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How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
sweisen
Posted: Jul 11, 2005 05:24 PM+

Posted: Jul 11, 2005 05:24 PM
How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
I was thinking of writing a letter and giving them a pic from when we were much younger?Any suggestions would be helpful!!
soontobemrsd325
Posted: Jul 11, 2005 05:29 PM+

Posted: Jul 11, 2005 05:29 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
Im taking them out to brunch.
SIBride06
Posted: Jul 11, 2005 05:40 PM+

Posted: Jul 11, 2005 05:40 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
I asked a few of them at my engagement party & the rest one-by-one. I'm prob going to do a bring thing when we go for the bridesmaids dresses.
july06bride
Posted: Jul 11, 2005 05:43 PM+

Posted: Jul 11, 2005 05:43 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
did the will you be my bm cards- and we are doing a luncheon on saturday when we go for bm dresses
Suzannebride
Posted: Jul 11, 2005 06:35 PM+

Posted: Jul 11, 2005 06:35 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
Posted by sweisen
I was thinking of writing a letter and giving them a pic from when we were much younger?
Any suggestions would be helpful!!
I think that is very sweet. I did a very non-eloquent 'I need me some bridesmaids!' for two of them. LOL!
Kris516
Posted: Jul 11, 2005 10:39 PM+

Posted: Jul 11, 2005 10:39 PM
jennymac
Posted: Jul 11, 2005 10:40 PM+

Posted: Jul 11, 2005 10:40 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
I just asked them when I saw them. After hearing what all of you do, I feel bad for my poor BM!
cindyandkevin
Posted: Jul 11, 2005 10:43 PM+

Posted: Jul 11, 2005 10:43 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
I asked them in person as I saw them. Altho I asked my MOH over the phone on her bday since I wasn't gonna be able to see her. But I also have a BM poem that I'm going to send out so they have something nice to have.
MissingTheBGene
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 11:42 AM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 11:42 AM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
Posted by jennymac
I just asked them when I saw them. After hearing what all of you do, I feel bad for my poor BM!
Same here!
melaniejosh
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 02:16 PM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 02:16 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
I got a dress cookie cutter from ebay and made sugar cookies for each of them and put pretty pink sparkly sprinkles on top (michaels) b/c thats the color I want for their dresses. I gave them each about 6 of them wrapped in pretty celophane (sp??) and wrote a short card asking them to be my BM. The cookies were so cute!!! Everyone loved it.
lillady
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 02:47 PM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 02:47 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
I took them out to lunch and gave them personalized cards..
SummerBride06
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 04:13 PM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 04:13 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
made a card for each. i've only asked 3 of the 5 so far though.
Klarabelle
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 04:19 PM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 04:19 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
I took all of my girls to my reception hall on a night that they offer brides getting married there an on the house dinner and gave them each a book called 'Bridesmaids' with a personalized message written to each of them inside their books!I asked my flower girls by giving them each a book called 'When I Was a Flower Girl' with a message written in side for them too!
sweisen
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 04:21 PM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 04:21 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
Posted by Klarabelle
I took all of my girls to my reception hall on a night that they offer brides getting married there an on the house dinner and gave them each a book called 'Bridesmaids' with a personalized message written to each of them inside their books!
I asked my flower girls by giving them each a book called 'When I Was a Flower Girl' with a message written in side for them too!
What a great idea! Where did you find the book?
Klarabelle
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 04:30 PM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 04:30 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
THANKS
For my BM I went to Barnes and Noble, however I had to go to 2 stores to get enough for each girl. For my Flower Girls I ordered them online, because the bookstores didn't have them in stock and it would take them up to 10 business days to order them! I got them in 3 business days from amazon.com!
I also think they sell the books through LIW (I am sure I saw them on this site somewhere)
MrsP2Be
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 06:26 PM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 06:26 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
For my SIL and FSIL it was like..ok, I assume you know you're in this thing? For my Junior BM (my FH's cousin) I asked her mom first then asked her Sunday. I still have yet to do my FG and my MOH..
CalJoe0124
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 07:20 PM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 07:20 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
Gave them each a very nice card and then gave my maid of honor a piece of Irish china, she collects it.I gave this to them at our e-party!
lacey&mark
Posted: Jul 12, 2005 07:25 PM+

Posted: Jul 12, 2005 07:25 PM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
I just asked them when I saw them. After hearing what all of you do, I feel bad for my poor BM!
same here! i didn't know about all of this cute stuff you could do before i asked them! i guess i can make up for it with their gifts lol. ~lacey
SweetCin704
Posted: Jul 13, 2005 07:48 AM+

Posted: Jul 13, 2005 07:48 AM
Re: How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?
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