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How to you let people know you've registered?
Chelle Posted: Mar 22, 2006 06:11 PM+
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How to you let people know you've registered?

How do you 'tastefully' go about telling people you've reistered?

I know the places you register at give you announcement cards and you can send emails to friends and family through the website. But how do you alert people without feeling like a spoiled brat?

(Having a Veruca Salt moment... 'I want it NOW Daddy!!!!')
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donegal419 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 06:13 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

I've seen it done on the shower invitation only...

I have also heard it via word of mouth...

I guess there is no non-tacky way to say it.... and probably you should have your mom, friends, etc. spread the wrod for you.... most people just have to wait to around the shower time to start answering and sharing that information.
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stephanielyse Posted: Mar 22, 2006 06:13 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

They go in the shower invitations. I also put that info on our wedding website, so a lot of people found out that way. And if people want to know, they will ask you or your parents or your BP.
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mcb916 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 06:17 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

Definately word of mouth. And if your bridal party decides to put it on the invites then that's a good way too
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chapel06 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 06:20 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

I went the tacky route and put the info on my eparty invites. I know, I know I broke the rules! The thing is I dont think wedding gifts are a big shocker and those that dont want to bring gifts can disregard as they do the general custom of bringing gifts any way. JMO.
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jada2destiny Posted: Mar 22, 2006 06:22 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

My MOH put the cards in my bridal shower invites. i also put links to my registry on our website
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Chelle Posted: Mar 22, 2006 06:35 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

I just put it on my wedding website and I guess it's word of mouth now (I KNOW my mom's good for that! )

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NY55angel Posted: Mar 22, 2006 09:54 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

Is it tacky to put it in STD's? I'm going to send mine out in May/June and was planning on putting something in there.
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MJDoc12 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 09:59 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?


Posted by NY55angel

Is it tacky to put it in STD's? I'm going to send mine out in May/June and was planning on putting something in there.



no offense--but yes, i think it would be tacky to put it in the STD's...it's like saying 'save the date---and while your at it, BUY ME SOMETHING!'

they should only be put in shower invites (and some ppl think that's too much) and by word of mouth by your family and BP members.
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nposa07 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 10:06 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?


Posted by chapel06

I went the tacky route and put the info on my eparty invites. I know, I know I broke the rules! The thing is I dont think wedding gifts are a big shocker and those that dont want to bring gifts can disregard as they do the general custom of bringing gifts any way. JMO.



That's what we're doing too. I thought it was going to look rude but honestly since I've gotten engaged so many people have asked if I'm registered yet so I'm beginning to think it just makes it easier. I don't expect anyone to bring anything but it just helps cut back on worrying who knows and who doesn't.
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NY55angel Posted: Mar 23, 2006 03:53 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?


Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by NY55angel

Is it tacky to put it in STD's? I'm going to send mine out in May/June and was planning on putting something in there.



no offense--but yes, i think it would be tacky to put it in the STD's...it's like saying 'save the date---and while your at it, BUY ME SOMETHING!'

they should only be put in shower invites (and some ppl think that's too much) and by word of mouth by your family and BP memers.




None taken ! I wasn't sure though. A lot of OOT people have asked me if we have registered yet and where and so on. I didn't want to Email them cause I thought that was tacky, that's why I was going to put something in the STD's. I guess I'll just have my dad tell everyone, he probably will anyway!
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dbleplay17 Posted: Mar 23, 2006 03:55 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

in the shower invite

but we didnt have an engagement party and people just bought us stuff off the reg by just guessing where we registered or they asked our parents. we got a TON of engagement gifts...

but generally it goes in the shower invitation
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VadersBride2006 Posted: Mar 23, 2006 05:09 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

I told my BM's and they are taking it from there. I also put it on my wedding website.
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cantwait2bewed Posted: Mar 23, 2006 05:14 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?

throught the bridal shower, word of mouth and on your wedding website if u have one.
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autumnwedding Posted: Mar 23, 2006 05:20 PM+
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Re: How to you let people know you've registered?


Posted by Chelle

How do you 'tastefully' go about telling people you've reistered?

I know the places you register at give you announcement cards and you can send emails to friends and family through the website. But how do you alert people without feeling like a spoiled brat?

(Having a Veruca Salt moment... 'I want it NOW Daddy!!!!')



And don't forget weddingchannel.com I know I go there to see if someone has registered or not!
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