another etiquette question

hi girls. i posted the other day asking what to do about a baby shower gift. however, i just found out from fi that it's a christening! they are having it at some reception hall. to me, that's a foreign concept b/c christenings with my family/friends is always a small, intimate celebration with only the closest of family/friends. (to recap the invite came from my fi's employee who has only been with the company for about a month!)

anyhow, i'm wondering if same advice of getting them something small is still relevant? it doesn't look like they are registered anywhere. since it's a christening and not a shower, is it appropriate to give baby gift type stuff, or are we better off doing a $25 savings bond?

p.s. now i really feel like we were invited simply for the gift!

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You can never go wrong with a bond for a baby.

That is what I normally give. I buy 25 dollars worth of a bond. I think that buys a 50 dollar bond. It matures by the time the baby is 18.

I think that would be fine.

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Posted by k&m06

You can never go wrong with a bond for a baby.

That is what I normally give. I buy 25 dollars worth of a bond. I think that buys a 50 dollar bond. It matures by the time the baby is 18.

I think that would be fine.

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This is my standard gift as well as a toy of some sort for the baby (ie rattle, bath toy, stuffed animal, etc)

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I think the bond is a good idea

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Go for the bond. I am cashing mine in from 1980 to pay for my photographer!