oy, and it involved my fmil, who'd thunk it?? so i have this dream where, i find out that my one cousin cannot be in my wedding - she lives in hawaii and i knew this would be a possibility ( in real life, yes, lives/teaches in hawaii) so i find out that she can't and i told my fmil (biggest mistake eva!!) so she takes it upon herself to invite my fbils gf to me in my bridal party can you imagine?? and when, in my dream, i tell her that i don't want her b/c i don't know the b*tch (she's really not, but not the point) she says okay....but THEN..when we are ordering bm's dresses at lilettes she brings her and sneaks an order in for her!! the hell....

so weird to me!! and i told chris and he was laughing b/c we both know its not something she would do....weird....it only gets better from here right...