Is anyone else having this problem? My Mom seems to be inviting people to our wedding without even letting me know! FH and I are paying for everything but my parents are making the final payment on the hall. I know it's alot of $ they are giving us as part of our present, but I think it would still be courteous to tell me who she's inviting to the biggest day of my life! I don't even know 1/2 the people!