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Who to invite to shower???? Questionable guests??

PrincessConsuela Posted: Feb 23, 2005 03:36 PM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2005 03:36 PM

Who to invite to shower???? Questionable guests??

Should i invite my fh's bosses fiance? Or one of his co-workers wifes.

We have hung out a few times. They are very nice and they always invite us over for parties they have at there houses or out to dinner. We seem to be hanging out more and more. We have been to one of there weddings and are attending the other.

I just dont know if this is appropriate or not??

Calla Posted: Feb 23, 2005 03:39 PM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2005 03:39 PM

Re: Who to invite to shower???? Questionable guests??

The one absolute rule is that people invited to the shower must be invited to the wedding. Beyond that, it depends on what you are comfortable with and whether or not you feel like you have an independent relationship.

sophie78 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 04:05 PM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2005 04:05 PM

Re: Who to invite to shower???? Questionable guests??

I would say no.

dpli Posted: Feb 23, 2005 04:08 PM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2005 04:08 PM

Re: Who to invite to shower???? Questionable guests??

I would say no. Usually you invite your family and closest friends to the shower. Unless you are starting to feel especially close to these women, I would leave them out.

PrincessConsuela Posted: Feb 23, 2005 04:13 PM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2005 04:13 PM

Re: Who to invite to shower???? Questionable guests??

thank you ladies that is what i thought to. i just dont want to offend anyone.

Boop2704 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 04:13 PM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2005 04:13 PM

Re: Who to invite to shower???? Questionable guests??

I agree with the other girls, your shower is usually for family and close friends. But sounds like you are getting pretty close with these people, so if you want them there invite them. Do you think they would be insulted if not invited?? I didn't invite any co workers to my shower because they threw me a shower at work so I didn't want to make them feel awkward!!