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dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!
Member since 2/04 8534 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Water Mill
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BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
Well after the week I had ( that continues into weekend) I was not ready to handle any more crap...so Commack wedding center called to tell me my BM never picked up her dress, I called her 3 times, no answer or call back.
Then my MOH said, without telling details, this BM was suppossed to go to her house yesterday to give money towards the shower ( final payment for location) and never did, never called etc.
This is COMMON for her, she has never really cared if shes late, doesnt show, doesnt call. There have been times I had to call her for events 15 times before she would call back..shes really a very very selfish person. And I was almost hoping for this, because I wanted this person out of my life...
So I tried callign her 2 more times, then finally told her off in a VM on her phone, asking her not to come to the wedding etc..
THE GOOD NEWS IS- Now I could ask a real friend to take her place so to speak, and one I should have asked in the beginning but due to my stupid feelings of loyalty to the idiot BM I didnt..
My new BM is Jenn- AKA Oct.2004bride..
Exciting that a LIW is gonna be in my BP! Im so excited, shes been a true friend to me since the beginning, and now I'm happy again!!
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Posted 1/16/05 7:47 PM 
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KimberlyBride
How did I get so lucky?
Member since 2/04 8871 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/15/2005 1:00 PM
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
So glad it worked out in the end. Yeah that devil BM needed to be cut. Jenn will be a wonderful BM!
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Posted 1/16/05 8:15 PM
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marc_rai
It's almost JULY!!!! ACK!
Member since 9/04 2368 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
Did your friend call back after hearing the VM?
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Posted 1/16/05 8:40 PM
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LuvMyMichael
My First My Last My Everything
Member since 3/04 3975 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/19/2006 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's - A+
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
 Glad it is going to work out for you.
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Posted 1/16/05 9:31 PM
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halfpintny
Finally an Andolfi!!!!
Member since 10/04 1581 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/13/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
My motto is life is too short to be miserable. That means sometimes cutting "dead wood" out of our lives. I'm glad everything is working out for you!
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Posted 1/16/05 9:55 PM
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MamanDaddyof2
We are so Lucky
Member since 6/04 1769 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/18/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
At least its gonna work out in the end
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Posted 1/16/05 10:01 PM
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ssbride05
Finally reached 1,000!!!!!!
Member since 12/04 1492 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
Congrats!! I am glad things are working out for you!!!! 
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Posted 1/16/05 10:18 PM
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SomethingBlu
Enjoying the journey...
Member since 10/04 10523 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - A+
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
Congrats to you and Jenn! So sorry you had to go through this with a friend, but I'm glad you now have a BP that truly cares about you!
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Posted 1/16/05 10:27 PM
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Dooodles
My two loves
Member since 7/04 4189 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/15/2005 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Riviera
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
Congrats on adding Jenn to your BP!! Curious to know if the other BM ever returned your call?
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Posted 1/17/05 9:00 AM
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CubanBride
Yay! I am married!
Member since 6/04 4006 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/22/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
LOL! What great irony. I am sure Jenn will be a great BM.
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Posted 1/17/05 9:08 AM
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dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!
Member since 2/04 8534 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Water Mill
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Re: BM dilema update( the bad news and the GOOD!)
Posted by Dooodles
Congrats on adding Jenn to your BP!! Curious to know if the other BM ever returned your call?
Nope she never did. She's famous for this. It's sad because we have been friends a long time but she was never a friend to me, but we had "fun" times and I guess I based a friendship on that. I Knew I would have trouble fromt he start but I didnt think she would be that selfish to just blow it off..she has no concept of time or others..so this was a good thing all around in the end.
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Posted 1/17/05 10:21 AM
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