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Jackie&Justin Posted: Jan 23, 2006 08:12 PM+
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Vent-Advice neeeed

Today was my first day at a new job. I just wanted it for some extra cash. My friends Mom is the boss and got me in. I HATE IT!!!!! What do I do? I am also going to school at night, and I am so tired!!!! I don't want to seem like a quitter, but I don't really need the money, so is it worth it? I talked to my friend and she said I am not giving it a chance and to wait and week and see what I think...What do you think girls?
Thanks!!!
So tired!
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suven Posted: Jan 23, 2006 08:12 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

I wouldn't make any decisions based on the 1st day. The 1st day is always the worst
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Mrs. dleeny Posted: Jan 23, 2006 08:14 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed


Posted by suven

I wouldn't make any decisions based on the 1st day. The 1st day is always the worst

I agree. the 1st day of the job I currently have was HORRIBLE! I came home and cried.

That was over 10 years ago, and I am still with the same company.

give it a chance.
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aliwnec10 Posted: Jan 23, 2006 08:16 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

i hated my first days at my jobs too! You can't ever tell from the first day. Give it time. I would at least give it a week or two.

Good luck! It will get easier!
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L&M2006 Posted: Jan 23, 2006 08:26 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

First days always suck. I would give it a little bit of time if I were you.
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missgwife Posted: Jan 23, 2006 08:29 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

Give it two weeks
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M&LSept1606 Posted: Jan 23, 2006 08:29 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

I'm with everyone else. give it a week at least, you don't need the money but it will be nice when you get your pay check!!!
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waterspout4 Posted: Jan 23, 2006 08:34 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

Yes. It'll get better because you're always learning so much the first day. Give it time and see what it's like in a few weeks.
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nygirl77 Posted: Jan 23, 2006 10:02 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

Keep it up for a little while and then if you still hate it, you can quit. But it doesn't look good if you quit after only 1 day.
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JennyAl Posted: Jan 23, 2006 10:04 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

give it a month MAX....if not just let the mom know that you tried it but with the school load...its to tiring
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jnrrb Posted: Jan 23, 2006 10:06 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

give it a week
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DanaMZ Posted: Jan 23, 2006 10:07 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

I would try to make it through the week, especially since your friend's mom got you the job. If you hate it that much after a week you could always tell your friend's mom that while you really appreciate it, you bit off more than you could chew with the job, school, etc.

Good luck
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Sweets14 Posted: Jan 23, 2006 10:21 PM+
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Re: Vent-Advice neeeed

Give it time! The first few days are always the hardest!!!
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