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David'sbride
Soon to be Mom of Twins!!!!
Member since 7/04 3412 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/4/2005 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
First, please forgive me if my spelling and grammar are off, I'm home with the flu. Some of you might remember my post from last Friday. Well, I have been having serious second thoughts regarding my photographer since we got the engagement proofs in early November.
We got engaged while on vacation in Italy last summer and because I'm a teacher and we are both in our mid to late 30's the wedding had to be next summer. I got nervous that I'd be able to book good vendors and hit the ground running the day after I got off of the plane. I started calling everyone I knew who got married recently (some of my friends have been married 10 years so this was difficult) and it seems like all of my brother's friends used the same photographer. She is owner/operated which I liked but there was something gnawing at me after the engagement shoot. She's been shooting weddings for over twenty years and I think she's a bit burnt out.
Our engagement shoot seemed rushed and she never even asked us anything about ourselves. Our posses were very stiff and old-fashioned. When I got the proofs back my favorite pose of us (and I wasn't really loving it) had a flag pole in the background that looked like it was coming out of my head I felt that that was something that a professional photographer should see the second she looks in the lense. I was very surprized considering she came so highly recommended and I looked at many albums she did.
A co-worker of mine got married last July and she had the same photographer. I asked to see her proofs. I'm really picky as I have done a lot of amateur photography. In the meantime I kept seeing proofs from Duet on this site.... (thanks Julz33 and Jimmy'sbride) and they took my breathe away.
Finally, I posted about my problem and divabride and ckgmwedding really helped me out. I got an appointment with Duet the same day and I changed. Yes, I'll be out a deposit but actually we are getting A LOT more for our money from Duet. For the same price a better album, at least double the # of proofs and 3 DVD's and a 10 hour shoot versus 8. Eric actually wanted to redo our engagement shoot for us so that we'd have confidence in their company.
So girls and guys, if you have a bad feeling about one of your vendors... listen to your gut and switch. Our intuition is there for a reason. I was a crazy nut thinking about this for months and while yes, I lost some of my own money (and I do not part easily with money ) in the end what's more important?
I think all of the stress from this really did bring on the flu but it will be worth it in the end.
Message edited 1/18/2005 3:11:08 PM.
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SomethingBlu
Enjoying the journey...
Member since 10/04 10523 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - A+
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
Congrats!
I keep hearing great things about Duet.
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Posted 1/18/05 3:11 PM
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Bunnymonkey
Feels like home to me...
Member since 6/04 4861 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/11/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Raphael Vineyards
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
that is so great!! The money you lost will be worth it in the end.
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Posted 1/18/05 3:14 PM
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jnorfie
Board Enthusiast
Member since 11/04 138 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/18/2005 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Metropolitan
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
Who was the photographer you switched from?
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Posted 1/18/05 3:16 PM
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JimmysBride
Board Princess
Member since 7/03 10135 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
SandCastle
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
Congrats! You must feel so much more relieved!
Oh and ... you're welcome!
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Posted 1/18/05 4:07 PM
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12-3Princess
WE'RE HOMEOWNERS!
Member since 12/04 3093 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/29/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Tribeca Rooftop - NYC
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
Congrats! What a relief that must be!
CAn you tell the photographer you switched from? I"m choosing mine too right now . . . You can FM me if you're more comfortable.
TIA! 
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Posted 1/18/05 4:29 PM
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divabride
Being Bridezilla aint so bad!
Member since 12/03 7026 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
Im so glad I could be of assistance. Sometimes you just have to go with what you gut tells you!! Congrats!!
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Posted 1/18/05 4:47 PM
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JuneBride2005
Board Fanatic
Member since 2/04 804 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/10/2005 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
Congrats!!! From what I have heard about Duet (and seen on this site) you made a great choice!!! Their work is beautiful!
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Posted 1/18/05 5:24 PM
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sunflowers74
Board Fanatic
Member since 8/04 808 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/8/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Larkfield Manor
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
Congrats, I'm a Duet bride too. I felt so comfortable when we met Eric that I knew we were making the right decision. I can't wait to take our engagement pictures.
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Posted 1/18/05 5:55 PM
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sassy2611
Board Fanatic
Member since 2/04 911 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/4/2004 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Sunset Harbour
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
Congrats duet is the only way to go they are the best. Sorry they were my photographer and i loved them. Best of luck i know you won't be disappointed.
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Posted 1/18/05 6:46 PM
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julz33
Board Princess
Member since 8/03 11524 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/24/2004 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Huntington Townhouse
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Re: Changing vendors... I'm now a DUET bride!
Congrats!
I was VERY happpy with them!
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Posted 1/18/05 6:52 PM
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