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heatherfaith
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Member since 8/05 509 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2006 12:00 AM
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watermill
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catholic church ceremony
what do we have to pick. I don't want to call my church and sound like an idiot. I would rather ask all you helpful brides.
i know two readings. but what else?
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Posted 3/21/06 8:44 PM 
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beautyq115
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Member since 12/04 16774 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Swan Club...AMAZING
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Re: catholic church ceremony
They give you a whole book...don't worry
Two readings, the gospel and you can also pick songs if you want
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Posted 3/21/06 8:46 PM
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JPCP4806
Due May 2007!!!
Member since 9/04 1153 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/8/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Re: catholic church ceremony
I picked everything with my priest about 2 months before our wedding.. We didnt know what to do.. He was really nice about it, We played it off like we wanted his advice!
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Posted 3/22/06 9:09 AM
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RENEE92405
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Wedding Date:
9/24/2005 2:00 PM
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Re: catholic church ceremony
They give a book that has an outline of the ceremony and all the prayers. YOu basically fill in the blanks. The priest follows the outline.
WE got the book when we first went to book the church. Then i didn't see the priest again until 2 weeks before! It all worked fine and the ceremony was beautiful.
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Posted 3/22/06 9:35 AM
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smara
Member since 12/05 3169 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/26/2006 1:30 PM
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Re: catholic church ceremony
Yeah they give you a book in Pre Cana with all the readings to select from etc...
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Posted 3/22/06 10:15 AM
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autumnwedding
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Wedding Date:
1/1/2006 2:30 PM
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Re: catholic church ceremony
Some random questions that could be helpful are:
-Can they arrange the Atlar Servers
-Restrictions on decorations (No Scotch Tape/Tacs, No rose petals, no rice/bird seed throwing outside)
-All church fees (including organist, vocalists)
-2 readings - can you also have someone read the prayer of the faithful (some churches only allow priests to read them)
-How many people will they allow to bring up the gifts
-Is there a wedding before/after yours
-Set up Pre Cana
-Set up Rehearsal date/time
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Posted 3/22/06 1:53 PM
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May2004
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 7/03 2607 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/15/2004 3:00 PM
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Re: catholic church ceremony
Posted by autumnwedding
Some random questions that could be helpful are:
-Can they arrange the Atlar Servers
-Restrictions on decorations (No Scotch Tape/Tacs, No rose petals, no rice/bird seed throwing outside)
-All church fees (including organist, vocalists)
-2 readings - can you also have someone read the prayer of the faithful (some churches only allow priests to read them)
-How many people will they allow to bring up the gifts
-Is there a wedding before/after yours
-Set up Pre Cana
-Set up Rehearsal date/time
I agree. Also, don't worry about sounding like an idiot, because its new to all Brides.
If you are taking Pre Cana, they will give you a booklet "TOGETHER FOR LIFE" that will help you choose readings and gives you the order of the Mass - its all in there
Here is my outline
ENTRANCE RITE
Processional
Attendants’ Processional [name of song]
Bride’s Processional [name of song]
GREETING & OPENING PRAYER
LITURGY OF THE WORD
First Reading [name of who will be doing this]
[name of reading]
[book name and numbers]
Responsorial Psalm [name of who will be doing this - most likely the organist/singer]
[name of reading]
Sorry I don't have a picture
[book name and numbers]
Second Reading [name of who will be doing this]
[name of reading]
[book name and numbers]
Gospel Acclamation and Verse [name of who will be doing this - most likely the organist/singer]
[name of verse]
Gospel [Priest's name]
[name of reading]
[book name and numbers]
Homily [Priest's name]
RITE OF MATRIMONY
Exchange of Vows
Blessing and Exchange of Rings
Lighting of the Unity Candle
Hymn - [name of Hymn]
Presentation to the Blessed Mother
Hymn - [name of Hymn]
Prayer of the Faithful [name of who will be doing this]
LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST
Presentation of the Gifts [name of who will be doing this]
Offertory Hymn - [name of Hymn] [name of who will be doing this - most likey the organist/singer]
The Lord’s Prayer
Nuptial Blessing
Sign of Peace
Presentation to parents
Communion
Communion Hymn - [name of Hymn] [name of who will be doing this - most likey the organist/singer]
Prayer after Communion
CONCLUDING RITE
Final Blessing [Priest's name]
Recessional [name of song]
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Posted 3/22/06 2:00 PM
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heatherfaith
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Member since 8/05 509 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/27/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
watermill
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Re: catholic church ceremony
what do you mean bring up the gifts????
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Posted 3/22/06 4:32 PM
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May2004
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 7/03 2607 total posts
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5/15/2004 3:00 PM
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Re: catholic church ceremony
Posted by heatherfaith
what do you mean bring up the gifts????
The hosts and wine.
Are you having a Mass? If you not, you won't have this part in the Ceremony.
Message edited 3/22/2006 4:37:57 PM.
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Posted 3/22/06 4:35 PM
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carlsbride
Mommy-to-be!!!
Member since 8/05 1594 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/11/2006 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor 10+++
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Re: catholic church ceremony
Posted by heatherfaith
what do you mean bring up the gifts????
Bringing the bread and wine up to the altar before consecration.
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Posted 3/22/06 4:36 PM
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camerakrazie
my review is up
Member since 3/06 4333 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/22/2007 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
On the Great South Bay
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Re: catholic church ceremony
yea i have heard they give you a book with some options for readings...dont worry....you wont look like an idiot...they are there to help!!!
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Posted 3/22/06 5:22 PM
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ElegantBride
Newlywed
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1/1/2013 12:00 AM
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Re: catholic church ceremony
You should receive a book with guidelines at PreCana.
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Posted 3/22/06 5:24 PM
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