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BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

dm24angel Posted: Jan 16, 2005 07:47 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2005 07:47 PM

BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

Well after the week I had ( that continues into weekend) I was not ready to handle any more crap...so Commack wedding center called to tell me my BM never picked up her dress, I called her 3 times, no answer or call back.

Then my MOH said, without telling details, this BM was suppossed to go to her house yesterday to give money towards the shower ( final payment for location) and never did, never called etc.

This is COMMON for her, she has never really cared if shes late, doesnt show, doesnt call. There have been times I had to call her for events 15 times before she would call back..shes really a very very selfish person. And I was almost hoping for this, because I wanted this person out of my life...

So I tried callign her 2 more times, then finally told her off in a VM on her phone, asking her not to come to the wedding etc..

THE GOOD NEWS IS- Now I could ask a real friend to take her place so to speak, and one I should have asked in the beginning but due to my stupid feelings of loyalty to the idiot BM I didnt..

My new BM is Jenn- AKA Oct.2004bride..
Exciting that a LIW is gonna be in my BP! Im so excited, shes been a true friend to me since the beginning, and now I'm happy again!!

KimberlyBride Posted: Jan 16, 2005 08:15 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2005 08:15 PM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

So glad it worked out in the end. Yeah that devil BM needed to be cut. Jenn will be a wonderful BM!

marc_rai Posted: Jan 16, 2005 08:40 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2005 08:40 PM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

Did your friend call back after hearing the VM?

LuvMyMichael Posted: Jan 16, 2005 09:31 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2005 09:31 PM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

Glad it is going to work out for you.

halfpintny Posted: Jan 16, 2005 09:55 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2005 09:55 PM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

My motto is life is too short to be miserable. That means sometimes cutting 'dead wood' out of our lives. I'm glad everything is working out for you!

MamanDaddyof2 Posted: Jan 16, 2005 10:01 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2005 10:01 PM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

At least its gonna work out in the end

ssbride05 Posted: Jan 16, 2005 10:18 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2005 10:18 PM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

Congrats!! I am glad things are working out for you!!!!

SomethingBlu Posted: Jan 16, 2005 10:27 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2005 10:27 PM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

Congrats to you and Jenn! So sorry you had to go through this with a friend, but I'm glad you now have a BP that truly cares about you!

Dooodles Posted: Jan 17, 2005 09:00 AM+

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Posted: Jan 17, 2005 09:00 AM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

Congrats on adding Jenn to your BP!! Curious to know if the other BM ever returned your call?

CubanBride Posted: Jan 17, 2005 09:08 AM+

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Posted: Jan 17, 2005 09:08 AM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

LOL! What great irony. I am sure Jenn will be a great BM.

dm24angel Posted: Jan 17, 2005 10:21 AM+

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Posted: Jan 17, 2005 10:21 AM

Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)

Posted by Dooodles

Congrats on adding Jenn to your BP!! Curious to know if the other BM ever returned your call?

Nope she never did. She's famous for this. It's sad because we have been friends a long time but she was never a friend to me, but we had 'fun' times and I guess I based a friendship on that. I Knew I would have trouble fromt he start but I didnt think she would be that selfish to just blow it off..she has no concept of time or others..so this was a good thing all around in the end.