Look at the cute shirt my sister got me!

I love this shirt and can't wait to wear it to my bachelorette party this weekend.

I must admit that I am getting frustrated with people. So many people are complaning about things that I just don't want to hear. Some of my friends are complaining that they might not have $$ for the bachelorette party. Others are just complaining about everything. People don't want to come out after dinner because they have other things to do/work the next day. I feel like can't you just come out for a little then go home? I would totally suck it up and spend time with the bride despite being sick, work, etc (and have done this!). I know I can't expect everyone to come but I just don't want to hear the complaints.

OK, rant over. Thanks for listening!

Now on to my beautiful red bride shirt!

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The shirt is absolutely adorable! LOVE THE RED!!!!!

As far as the BP goes - people [email protected] and simple. I'm making sure that I'm there and making sure that you have an awesome time!!!!!!

p.s. Maybe Sam will show up????

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beautiful shirt!!!

I can't believe people do this! It is not like we are asking people to put their lives on hold! Come out for an hour or two! Don't let them get the best of you Hollie!!! Enjoy your bachelorette party!!!!

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That shirt is so adorable!
As for the party thing- I don't understand the not going out to dinner thing, but once I was in my friend's BP, and I did not attend her bachelorette party. I had no job at the time, and with all the other expenses for the wedding (dress,hair, gift, etc.), I just could not afford the $200+ for the bachelorette party. Also they were going to to strip club, and I felt very uncomfortable about that. So please understand that sometimes people have legitimate reasons, its not just that they s*ck. I don't see why they couldn't go out to dinner with you though.

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Hey Hollie..

First off.. I LOVE LOVE LOVE the shirt. That is something that I would want to wear at my bachelorette party.

#2 Dont worry about people & all of their complaints.. This is the same thing that I was concerned about when my friends suggested that we should all go away to celebrate my bachelorette party. I was so worried about who couldn't make it, who didn't have the money, bla bla bla... you have to realize that whoever really wants to be there will be there REGARDLESS. Personally, If I had a close friend whose bachelorette party was coming up soon, I would plan accordingly & save up enough money to make it. Besides that, would you really want anyone complaining the whole night? That would be aweful.

Please dont worry. im sure everything will work out !!

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Thanks ladies for all of the love and support. I love my shirt and can't wait to wear it~

As far as the bp goes, I am trying to just think that those who want to be there and celebrate with me will. My sisters have really gone above and beyond with this and are trying to give me the best party possible. So I am grateful to them and my friends (like Christine!) that want to be there.

I can't wait till this weekend!

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Where are you going, Hollie?

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We're starting off at my friend's house for drinks and then going to Mangia y Bevi.

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wow that is realy cute

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the shirt is so cute.

Hollie, all I can tell you is this: forget the people that can't go (myself included!) and concentrate on enjoying those that ARE celebrating with you.

the more does not always equal the merrier, and you will see that the people that are with you WANT to party. do you really want a bunch of complainers sitting there staring at their watches (and the bar bill???)

go and have a good time-I can't wait to see pics

And remember, we'll always have Webster Hall!

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I like that -- have the best time at Mangia e Bevi (I did!)
I hope that you have an AWESOME night!

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Posted by JessicaM.

the shirt is so cute.

Hollie, all I can tell you is this: forget the people that can't go (myself included!) and concentrate on enjoying those that ARE celebrating with you.

the more does not always equal the merrier, and you will see that the people that are with you WANT to party. do you really want a bunch of complainers sitting there staring at their watches (and the bar bill???)

go and have a good time-I can't wait to see pics

And remember, we'll always have Webster Hall!

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GREAT ADVICE Jess! Hollie, she nailed it right on the head.

This is a moment for you given to you. Go there, have a great time and be selfish!

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That shirt is beautiful..I love it. As for the BP-you will have a wonderful time regardless. It is true, those who want to be there will be.

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Aw, that's such a cute shirt, love the red and love the lil flower even more!! Have a great time this weekend, don't worry about who isn't there and just focus on those who are. I know it's hard to ignore the complainers, but just think that in a few days you and Jon will be married and nothing else matters!!

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that shirt is so cute. i hope you have a great bachelorette party.

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Love the shirt. Enjoy your Bachelorette party.

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Love the shirt!!

This is your weekend. Enjoy it, don't worry about anyone else. Have fun with those that are there and forget about those that are not. If people complain, don't listen, at this point in time just let it roll off your back. No biggie!!!

Have a great weekend. You deserve it!!!

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the people that really want to be there will be there

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The tank is adorable!

Don't worry about the BP, Jess is right - quality not quantity. You're going to have a great time no matter what!

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where is that shirt from?? I want one!