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OctRo05
Board Fanatic
Member since 5/05 507 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/14/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
I'm not a big poster..but have to vent and can't do so to anyone at home.
I am trying to plan the RD and changed the date at the request of MOH and b-maid.
After 5 calls to the priest, was able to change the date to a date when everyone is in town at 6pm. I get a response from MOH that she will be there but 1/2 hour late. ! The rehearsal should be over by then...and the original plan was I would pick her up at the railroad.
What was the point of changing the date??
whateva...
I have not asked for one task to be done by anyone!!! Nothing, except come to LI to pick out dresses. I'm blue. Am I unreasonable?
be honest.
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Posted 7/28/05 2:37 PM 
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Jen2999
What's next?!
Member since 11/04 9849 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
CHATEAU LA MER--AMAZING!
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
No way!!!
I would tell her to do what she needs to do to get her BUTT here ON TIME.... I mean gimme a break!
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Posted 7/28/05 2:48 PM
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FutureAJ8505
Board Fanatic
Member since 8/04 675 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/5/2005 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Bourne Mansion--PERFECT!!!
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
No you are not. People just don't get it!!
Remember, this is your day. Let your MOH get her own way there. If she doesn't make it, then she doesn't make it. Someone can fill her in. Not to worry!!
Do not change your plans to suit others, its not their day, its your's and your FH.
Vent here all you want, we are here to listen
I hope things work out.
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Posted 7/28/05 2:52 PM
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Dooodles
My two loves
Member since 7/04 4189 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/15/2005 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Riviera
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
You're not being unreasonable. Why can't she make it on time since you changed the date to accommodate her?
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Posted 7/28/05 3:14 PM
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Love_my_Freddybear
I love my Freddybear!!!
Member since 6/05 2015 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/3/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
**LARKFIELD MANOR**
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
No, you are totally being reasonable! And so NOT a bridezilla.
Keep you head upgirl. In the end, you'll have everything you want!!!!
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Posted 7/28/05 3:17 PM
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OctRo05
Board Fanatic
Member since 5/05 507 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/14/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
Thanks ladies. You know, it really helped my mood a great deal to vent and get some support!! I am trying not to vent to FH because I don't want him to think he's marrying a hidden demon.
Thanks again!
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Posted 7/28/05 3:47 PM
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Love_my_Freddybear
I love my Freddybear!!!
Member since 6/05 2015 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/3/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
**LARKFIELD MANOR**
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
Posted by OctRo05
Thanks ladies. You know, it really helped my mood a great deal to vent and get some support!! I am trying not to vent to FH because I don't want him to think he's marrying a hidden demon.
Thanks again!
Love it!!!!!
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Posted 7/28/05 7:32 PM
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2BeAMrs.
Board Fanatic
Member since 7/05 353 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/24/2005 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Tallgrass CC - A++++
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
No way. One of the major points of a bridesmaid is to SUPPORT you in all different aspects of your wedding planning, not make it more difficult.
Of course you want to accomodate as much as possible, but to change it 5 times for them -she is asking way too much.
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Posted 7/28/05 7:37 PM
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PinkSoil
I went to Graceland!!!
Member since 9/04 1022 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/23/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
George Washington Manor
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
You aren't being unreasonable at all. I'd be pissed!! You busted your butt catering to everyone else, so the least she can do is make it on time!
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Posted 7/28/05 7:38 PM
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unicorn1178
I love Being Married
Member since 11/03 1242 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/22/2005 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Stewart Manor Country Club
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
You know, it seems as we get closer and closer to our time, the people closest in our lives just seem to not give a crap. What's the deal??
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Posted 7/28/05 8:50 PM
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orchid24
it's a done deal!
Member since 8/04 1649 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/4/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow Country Club
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Re: Sorry Ladies..have to vent..Is it me?
call me the demon lady then...
'cuz it's MY day! everyone listens to ME!
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Posted 7/28/05 9:53 PM
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