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jilmadison
Happily Married
Member since 2/05 2226 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Bachelor Party Question
My mom thinks that FH should invite my dad to his bachelor party. She said it is tradition to invite the dad. Is your FH going to invite your dad and his dad to the bachelor party?
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Posted 2/17/06 8:42 AM 
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angnick
Married life is Bliss!!!
Member since 7/05 3701 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/2/2006 10:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Thatched Cottage A+++
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
To be honest, my FH can't imagine a bachelor party without him. Him and my Dad are really close. I guess it depends on the relationship. Speak to your FH about it.
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Posted 2/17/06 8:44 AM
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jilmadison
Happily Married
Member since 2/05 2226 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 4:00 PM
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Westbury Manor
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
Posted by angnick
To be honest, my FH can't imagine a bachelor party without him. Him and my Dad are really close. I guess it depends on the relationship. Speak to your FH about it.
My FH thinks that is no longer the tradition.
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Posted 2/17/06 8:47 AM
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angnick
Married life is Bliss!!!
Member since 7/05 3701 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/2/2006 10:00 AM
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Thatched Cottage A+++
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
Would your dad get offended if he is not invited?
If not, then stick to FH's wishes. Your Mom will get over it!
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Posted 2/17/06 8:51 AM
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jilmadison
Happily Married
Member since 2/05 2226 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 4:00 PM
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Westbury Manor
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
Posted by angnick
Would your dad get offended if he is not invited?
If not, then stick to FH's wishes. Your Mom will get over it!
To be honest I don't know if my dad would or would not be offended. I feel like maybe FH should invite him b/c my dad is paying for the wedding
But on the other hand my dad would be the only older guy there, and I want FH to relax and have fun
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Posted 2/17/06 8:54 AM
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angnick
Married life is Bliss!!!
Member since 7/05 3701 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/2/2006 10:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Thatched Cottage A+++
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
If your dad is going to be the only older guy there, he may not even want to go. And, yes you want your FH to have a great time and relax and be himself.. Did you mention it to your dad yet? Your dad may not even want to go. He may not feel comfortable. What do you think?
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Posted 2/17/06 8:59 AM
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jilmadison
Happily Married
Member since 2/05 2226 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
If my dad is invited, he will go, he would think it would be rude not to. Even if he wont be comfortable
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Posted 2/17/06 9:09 AM
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DandS
It was the BEST day of my life
Member since 1/06 3997 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/25/2006 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Floral Terrace - A+
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
FH is going to a football game with the guys so my father and his father will go to that, and then they will be going to dinner which again our father's will go to, but when they go out after that our dad's will go home, as well as our older cousin's and uncle's (probably just his friends, brother's, my brother, and our cousin's that our our age will go out).
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Posted 2/17/06 9:28 AM
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SunBride07
loving being a newlywed
Member since 12/05 1544 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2007 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
That sounds crazy to me!
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Posted 2/17/06 9:29 AM
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kam29
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Member since 7/05 497 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/29/2006 6:00 PM
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
Both Dads were invited to FH's bachelor party in Vegas. His Dad isn't going but mine is.
I also invited both Moms to my bachelorette party in Florida. Luckily only my Mom is going!
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Posted 2/17/06 9:34 AM
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ali120206
Over a year!
Member since 10/05 4386 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/2/2006 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hyatt Windwatch
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
My FH is planning on having a destination bachelor party with his friends and then a night out in the city one where he will invite my dad, my uncles and my cousins as well as whomever else he feels like inviting.
I'm thinking of doing the same for my bachelorette. Having a few of my closer friends go away with me and then having a night out in the city with family members and some other friends.
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Posted 2/17/06 9:38 AM
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JPCP4806
Due May 2007!!!
Member since 9/04 1153 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/8/2006 3:00 PM
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Carlyle on the Green A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
both fathers are going to my FH's bach. party- They are going to foxwoods for the day.. They all love to gamble to its perfect for them! They also did this for his brothers wedding 2 years ago and have been looking forward to it since then- they fathers love it!
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Posted 2/17/06 9:44 AM
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ellebelle1
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Member since 12/05 907 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/13/2006 12:00 AM
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Re: Bachelor Party Question
As you can imagine, it all depends on what the bachelor party entails. If they are going to have a wild night of drinking and strip clubs, then I'd say no. Your mom might be nieve and think it's a regular dinner party or something. She might not know how crazy bachelor parties tend to be.
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Posted 2/17/06 9:53 AM
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