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A question about having a theme...

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Jennie0898
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Wedding Date:
9/23/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Watermill

A question about having a theme...

Is anyone going with a theme for their wedding? If so what are you doing?? I was thinking of doing a fall theme for our Sept. wedding, but I don't want to take away from the formality of the night... Our reception is starting at 7:30 on a Saturday night and I was thinking of making it black tie... What do you girls think?

Posted 8/1/05 10:00 AM
 

CalJoe0124
Best DH Ever!!

Member since 4/05

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Wedding Date:
10/28/2006 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield!!!

Re: A question about having a theme...

I say do what you and FH want!!

Posted 8/1/05 10:06 AM
 

glinda_goodwitch
I married my best friend...

Member since 3/05

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Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 5:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace

Re: A question about having a theme...

I think the nicest thing about a fall wedding is being able to have a fall theme, with leaves and candy apples. Aside from June, my other dream date for a wedding would be Sept or Oct just for that reason. Go for it!

Posted 8/1/05 10:08 AM
 

hmpena
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Member since 1/05

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Wedding Date:
1/15/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow A+

Re: A question about having a theme...

I think you can have a theme and still have a formal wedding. If you want it, go for it!

Posted 8/1/05 10:23 AM
 

cindyandkevin
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Member since 2/05

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Wedding Date:
6/10/2006 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Stonebridge Country Club

Re: A question about having a theme...

You can certainly do a nice fall theme and still have a formal wedding! It'll be beautiful!!

Posted 8/1/05 10:57 AM
 

MissingTheBGene
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Member since 6/05

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Wedding Date:
6/2/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Woodlands

Re: A question about having a theme...

Oooo, candy apples....yum!

Posted 8/1/05 10:58 AM
 

JessicaM.
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Wedding Date:
4/23/2006 12:00 AM

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shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in

Re: A question about having a theme...


Posted by MissingTheBGene

Oooo, candy apples....yum!



candy apples are YUM! and if you want to keep it formal, you could decorate the sticks like tuxes and maybe a little tulle around some for a dress...

I have NO IDEA how it would be done, but I am sure someone crafty can figure it out.

to keep it formal with a theme, don't go overboard. my theme is shakespeare, but it is still very formal- no one is dressing up like any characters, but I am using certain elements of that time period for accents..

GO FOR IT!!!! it's fun, and since it narrows down your options immediately, it actually makes planning easier.

Posted 8/1/05 11:05 AM
 

CaMacho
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Member since 4/05

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Wedding Date:
6/10/2006 7:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer - A+

Re: A question about having a theme...

I also say yes to a theme. We are doing a beach theme, but not overdoing it. It's been really fun finding "beachy" things to incorporate into our wedding. Go for the fall theme, I love that idea.

Posted 8/1/05 11:11 AM
 

leese
Sweet Married Kisses

Member since 11/04

4773 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/25/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Floral Terrace, Floral Park

Re: A question about having a theme...

i'm all about the theme of mine... 1940's Hollywood because my venue used to be a movie/vaudeville theatre.

But, it is still a very formal place and I am a formal type of gal (except on saturday nights when i like to get crazy )

So far, I'm doing tables numbers that all are movies from the 40's. I'm making them right now to look like movie posters.

I want to steal heidla's idea of doing "tickets" for the rehersal dinner. My save the dates also carry that movie theme.

I want my favors to reflect it. And the girls' dresses will have that type of 40's look.

The invites will most likely be very traditional - straight out of the 40's.

Tons of gold and jewel colors...

Still all very formal but the little touches will be noticed and it makes it just a bit more fun.

I think a fall theme is just great and your ideas sound good. As long as you don't go overboard, I don't think a little theme is so wrong.

Posted 8/1/05 11:11 AM
 

kellwolfe
It's An Obsession

Member since 12/04

4122 total posts

Wedding Date:
12/8/2006 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Hamlet WindWatchA+++++++++++++++++++

Re: A question about having a theme...

I say go for it ...I dont see any reason way you cant have both -

Posted 8/1/05 11:14 AM
 

mtdr1106
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Member since 7/05

4449 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/11/2006 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
leonards - A++

Re: A question about having a theme...

i am a november bride - and i am into the fall theme - Even though i am having a saturday night wedding as well.

i am just simply sticking with brown & gold colorings.
you don't have to be so blantantly obvious with a theme - some people do pumkins as centerpieces or favors, some go all out and scatter leave shaped decals on the table.....even though these things are beautiful i felt i didn't want such an obvious theme.
my girls are in brown and gold - my groomsmen are wearing brown vests and ties -deep dark chocolate brown. In my mind - its beautiful!! and will give my wedding the "fall" feel.

Posted 8/1/05 11:31 AM
 
 

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