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UPDATE: KILL ME NOW!!!!!

mrsbyrd06 Posted: Mar 23, 2006 02:24 PM+

mrsbyrd06 MEMBER SINCE: 3/06 TOTAL POSTS : 167 WEDDING DATE: Apr 29, 2006

Posted: Mar 23, 2006 02:24 PM

UPDATE: KILL ME NOW!!!!!

Okay, so some of you remember me. I'm the girl that was having so much FMIL trouble. Well, here it comes again. At first, my FMIL wasn't going to allow my FH's sister to be in the wedding because she couldn't afford to buy her a 100 dollar dress. Well, here it is... 38 days until my wedding and she decides to throw a guilt trip on us because my FH's sister is upset because now she wants to be in the wedding. There are no dresses in papaya that can be here in time. The only one they can get here in time is one in butter (my accent color). Well, I don't want her to wear butter because noone else is wearing butter. If I don't allow her to be in the BP, my FMIL will hold this over my head for the rest of my life. I hhave cried off and on since my FH told me all this last night around 9. This is supposed to be the happiest time of my life and I'm miserable. I don't even want to get married anymore. Am I the only that thinks that this is my wedding day and I've planned this day for my whole life and I don't want a junior bridesmaid to wear a completely different color. Below are the pics.
#1 Bridesmaids Dress
#2 Flower Girl Dress
#3 Butter Color

UPDATE!!!!
So, we found a dress in the butter color there in her town. So, she went and got it yesterday. And, I mailed her the gradient ribbon to replace the plain ol' yellow. So, we're done and as soon as this is over and she pays for my honeymoon, I'm finished. I give up!

JessicaM. Posted: Mar 23, 2006 02:30 PM+

JessicaM. MEMBER SINCE: 3/05 TOTAL POSTS : 10882 WEDDING DATE: Apr 23, 2006

Posted: Mar 23, 2006 02:30 PM

Re: UPDATE: KILL ME NOW!!!!!

don't worry. I am sure it will looke lovely. congrats on being a good diplomat!

autumn Posted: Mar 23, 2006 02:43 PM+

autumn MEMBER SINCE: 10/04 TOTAL POSTS : 3126 WEDDING DATE: Oct 07, 2006

Posted: Mar 23, 2006 02:43 PM

Re: UPDATE: KILL ME NOW!!!!!

I am glad things worked out, I would still tell fmil how you feel.

mrsbyrd06 Posted: Mar 23, 2006 02:49 PM+

mrsbyrd06 MEMBER SINCE: 3/06 TOTAL POSTS : 167 WEDDING DATE: Apr 29, 2006

Posted: Mar 23, 2006 02:49 PM

Re: UPDATE: KILL ME NOW!!!!!

Posted by autumn

I am glad things worked out, I would still tell fmil how you feel.

Oh, I did. When I talked to her about the dress. I let her know just how I felt. And, it made it better because FH was on the phone with us. So, he got to see how she treated me face to face. He took a stand and I was so proud of him I cried.