I just wanted to say goodbye (for now)

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You will be missed. Bye.

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Know that you are always welcome to chat here. We are always there for you.

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I hope everything works out for you.... I am sorry you feel like you shouldn't post anymore, but you have to do what is best for you. Please know everyone here cares about you!! You are always welcome to chat with us.

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Eleanor
Dont feel you have to leave LIW bc you post too much. You obviously appreciate the honest advice and opinions of us LIW girls and maybe its a good outlet for you bc we are unbiased and you DONT have to feel embarrassed bc we all dont know each other in 'real ' life so you CAN be honest. Sometimes its hard to talk to your friends and family about things (esp. FI) w/o thinking they will judge you or have ill feelings towards your FI. But we on the other hand wont do that bc that is what this is all about

Please dont leave for those reasons. If there are things in your personal life you want to share- good OR bad- we can try to help. Think of it as FREE therapy

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I hope everything works out for you. good luck.

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I am truly sorry that you feel that way, but you have to do what is best for you. I wish you the absolute best and hope to see you back here soon!

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I'm so sorry. If you ever need to talk or need a friend, all of us LIW girls are here for you!

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I hope everything works out for you and FH.

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Good luck - you may need some time to mull things over on your own for a while - which is a good thing to do! Good luck!!!

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Eleanor:

I'm so sorry you feel this way. I hope you dont feel that you were being judged in any way. I hope that you can use this time to settle things with you and your FH. Remember that you can always come back here if you need to talk or vent.. anything. You will be missed on the boards. I hope that whatever happens between you & your FH, your happy. Afterall, that is whats most important.

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I hope everything works out for you and your FI. Best of luck to you!

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Eleanor, I'm so sorry to hear this!!! You'll surely be missed on these boards!! I can understand you cutting back from LIW, but please don't completely leave us. Come back and visit us often, we'd love to hear how you and your FI are doing!!

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I'm sorry that you feel you have to go, I just want to wish you the best with everything. I hope it all works out the way you want.

Take care of yourself.

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Best of luck!

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Eleanor, talking with people about what is going in should not be construed as embarrasing yourself. We are here to help and offer support - whether it is to give a or offer advice about a dress color.

I understand your need to take a break, but please don't go away thinking that you embarrassed yourself by sharing your concerns about your relationship, or your doubts about your wedding. We all have those moments, and while some of those moments last until we call off a wedding, others just come and vent, and IMHO, not one girl here things less of any other girl here because of a vent over FH, FILs, or our own family.

Please take care of yourself, and good luck at counseling!!

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You will be missed, but I totally understand about having to take time to yourself. Come back and give us updates on what is happening with you. If you need to talk LIW is always here for you.

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ok but hope to hear from you soon!