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we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

junie20002 Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:31 PM+

junie20002 MEMBER SINCE: 10/04 TOTAL POSTS : 589 WEDDING DATE: Nov 15, 2011

Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:31 PM

we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

Hello ladies!!! Well after giving it a lot of thought Tony and I decided not to have a huge wedding, it is not worth it his cousins or out of town relatives never call him not even last yr when he had a serious back surgery, no one cares!!! So We decided that we will get married after the holidays at our convenience only with our close friends and family no big hoopla sure I will still wear a nice dress and we will take pics like we want and do the church thing but the heck with everything else it is stressing us out way too much and what we want is too make it legal not make a party to make everyone else happy. So girls I will let you know when is the big day...as for my deposit we are getting it back there were no hard feelings there. They were understanding and I feel much much happier

LadyPrincess Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:32 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:32 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

the point is -you have your day - your way

congrats to both of you

Borricuamorena0905 Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:32 PM+

Borricuamorena0905 MEMBER SINCE: 8/04 TOTAL POSTS : 2304 WEDDING DATE: Sep 24, 2011

Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:32 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

aww.. Sorry to see you go... Totally understandable.

hbradio Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:33 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:33 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

GOOD DECISION!!!!!

Whatever makes you guys happy!

Will you still stick around the boards!?!?!

alibali Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:35 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:35 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

aww. i'm glad that you'll be able to have your day however you want it, that's the whole point of getting married -- being together. Congrats to both of you!

Jan05Bride Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:35 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:35 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

Your day, your way - congratulations on making a big decision YOURS! Good luck!

Happybride2005 Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:36 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:36 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

your day will still be special

junie20002 Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:36 PM+

junie20002 MEMBER SINCE: 10/04 TOTAL POSTS : 589 WEDDING DATE: Nov 15, 2011

Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:36 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

Posted by Borricuamorena0905

aww.. Sorry to see you go... Totally understandable.

I am not leaving you guys anytime soon!!! now the RUSH is even bigger!!! making my own little invitations tomorrow for the relatives that want one ... and will get a restaurant ASAP for the wedding dinner...
what is best now we can go on a GREAT H/M

( and get a better ring )

Borricuamorena0905 Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:39 PM+

Borricuamorena0905 MEMBER SINCE: 8/04 TOTAL POSTS : 2304 WEDDING DATE: Sep 24, 2011

Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:39 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

Do u know what the new date will be?

junie20002 Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:44 PM+

junie20002 MEMBER SINCE: 10/04 TOTAL POSTS : 589 WEDDING DATE: Nov 15, 2011

Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:44 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

no not sure, honestly this weekend that just past by made me realize that it is not the party that makes you happy, I was ready to call the whole thing off

so we talked and he said 'look is about us ' not about everyone else I still wish to do it on that weekend of May 14 or 15 but not sure I will let you know more details as we tell the today
OMG you ladies are special no one knows but FI and you ladies !!!! maybe you should all be the ones attending our wedding

Happybride2005 Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:46 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 01:46 PM

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we'll be there to support u

May05Bride Posted: Dec 15, 2004 02:06 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 02:06 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

I think its a very wise decision.
You still get to be a princess - or queen... but its with people that REALLY care! I think its a great decision, that is something I keep wishing I did!

DMcK Posted: Dec 15, 2004 02:32 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 02:32 PM

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I am so glad you decided to follow your heart. It will be a wonderful day. I am so happy for you

MrsA814 Posted: Dec 15, 2004 02:42 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 02:42 PM

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I'm glad you followed your heart. I wanted a small one but. My fh said to do what my dreams were when i was little.

Bunnymonkey Posted: Dec 15, 2004 02:49 PM+

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Posted: Dec 15, 2004 02:49 PM

Re: we decided not to have a big wedding!!!!

good for you - you really would have regretted it if that is how you feel and went through with the hoop-la.

Congrats on having GREAT communication with your FH and on having a wedding SOON!!