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How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

esb980 Posted: Feb 09, 2006 10:26 PM+

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Posted: Feb 09, 2006 10:26 PM

How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

causes so much stress and tears?

clw924 Posted: Feb 09, 2006 10:28 PM+

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Posted: Feb 09, 2006 10:28 PM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

Because there are always people who have to add their 'nasty' 2 cents...They wouldn't be 'them' if they didn't..you know - misery loves complany...

BJandDan Posted: Feb 09, 2006 10:34 PM+

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Posted: Feb 09, 2006 10:34 PM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

Posted by clw924

Because there are always people who have to add their 'nasty' 2 cents...They wouldn't be 'them' if they didn't..you know - misery loves complany...

unfortunately.... so freaking true.... dumb people

Kris516 Posted: Feb 09, 2006 11:03 PM+

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Posted: Feb 09, 2006 11:03 PM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

Posted by esb980

causes so much stress and tears?

What happened?

October Bliss Posted: Feb 09, 2006 11:08 PM+

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Posted: Feb 09, 2006 11:08 PM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

Eleanor, sweetie what happened???

These are for you:

esb980 Posted: Feb 09, 2006 11:11 PM+

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Posted: Feb 09, 2006 11:11 PM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

Everything.... no ones happy. It's coming so fast. It made me realize some not so nice things about people in my life.... $$$.... growing up and dreaming about this day.... I mean I never thought my wedding would hurt people, or make people fight.... it's one of those days, you know?

October Bliss Posted: Feb 10, 2006 12:32 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 12:32 AM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

Posted by esb980

it's one of those days, you know?

I do indeed. Have some more

. Tomorrow is another day - oh, wait, it's already tomorrow!!!

msnora Posted: Feb 10, 2006 12:51 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 12:51 AM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

I know how you feel I have shed more tears planning my wedding than I ever had in my entire life. Pray pray pray!! and remember who gave the wonderful Gift of finding that one person in the world who has your back !! That's all that matters in the end!! NO matter what people say or do!

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:26 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:26 AM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

thats because you let it happen...Im sorry but you cant let these people get to you! Enjoy it! You're getting married and the even is only a few hours!

SIBride06 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:28 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:28 AM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

Posted by msnora

I know how you feel I have shed more tears planning my wedding than I ever had in my entire life. Pray pray pray!! and remember who gave the wonderful Gift of finding that one person in the world who has your back !! That's all that matters in the end!! NO matter what people say or do!

Well said!

SuzBride Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:32 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:32 AM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

UGH Screw the nasties! I have heard 100s of unasked for opinions (mostly nasty/condescending/rude/demanding) - and the only way to deal is just to ignore them and remember that you are marrying the man of your dreams!

At some point you just have to give up trying to make everyone else happy, and do what makes you and your FH happy (it is YOUR day afterall!)

kittythestray Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:40 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:40 AM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

I know what you mean, but I just decided I AM NOT GOING TO LET THEM GET TO ME! I just worry about what my FH thinks and that's it. In the begining I was trying so hard to please everyone and no matter what I did someone was still upset, so I gave up!

69 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:41 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:41 AM

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it is amazing reall y how this happens.... makes you understand why people elope...

hang in there... everyone says in the end it's all water under the bridge....

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:46 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 09:46 AM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

I think the biggest reason is because of MONEY! I know that where all my stress is coming from.

nov06 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 10:06 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 10:06 AM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

Nothing's ever easy it seems - but it will all be worth it in the end!

franksgirl323 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 10:26 AM+

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Posted: Feb 10, 2006 10:26 AM

Re: How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

i'm sorry. i finally had to stand up to my mother and get really nasty back at her. it went something along the lines of 'how about worrying less about how you are gonna feel and what you want and more about what i want'. I pretty much screamed this on the top of my lungs at her...since then...no futher nasty comments.

its really impowering to lash back. LOL