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Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

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MrsH1156
I'm a Mommy!!

Member since 10/05

3313 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/5/2006 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
East Wind AA+++++++

Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

Well we were trying to do the right thing by changing our plans and doing a smaller, less traditional wedding but it seems that is not to be. The change in our plans caused huge problems with my FH and his family, to the point where he is not speaking to them right now. So basically, our intentions (although sincere) backfired on us so we're going back to Plan A and getting married in November and we really don't care if either families attend or not. I'm completely embarrassed and want to apologize to all of you ladies for the back and forth. I just want to be happy and get married!

Posted 2/3/06 10:19 PM
 

cmastro25
Ah ... Married Life!!!

Member since 7/04

3839 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/21/2006 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

No apologies needed. Hey, you have to do what is best for you and FH and try to forget all the drama around you.

Posted 2/3/06 11:13 PM
 

MrsD06
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 7/05

2671 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/14/2006 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

aww, don't be embarassed
I'm sorry this is becoming such a big PITA for you guys. I am here for you and so are all of the girls here.

Posted 2/3/06 11:14 PM
 

MrsStefan
We're MARRIED!!!

Member since 1/05

5990 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/14/2006 10:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Giorgio's A++++++

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

aww! Don't be embarrassed. You have to do what makes you happy!

Posted 2/3/06 11:25 PM
 

BKtoLI
Some things just never change

Member since 6/05

8519 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/30/2006 4:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - A++

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

Theresa, no need to feel embarrassed!!!

You have to do what is best for the 2 of you and NO ONE ELSE!!!!

If this is what makes both of you happy, then do it. And don't worry about flaky relatives on both sides. Things will find a way to work themselves out in the long run.

Posted 2/3/06 11:30 PM
 

hmpena
Momma to be- team blue!

Member since 1/05

14747 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/15/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow A+

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

You have NOTHING to be embarrassed about! I hope you are happy with this decision. I think you have a great attitude about the whole situation. Just remember in the end, you will be married to an amazing man.

Posted 2/4/06 1:28 AM
 

autumn
Good bye 06 board its been fun

Member since 10/04

3126 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Majestic Gardens A++++

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

Don't worry about us, you do what makes you and FH happy.

Posted 2/4/06 2:00 AM
 

MrsH1156
I'm a Mommy!!

Member since 10/05

3313 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/5/2006 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
East Wind AA+++++++

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

Thanks everyone. Hopefully this will be the end of our wedding drama for a while. We're basically not involving anyone else (except my MOH) in the wedding planning process. So 9 mos from tomorrow, I will be a wife. Will it EVER get here? Thanks again, Ladies. You remind me why I'm so happy to be a part of the LIWedding community.

Posted 2/4/06 10:25 AM
 

sarahthegreat
sweet pea

Member since 11/03

6398 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/4/2006 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
stewart manor country club

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

pls don't be embarrassed, you are doing what makes you happy.

Posted 2/4/06 10:25 AM
 

October Bliss
Beyond Obsession

Member since 8/05

7629 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/8/2006 2:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Country Gardens @ East Wind

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

Theresa - I'm happy to hear you & Craig decided to do what's best for the two of you & to say the heck with everyone else.

Posted 2/4/06 10:42 AM
 

CLMon7906
Little Wonders ♥

Member since 1/06

8600 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/9/2006 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
The Swan Club

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

i know what you mean...now that fh sees how much work and money is going in to this circus, he's starting to see that my remarks about takinga vacation in hawaii and returning married and then just having a fabulous party isn't so wacky anymore! i'm with you...i just want to be happy, married and happily married...not obsessed with the details i now find myself sorting through daily.

Posted 2/4/06 12:49 PM
 

sarahbelle
Old Married Lady

Member since 11/04

4160 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/8/2006 12:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor A++++

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

Don't apologize. Planning a wedding is stressful! Do what makes you happy

Posted 2/4/06 1:36 PM
 

DUCKS2001
i have a daughter!!!

Member since 7/05

5784 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/7/2006 3:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Giorgio's The Best Place For Romance!They RULE!

Re: Ummm yeah...We changed our wedding plans back...

IT IS IMPORTANT THAT YOU ARE HAPPY WITH THE DATE FORGET EVERYTHING ELSE

Posted 2/4/06 7:25 PM
 
 

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