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MamanDaddyof2
We are so Lucky
Member since 6/04 1769 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/18/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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SOME PEOPLE HAVE NERVE
So as some of you may know fh's half brother (43yr old) and his daughter (7yr old) are in my wedding
the 7yr olds dress was paid for by my fmil..the shoes and tights by me and fh
I also have 2 daughters in the wedding and they didnt need alterations but the 7yr old did and the mom wont pay for it (its only $27 but still ) she didnt even offer
So I call her today to ask if fh's brother went to do the tux and she said we had a little problem so I asked her what was wrong...She had the nerve to say....We weren't sure who Traditionally PAYS for the tux.....I almost choked ....Is she f'ing kidding me?
Then I tell her that there will be someone coming to do our hair if she wants her daughters hair done it's $50 and I cant pay for it but she doesnt have to get her hair done It is up to her
so she says but I want her to look beautiful...so I said ok come in the morning i will have bagels etc and she said oh you'll do her hair right and I said IT'S $50 IF YOU WANT IT DONE then she was like I guess I have to pay it right
I HATE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!CAN YOU BELIEVE SOME PEOPLE?AM I OVERREACTING ???
Message edited 2/21/2005 10:01:47 PM.
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Posted 2/21/05 9:44 PM 
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jpavig
Board Fanatic
Member since 8/04 749 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/24/2005 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: YOU WILL NEVER BELIEVE THIS ONE!!!!!
Like paying for the wedding isn't hard enough on you. Tell her to do the girls hair herself or fork over the $50
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Posted 2/21/05 9:46 PM
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csorisi
A year of happiness!
Member since 2/05 1767 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/4/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill--A++++
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Re: YOU WILL NEVER BELIEVE THIS ONE!!!!!
No you aren't overreacting. That is ridiculous--when you say ok to be in a wedding whether it is you or your child or your husband you can't expect the bride & groom to pay for everything-like weddings aren't enough you have to pay for people to be in it. Some people just have som NERVE--I think since you & your FMIL were so generous to the daughter she expected everything to be paid for but really the brother didn't go to the tux place b/c they didn't know who was going to pay for it--unreal. I hope it gets better.
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Posted 2/21/05 9:48 PM
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MamanDaddyof2
We are so Lucky
Member since 6/04 1769 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/18/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: YOU WILL NEVER BELIEVE THIS ONE!!!!!
can you believe she said we have a problem who pays for the tux
I AM SOOOOO HEATED!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted 2/21/05 9:49 PM
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David'sbride
Soon to be Mom of Twins!!!!
Member since 7/04 3412 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/4/2005 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: SOME PEOPLE HAVE NERVE
No you are not overreacting. She needs to hang out with my BM who thought it was ok to play a gig the night before our wedding in another state (Ohio or Pennsylvania). HELLO???? we are getting married at 11 am.
As my Granny used to say... "If that behavior doesn't stop, I'm going to string you up by your toenails".
She actually was a very loving Granny but I think she had the right idea.
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Posted 2/21/05 10:22 PM
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MamanDaddyof2
We are so Lucky
Member since 6/04 1769 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/18/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: SOME PEOPLE HAVE NERVE
Posted by David'sbride
No you are not overreacting. She needs to hang out with my BM who thought it was ok to play a gig the night before our wedding in another state (Ohio or Pennsylvania). HELLO???? we are getting married at 11 am.
As my Granny used to say... "If that behavior doesn't stop, I'm going to string you up by your toenails".
She actually was a very loving Granny but I think she had the right idea.
oh yeah I posted about your bm
my post was about this chick making her appt on my rehersal day ....I cant stand her
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Posted 2/21/05 10:27 PM
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Ronkonkomonga
Spoiled by the HOV
Member since 9/04 2236 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/16/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
***
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Re: SOME PEOPLE HAVE NERVE
wow - thats not good. Is it that they dont really have the cash, or are they just refusing to pay.
If they don't have the money, maybe the dont want to be left out and feel comfortable enough asking. I'm trying to find a bright side for you
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Posted 2/21/05 10:37 PM
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slwh2005
We're having a BABY!!
Member since 9/04 1913 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/8/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Wind Watch
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Re: SOME PEOPLE HAVE NERVE
You are absolutely not overreacting!! She needs to get a clue!
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Posted 2/21/05 10:41 PM
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David'sbride
Soon to be Mom of Twins!!!!
Member since 7/04 3412 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/4/2005 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: SOME PEOPLE HAVE NERVE
Posted by MamanDaddyof2
Posted by David'sbride
No you are not overreacting. She needs to hang out with my BM who thought it was ok to play a gig the night before our wedding in another state (Ohio or Pennsylvania). HELLO???? we are getting married at 11 am.
As my Granny used to say... "If that behavior doesn't stop, I'm going to string you up by your toenails".
She actually was a very loving Granny but I think she had the right idea.
oh yeah I posted about your bm
my post was about this chick making her appt on my rehersal day ....I cant stand her
Oh, yes. I read it. She really needs to be slapped upside the head.
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Posted 2/21/05 10:41 PM
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JodiBabe
John's Lighthouse Lady
Member since 4/02 4280 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/13/2003 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Beach Club Estate, Ronkonkoma
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Re: SOME PEOPLE HAVE NERVE
You are not overreacting at all!!!!!!!
Tell her if she wants her daughters hair done to give you the $50 ahead of time & be there at a certain time or else she has to do it herself!!!!! 
She is ridiculous!
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Posted 2/21/05 10:50 PM
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MamanDaddyof2
We are so Lucky
Member since 6/04 1769 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/18/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: SOME PEOPLE HAVE NERVE
they just dont want to pay
they have 2 incomes
we have one
they have 1 kid
we have 2
their kids dress and shoes were paid for what else do you want from me....I wish they would just not come
also thanks girls I feel soooo much better than I did a little while ago
Message edited 2/21/2005 10:52:28 PM.
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Posted 2/21/05 10:51 PM
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