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kellwolfe Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:18 AM+
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For girls who are/have gotten married on site

Are you/did you invite your Offciant to say at the wedding ....or how does that work

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Mrs. Powell Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:20 AM+
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Re: For girls who are/have gotten married on site

My officiant did receive an invitation for him and his guest.
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brooklynbridezilla Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:25 AM+
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Re: For girls who are/have gotten married on site


Posted by Mrs. Powell

My officiant did receive an invitation for him and his guest.



ditto, but our pastor is distant family, and we got to know him during pre-marital counseling.
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mable Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:26 AM+
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Re: For girls who are/have gotten married on site

I do not count either because my pastor is my uncle.. Are you close w/ him?
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trnity44 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:34 AM+
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Re: For girls who are/have gotten married on site

We did not invite the officant
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kellwolfe Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:36 AM+
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Posted by mable

I do not count either because my pastor is my uncle.. Are you close w/ him?




No ....not at all- of course I invited him to our rehearsal dinner ...
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mable Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:37 AM+
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Re: For girls who are/have gotten married on site

Well if you do not know him, that should be good enough..
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ShortBride Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:38 AM+
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Re: For girls who are/have gotten married on site

We invited the Rabbi and his wife, but they did not attend the reception.
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kellwolfe Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:38 AM+
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Posted by brooklynbridezilla


Posted by Mrs. Powell

My officiant did receive an invitation for him and his guest.



ditto, but our pastor is distant family, and we got to know him during pre-marital counseling.



good to know....I just wasnt sure how to go about it or who to even sit him with if I did ....
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kellwolfe Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:41 AM+
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Posted by mable

Well if you do not know him, that should be good enough..



thank you....I just dont want him to think i am being rude ....I dont know what the 'proper' thing to do it ...And I guess is just what your personal feeling on it is ?!
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Mrs. dleeny Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:41 AM+
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Re: For girls who are/have gotten married on site

we didn't invite him. we only met with him once before the wedding.
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kellwolfe Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:42 AM+
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Re: For girls who are/have gotten married on site


Posted by Mrs. Powell

My officiant did receive an invitation for him and his guest.




Did he/they come?...who did you site him with ......
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Mrs. Powell Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:45 AM+
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Posted by kellwolfe


Posted by Mrs. Powell

My officiant did receive an invitation for him and his guest.




Did he/they come?...who did you site him with ......



Yes, he was there and I seat him with some friends that knows him.
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kellwolfe Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:46 AM+
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Posted by Mrs. Powell


Posted by kellwolfe


Posted by Mrs. Powell

My officiant did receive an invitation for him and his guest.




Did he/they come?...who did you site him with ......



Yes, he was there and I seat him with some friends that knows him.



Ok...well if I do maybe I will put him with my parents? he wont know anyone else but my parents and my inlaws .....
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kellwolfe Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:47 AM+
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Spin-off ...what if I just asked him after the ceremony to at least stay for our cocktail hour before he goes.....is that rude?
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Mrs. Powell Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:52 AM+
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Posted by kellwolfe

Spin-off ...what if I just asked him after the ceremony to at least stay for our cocktail hour before he goes.....is that rude?



IMHO I would invite him to before the wedding.
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M&LSept1606 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:52 AM+
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Re: For girls who are/have gotten married on site

we're not, I guess he can stick around for cocktail but I'm not giving him a formal invite.
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kellwolfe Posted: Nov 17, 2005 11:15 AM+
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thanks for all your help ladies
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Mrs.Z Posted: Nov 17, 2005 11:17 AM+
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mine stayed and ate at the coctail hour but then left. He said he never stays for a wedding.
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