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Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
Beth1210
Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:45 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:45 PM
Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
why do you need that? or I didn't have that at my wedding!like one day I said at work I am going to order matching place cards b/c the ones my halls gives me have gold trim- and I am using silver for everything
I feel like saying back why do you care? I don't need it- but it makes me happy to know everything goes together-
If my Dad doesn't care- ( he writes the checks) then why do they!
tracy2246
Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:46 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:46 PM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
I am with ya sista...meanwhile how does it have anything to do with anyone else....only you and Fi...
I dislike it even more when someone comments and then you find out that they are doing the same at their wedding...
Goldi1021
Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:56 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:56 PM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
I get that all the time. It is no one's business. Why do I need it? BECAUSE I SAID SO!!! THAT'S WHY!
ChrissynRicky
Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:57 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:57 PM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
What do you mean? Like when people ask you 'What are STD's for?' More money being spent unnecessarily.Um...you're not paying - mind your BIZness.
Beth1210
Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:59 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2005 03:59 PM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
exactly- it's gettting to me latley
DUCKS2001
Posted: Aug 12, 2005 04:00 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2005 04:00 PM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
I TOTALLY AGREE.... THAT IS GREAT YOUR DAD WRTES OUT THE MONEY FOR YOU... I AM PAYNG FOR HALL AND HONEYMOON AND THE BIG STUFF IS TAKEN CARE OF AND THE LITTLE THINGS WELL WE HAVE TO DO THAT TOO... LUCKY GIRL
Beth1210
Posted: Aug 12, 2005 04:02 PM+

Posted: Aug 12, 2005 04:02 PM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
Posted by DUCKS2001
I TOTALLY AGREE.... THAT IS GREAT YOUR DAD WRTES OUT THE MONEY FOR YOU... I AM PAYNG FOR HALL AND HONEYMOON AND THE BIG STUFF IS TAKEN CARE OF AND THE LITTLE THINGS WELL WE HAVE TO DO THAT TOO... LUCKY GIRL
I know I am lucky- my Dad is very generous
I give credit to everyone who has to pay for the wedding themselves
I am paying for the rings and honeymoon- he is taking care of the rest-
jens
Posted: Aug 12, 2005 04:08 PM+
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
Posted by Beth1210
why do you need that? or I didn't have that at my wedding!
like one day I said at work I am going to order matching place cards b/c the ones my halls gives me have gold trim- and I am using silver for everything
I feel like saying back why do you care? I don't need it- but it makes me happy to know everything goes together-
If my Dad doesn't care- ( he writes the checks) then why do they
Posted: Aug 13, 2005 12:12 AM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
People don't know when to keep their mouths shut! Someone said to me once..'don't go crazy spending alot of money on unncessary things it's only one day' i just looked at her and turned my head.
MrsP2Be
Posted: Aug 13, 2005 07:46 AM+

Posted: Aug 13, 2005 07:46 AM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
I hate it, and even more so when it comes from people not directly involved with paying for it (like, his family)
NPTbride
Posted: Aug 14, 2005 01:03 AM+

Posted: Aug 14, 2005 01:03 AM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
Yes, I hate it too!
Especially because my family is all from out of town and they really do not understand what is involved at all. I also don't like people who have really strong opinions on styles of dresses because I am usually like, 'Really, I kind of like it that way!'
AlliNMatt06
Posted: Aug 14, 2005 01:52 AM+

Posted: Aug 14, 2005 01:52 AM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
People like to tell me that they hate DJ's at weddings, and of course I am having one. I actually prefer a DJ, but maybe if I had the money I would pay for a band.Other people like to comment on how they hate strapless bridal dresses, when I say I am having one. Of course these comments come from the older generation.
Everyone will always have something to say, I just ignore them.
BKtoLI
Posted: Aug 14, 2005 02:13 AM+

Posted: Aug 14, 2005 02:13 AM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
I have to laugh at the strapless dress comment!!!When my cousin (aka MOH) got married, my mother commented on how could she wear a strapless dress to her wedding especially in the the church, blah blah blah.
When I went dress shopping with my mom, what was the first dress she picked out and loved on me? A STRAPLESS DRESS!!!
I think so far the only person that has told me anything was one of my BM's. She kept asking me why wasn't I picking lilac as my theme, I said because I'm not crazy about the color. End of discussion.
Otherwise than that, I think the only other thing was my brother and SIL telling us we don't need a videographer because how many times are you really going to watch the video, and we agreed!
BKtoLI
Posted: Aug 14, 2005 02:16 AM+

Posted: Aug 14, 2005 02:16 AM
Re: Spin off- Do you hate when people say....
Posted by Goldi1021
I get that all the time. It is no one's business. Why do I need it? BECAUSE I SAID SO!!! THAT'S WHY!
Leslie always manages to crack me up, I think we have the same twisted sense of humor!
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