Need Help Ladies Very Long needed to vent

I was in my friends bridal Party in June.
Yesterday her fh called me yup yelling at me at the top of his lungs. Cause no one chip in for her. Which is not true. Her moh could not go so she said to pay for her ticket and dinner cause she could not go. So that is what I did. He is like did anyone chip in for her. We did in some form of way. Then he says to that is not a ba party I'm going to have another for her. Note to she is prego to so there was really not much we can do. I don't even know really why he is yelling cause she didn't even pay one dime at her party at all she didn't have to take a dollar out of her pocket. So of cause I'm a very emotional person so when someone yells at me I started to cry. So then I was pissed off and upset so I said I don't want to be in the wedding party. THen he flips out even more. All I wanted was a sorry for him yelling at me. He was yelling like I did something wrong and I didn't do anything. Then he is like I'm going to come there and pick up the dress so I was like if. My fh heard me yelling and was like what is going on so I told him. He is there is no point of him to be yelling at all. She said she will have Scott say he is sorry to me. Then she started to get upset and was like I still hope you can come to the wedding. The point of this all I wanted is a sorry for yelling at me and I would of been in the wedding party.
Do you think I should still be in it or no.

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I think he needs to get a grip!!!!! First of all yelling at you is uncalled for. Second if hes that annoying I would stay out. Iw ould attend the wedding but thats it. I woulld explain to her your feelings and if he doesnt apologize I wouldnt even go to the wedding. Dont stress yourself out more than you need to.

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He's a raging lunatic...it stinks for your friend but any man that would call a woman and yell at her for the sake of being a maniac needs to be handled from far away. I would drop out of the BP and not attend the wedding...it seems that he's a control freak and I'm not even sure your friendship with her can be saved.

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That is what i was thinking i was don't want to be in a wedding party if he is going to be a control freak. She even said i don't want our friendship to be done with. But i'm kind of hurt and really don't want to be her friend cause she could of yelled at him and told him not to call me and yell at me. But she didn't say anything. My fh does not like her at all since he meet her he said that she is trouble. We were not talking for months and then we stared to take again. I didn't talk to her cause she sleep with one of my ex.
I'm just unsure what to do. I Think i just don't want to be in the wedding party i think i just want to go the wedding that is it. Then i know when the day comes i'm going to be upset cause i'm not in. I don't know what to.
Plus they picked up the dress and gave me part of the money back on the dress.

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IMO, it sounds like your friendship with this girl will be hard to salvage. I would feel very uncomfortable if one of my friends FH yelled at me for something beyond my control....no 'sorry' can cure his temper and the possibility of him yelling at you in the future.

I don't think I would attend the wedding. He sounds like he obviously has no respect for you, so to show them both love and support on their wedding day would be truly going out on a limb.

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Don't worry about it. It sounds like the wedding won't happen and if it does, the marriage won't last. Sorry you were yelled at. Totally uncalled for!