Question : My Brother and the Bachelor Party

Should my brother go to the bachelor party -

they are friendly, but they are different. The FH's friends have been planning his BP since before he even met me. They are going to vegas. The FH's friends went ahead and booked flights and rooms - before asking my brother when he was free. Then they were kind of like - well, now we have some room in the hotel, if you want it you can have it - if not you're on your own. My brother is stupid too - because he didn't say when he was free from the beginnning.

My brother tried to get some of his friends to go, and couldn't. Also - my brother is driving across the country - and turns out once he gets back east - he is going to have to turn around and fly back to vegas. If they had asked him first, he would have tried to plan it so that my brother and his friends would have been there at the same time.

Now my brother doesn't really want to go, and he wants to pass it by me first.

Does it matter if the FBIL doesn't attend the BP?

Oh - my FH's brother is only 17, and isn't going to the BP either (he is not the kind of kid who could go to vegas and stay out of trouble - so he isn't really invited) My brother figures that he, FH and mini FH can all go out for steaks and call it a day. is that OK?

Re: Question : My Brother and the Bachelor Party

I would think its more of a question for your FH as to if he wants your brother to go or not. Its really his party, not yours so he should be the one to answer the question.

Re: Question : My Brother and the Bachelor Party

In your situation looks like FH doesn't want him there. But then again, I don't know the whole story. Good luck.