rude people!

can you believe that someone had the nerve to tell me FH isnt 'the one' for me??? my co-worker is like he isnt 'the one' and it will be over soon b/c he isnt here with you (in NY) now.

i am here and he is in Australia until my visa passes. he couldnt be with me b/c he just started a new job and airfare is thru the roof and more than we can afford right now. we have been apart for 7 months before last year and we did just fine. hey we got engaged.

i am just so mad that someone said that to me and he hasnt even met my FH and has only worked there a short time. i worked with him at another restaurant 10 years ago, but still....

***???

why are people so rude?

eta: *** means= what the eff???

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That is rude! Seriously, certain people just do not censor themselves. Plus, that is an opinion that should NEVER be offered especially from a co-worker. If you think he is 'the one' then thats all that matters!

My father's girlfriends daughter (sorry thats complicated) made me feel so bad for choosing a December wedding. She just kept saying, 'its just a hard time of year for everyone, no one will want to go, you wont get as much money etc.' I was stunned. Given I know the holidays can be very stressful but its a wonderful time of year - especially when surrounded by your friends and family.

Some nerve!

Glad you vented - I need to too!

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nice screenname....

'everytime a bell rings an angel gets his wings'

favourite xmas movie.

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It's like some people are missing the filtering mechanism from their brain to their mouth...

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Posted by ZuzusPetals

That is rude! Seriously, certain people just do not censor themselves. Plus, that is an opinion that should NEVER be offered especially from a co-worker. If you think he is 'the one' then thats all that matters!

My father's girlfriends daughter (sorry thats complicated) made me feel so bad for choosing a December wedding. She just kept saying, 'its just a hard time of year for everyone, no one will want to go, you wont get as much money etc.' I was stunned. Given I know the holidays can be very stressful but its a wonderful time of year - especially when surrounded by your friends and family.

Some nerve!

Glad you vented - I need to too!

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It's probably just sour grapes...there's no need for comments like that!! You and your FH are sacrificing now, you won't be the first or last couple to do so and it can make you stronger!!

To ZuzusPetals- great screen name!! and what your father's gf daughter said is wrong- from what I keep hearing is to do what the heck you want and if people really want to attend your wedding they will!!

You say 'wedding' and everyone has an opinion and everyone raises their prices!!

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

It's like some people are missing the filtering mechanism from their brain to their mouth...

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Exactly!

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People are so quick to judge...it's sad.

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People are idiots - just ignore him. Unfortuantely you will probably run into a few more idiotic statements such as this before your day arrives.

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Love is an attitude and has nothing to do with lattitude Consider the source and think nothing of it does this persons opinion really matter to you?

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I had a coworker tell me something similar. When I told him when my wedding was he said that we will break up before then and that 2 year engagements never work out! Yeah thanks for letting me know......

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that is so ride and NONE of other people's business

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People will say the most unbelievable, stupid things. Eff them.

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Don't listen to people...trust me there are too many idiots out there who don't have a clue!! They are not living in your relationship!!

ZuzusPetals, I heard that name in a movie once...I think it was that movie with Andrew Dice Clay...called the Adventures of Ford Fairlane or something like that.

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that is unbelievable, sounds like a bitter person who wants to bring you down. I hope you told them just how rude they were.

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Posted by TreAnt425

I had a coworker tell me something similar. When I told him when my wedding was he said that we will break up before then and that 2 year engagements never work out! Yeah thanks for letting me know......

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WOW- people really comment on everything. I've heard a few ignorant statements about FH's background- he's Indian- they shut up when I tell them that he's Protestant but so what!?!

As for 2 year engagements- what is wrong with people! My MOH told me that she didn't believe in long engagements- probably why she married her DH after not even being with each other for a year!

Bottom line- do what you need to do and take advice from those who know and love you and ignore the morons!

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Posted by BernandRob

that is unbelievable, sounds like a bitter person who wants to bring you down. I hope you told them just how rude they were.

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i intend to say something today. at the time i just kind of walked away, i said a few things as you dont know him blah blah, but i thought about it when i got home, and got so mad.

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just ignore him. some people have no sense of what comes out of their mouths. my boss once told me it sounds like i'm going to have a great starter marriage (he's been married 3 times)

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What a jerk, I get that every now and then too because my FH has been working a contract in Alaska for the last year and I've only seen him a limited amount of time this year. We decided to sacrifice for the $ because we're moving to Seattle and buying a home in 2006. I think people like that are just jealous.

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Posted by natinwpb

What a jerk, I get that every now and then too because my FH has been working a contract in Alaska for the last year and I've only seen him a limited amount of time this year. We decided to sacrifice for the $ because we're moving to Seattle and buying a home in 2006. I think people like that are just jealous.

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glad to knwo i am not the only one in this situation.

one of his comments was 'he is your soulmate' and should be with you at all times, if he loved you he would make an effort to be here with you, no matter the cost'

some people dont realise that love isnt the ONLY factor in a marriage. yes it is the underlying aspect, but i mean money plays a prety major role.