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Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?

OctRo05 Posted: Jul 28, 2005 02:37 PM+

OctRo05 MEMBER SINCE: 5/05 TOTAL POSTS : 507 WEDDING DATE: Oct 14, 2005

Posted: Jul 28, 2005 02:37 PM

Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?

I'm not a big poster..but have to vent and can't do so to anyone at home.
I am trying to plan the RD and changed the date at the request of MOH and b-maid.
After 5 calls to the priest, was able to change the date to a date when everyone is in town at 6pm. I get a response from MOH that she will be there but 1/2 hour late. ! The rehearsal should be over by then...and the original plan was I would pick her up at the railroad.
What was the point of changing the date??
whateva...

I have not asked for one task to be done by anyone!!! Nothing, except come to LI to pick out dresses. I'm blue. Am I unreasonable?
be honest.

Jen2999 Posted: Jul 28, 2005 02:48 PM+

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Posted: Jul 28, 2005 02:48 PM

Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?

No way!!!

I would tell her to do what she needs to do to get her BUTT here ON TIME.... I mean gimme a break!

FutureAJ8505 Posted: Jul 28, 2005 02:52 PM+

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Posted: Jul 28, 2005 02:52 PM

Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?

No you are not. People just don't get it!!
Remember, this is your day. Let your MOH get her own way there. If she doesn't make it, then she doesn't make it. Someone can fill her in. Not to worry!!

Do not change your plans to suit others, its not their day, its your's and your FH.

Vent here all you want, we are here to listen

I hope things work out.

Dooodles Posted: Jul 28, 2005 03:14 PM+

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Posted: Jul 28, 2005 03:14 PM

Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?

You're not being unreasonable. Why can't she make it on time since you changed the date to accommodate her?

Love_my_Freddybear Posted: Jul 28, 2005 03:17 PM+

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Posted: Jul 28, 2005 03:17 PM

Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?

No, you are totally being reasonable! And so NOT a bridezilla.
Keep you head upgirl. In the end, you'll have everything you want!!!!

OctRo05 Posted: Jul 28, 2005 03:47 PM+

OctRo05 MEMBER SINCE: 5/05 TOTAL POSTS : 507 WEDDING DATE: Oct 14, 2005

Posted: Jul 28, 2005 03:47 PM

Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?

Thanks ladies. You know, it really helped my mood a great deal to vent and get some support!! I am trying not to vent to FH because I don't want him to think he's marrying a hidden demon.
Thanks again!

Love_my_Freddybear Posted: Jul 28, 2005 07:32 PM+

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Posted: Jul 28, 2005 07:32 PM

Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?

Posted by OctRo05

Thanks ladies. You know, it really helped my mood a great deal to vent and get some support!! I am trying not to vent to FH because I don't want him to think he's marrying a hidden demon.
Thanks again!

Love it!!!!!

2BeAMrs. Posted: Jul 28, 2005 07:37 PM+

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Posted: Jul 28, 2005 07:37 PM

Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?

No way. One of the major points of a bridesmaid is to SUPPORT you in all different aspects of your wedding planning, not make it more difficult.
Of course you want to accomodate as much as possible, but to change it 5 times for them -she is asking way too much.

PinkSoil Posted: Jul 28, 2005 07:38 PM+

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Posted: Jul 28, 2005 07:38 PM