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PinkSoil
I went to Graceland!!!

Member since 9/04

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Wedding Date:
9/23/2005 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
George Washington Manor

Question to girls that are already married....

For those of you that were living with your now-husbands BEFORE you got married...... did it feel different once you were married? FH and I have been living together since May of 2002 and I'm wondering if things will feel different when we are married.

Posted 8/1/05 8:12 PM
 

lilacwine
In-between days

Member since 9/04

1470 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/14/2005 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
booked

Re: Question to girls that are already married....

It doesn't really feel different.

I'm kinda stalled on the name-change process right now, though. I think once that's done, it will start to change.

Posted 8/1/05 8:25 PM
 

DottieMcHugh
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Member since 3/05

306 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/12/2005 5:30 PM

Wed. Location:
The Meadow Club

Re: Question to girls that are already married....

Nothing feels different at all. I feel as if we have been married alot longer than we have because we lived together.

Posted 8/1/05 8:26 PM
 

SomethingBlu
Enjoying the journey...

Member since 10/04

10523 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/27/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - A+

Re: Question to girls that are already married....

It feels completely different for us. We immediately fell deeper in love (if that's possible), had a deeper connection, love knowing that we're family now and have a forever bond, think twice before arguing because we know we eventually have to make up and be together forever...so we try a lot harder to be loving, respectful, caring...when we were dating, engaged, living together, etc. we were not fully aware and didn't care since it wasn't "for all the days of our lives".
Hope I made sense. In short, it's a million times better and the love is a billion times better and this is coming from a couple who lived together for 4 years.

Posted 8/1/05 8:28 PM
 

May05Bride
Hawaii is AWESOME!

Member since 10/03

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Wedding Date:
5/29/2005 7:30 PM

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Re: Question to girls that are already married....

Everyone told me it would feel different, but in all honesty it doesn't. Our lives are the same and we go about it in the same way.

I guess, if I really think about its different mentally. Where before I was always second guessing what he does, and how I feel about what he does now I accept him completely and have no doubt. I have 'commited' to this relationship and no longer contemplate leaving everytime we fight.

Posted 8/1/05 9:01 PM
 

melissaandsean
bestdayever

Member since 2/04

2228 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/20/2005 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Beach Club Estate, Ronkonkoma - A+

Re: Question to girls that are already married....

For us, our bond is just that much stronger, but we've "felt married" for a long time (been together 8 years, living together over 5).

There's just a nice comfortable awesome feeling of finally doing it and being husband and wife. But there's no big drastic change or anything.

We're lovin' it!

Posted 8/1/05 9:01 PM
 
 

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