My aunt has my mother convinced that Mexico is a dangerous place to go for a honeymoon because of KIDNAPPING. My mother and I do not get along anymore - we argue CONSTANTLY when it comes to anything wedding related. I am her only daughter and the first to get married, so I think she is having separation anxiety but STILL. I don't get along with my dad because he defends my mom. I SWEAR I am going to go crazy. I love my family, but I have had ENOUGH!!!!!!

and this is just a SMALL portion of why I am at my witts end!!!!!

ckgmwedding Posted: Nov 01, 2004 11:26 PM+

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Posted: Nov 01, 2004 11:26 PM

Re: I am finally at my breaking point

You poor baby! That just sucks- you can let your family know that I have been to Mexico like, 25 times and I am still alive if that helps. Feel free to let them FM me.
OH and buy very big ear plugs, trust me it helps

Just a laugh to make you feel better