Brook Shields bashes Tom Cruise in NY Times

From The New York Times
July 1, 2005
War of Words
By BROOKE SHIELDS
London

I WAS hoping it wouldn't come to this, but after Tom Cruise's interview with Matt Lauer on the NBC show "Today" last week, I feel compelled to speak not just for myself but also for the hundreds of thousands of women who have suffered from postpartum depression. While Mr. Cruise says that Mr. Lauer and I do not "understand the history of psychiatry," I'm going to take a wild guess and say that Mr. Cruise has never suffered from postpartum depression.

Postpartum depression is caused by the hormonal shifts that occur after childbirth. During pregnancy, a woman's level of estrogen and progesterone greatly increases; then, in the first 24 hours after childbirth, the amount of these hormones rapidly drops to normal, nonpregnant levels. This change in hormone levels can lead to reactions that range from restlessness and irritability to feelings of sadness and hopelessness.

I never thought I would have postpartum depression. After two years of trying to conceive and several attempts at in vitro fertilization, I thought I would be overjoyed when my daughter, Rowan Francis, was born in the spring of 2003. But instead I felt completely overwhelmed. This baby was a stranger to me. I didn't know what to do with her. I didn't feel at all joyful. I attributed feelings of doom to simple fatigue and figured that they would eventually go away. But they didn't; in fact, they got worse.

I couldn't bear the sound of Rowan crying, and I dreaded the moments my husband would bring her to me. I wanted her to disappear. I wanted to disappear. At my lowest points, I thought of swallowing a bottle of pills or jumping out the window of my apartment.

I couldn't believe it when my doctor told me that I was suffering from postpartum depression and gave me a prescription for the antidepressant Paxil. I wasn't thrilled to be taking drugs. In fact, I prematurely stopped taking them and had a relapse that almost led me to drive my car into a wall with Rowan in the backseat. But the drugs, along with weekly therapy sessions, are what saved me - and my family.

Since writing about my experiences with the disease, I have been approached by many women who have told me their stories and thanked me for opening up about a topic that is often not discussed because of fear, shame or lack of support and information. Experts estimate that one in 10 women suffer, usually in silence, with this treatable disease. We are living in an era of so-called family values, yet because almost all of the postnatal focus is on the baby, mothers are overlooked and left behind to endure what can be very dark times.

And comments like those made by Tom Cruise are a disservice to mothers everywhere. To suggest that I was wrong to take drugs to deal with my depression, and that instead I should have taken vitamins and exercised shows an utter lack of understanding about postpartum depression and childbirth in general.

If any good can come of Mr. Cruise's ridiculous rant, let's hope that it gives much-needed attention to a serious disease. Perhaps now is the time to call on doctors, particularly obstetricians and pediatricians, to screen for postpartum depression. After all, during the first three months after childbirth, you see a pediatrician at least three times. While pediatricians are trained to take care of children, it would make sense for them to talk with new mothers, ask questions and inform them of the symptoms and treatment should they show signs of postpartum depression.

In a strange way, it was comforting to me when my obstetrician told me that my feelings of extreme despair and my suicidal thoughts were directly tied to a biochemical shift in my body. Once we admit that postpartum is a serious medical condition, then the treatment becomes more available and socially acceptable. With a doctor's care, I have since tapered off the medication, but without it, I wouldn't have become the loving parent I am today.

So, there you have it. It's not the history of psychiatry, but it is my history, personal and real.

Brooke Shields, the author of "Down Came the Rain: My Journey Through Postpartum Depression," isstarring in the musical "Chicago" in London.

Re: Brook Shields bashes Tom Cruise in NY Times

Go Brooke!

Tom Cruise needs to get off crack, it is whack!

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CAN'T STAND Tom Cruise anymore! he's such a putz!

I am SO glad she rebutted his @ssinine comment. he's clueless

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Brooke is AWESOME! I did suffer from PPD and I can tell you it was a chore to get up and open the blinds. I just sat... It took everything in me to take care of my son. I did feel an attachment and LOVED him to pieces unlike how Brooke felt, but I was sooo depressed.

I'm glad she spoke out. I watched Oprah and was surprised how bad she got, but shes better now

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Tom Cruise is turning into a crazy old eccentric!

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Posted by nferrandi

Tom Cruise is turning into a crazy old eccentric!

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While Mr. Cruise says that Mr. Lauer and I do not "understand the history of psychiatry," I'm going to take a wild guess and say that Mr. Cruise has never suffered from postpartum depression.

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Re: Brook Shields bashes Tom Cruise in NY Times

omigod i heard the tom cruise interviw with lauer on xm satellite with opie and anthony...they were ripping on him like u wont believe, what an a$$...GO BROOKE!!!!!

Chrissy

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So glad she did this! As a mental health professional who does not like using adjunctive drugs but KNOWS that sometimes it is ABSOLUTELY necessary, it pisses me off to no end...the other day one of my professors said in reference to TOm Cruise's craziness...to be a great actor you need poor ego strength, having poor ego strength means you can't distinguish well b/t fantasy and reality...

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I hate Tom Cruise, and now I am not the only one.

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What a great comeback!! Tom Cruise gets stranger with every interview he does maybe he should be checked for some kind of vitamin overdose that has made him insane.

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Posted by Capulet72

What a great comeback!! Tom Cruise gets stranger with every interview he does maybe he should be checked for some kind of vitamin overdose that has made him insane.

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Re: Brook Shields bashes Tom Cruise in NY Times

Well Tom Cruise says he doesn't belive in that there is such a think as chemical imbalances... so what is happening to him?

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What did Tom Cruise say in the interview?

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Maybe he suffers from Anne Heche disease...Maybe aliens have taken over his mind, Im not sure I'd have to check with GNC but I dont think they make a vitamin for that, and I dont know what kind of exercise you would do for such a thing, I'll have to Google the situation and let you guys know

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Go Brooke! Tom Cruise is a fool! His "religion" was founded by a former science fiction author who decided to form a religion because that's where the $$$$ was. True story.

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Posted by italgrkwedding

What did Tom Cruise say in the interview?

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Posted by italgrkwedding

What did Tom Cruise say in the interview?

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he basically said that he is very disappointed in Brooke for taking drugs and not dealing with her postpartum naturally.

what a jack@ss!

ETA: and to think that I used to have posters of him in my bedroom when I was in HS. (lol)
I never thought he would turn out to be such an idiot.

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He needs to just close his mouth and just stand in front of a mirror in his tighty whities...thats really all he is good for

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Posted by dleeny

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Posted by italgrkwedding

What did Tom Cruise say in the interview?

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he basically said that he is very disappointed in Brooke for taking drugs and not dealing with her postpartum naturally.

what a jack@ss!

ETA: and to think that I used to have posters of him in my bedroom when I was in HS. (lol)
I never thought he would turn out to be such an idiot.

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Like he would ever understand!!!!!

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Posted by dleeny


Like he would ever understand!!!!!

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Re: Brook Shields bashes Tom Cruise in NY Times

he needs to stick to what he is being paid to do, which is act. He can't talk about something he will never experience, last time i checked he was still a man.

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hes an ACTOR!!! never even won an oscar. no offense to actors out there, but i'm sure you son't walk around with you head stuck up your azz. he is a jackazz who needs to keeo his mouth shut on issues he knows nothing about

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After Tom Cruise has a child I would like to hear his opinion again....

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Tom Cruise is really going insane. I am in the theatre and have actually worked with Brooke Shields in the past and she is a true Lady with a capital "L". Through all of this she has remained true to herself and is a model for women everywhere. God bless her and her wonderful family.