about sending save the dates

1) there are 2 co-workers who i definitely plan on inviting to the wedding, but then theres a few i'm not sure of. is it ok to only send stds to those 2 and then if i decide to invite the rest later i will just sent them and invite?

2) can i use clear computer labels to address them? or is that tacky?

Re: about sending save the dates

I would say nay to that idea. If they discuss and it gets back to the other...bad news. Just let the 2 workers know 'secretly'. Save the STDs.

Re: about sending save the dates

I suggest NOT SENDING TO COWORKERS AT ALL!!!!!!!!!

I had a few 'definites' a year and a half ago... my how things change, and those devilish little save the dates have screwed me because the magnets are on their fridges.

My suggestion: just give STD's to your close friends and family members... NOT ANY COWORKERS. You may thank me later!

Re: about sending save the dates

i didn't send STDs to any coworkers, my office changes so quickly, but those who im closer with knew they were going to be invited

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I agree with everyone else. Don't send to co-workers. You never know how things will change in a few months.

I used clear labels on my STDs and I think that they looked fine.

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Wow, I didnt even think not to send it to coworkers. Me & FH agree that thats a great idea. Thanks ladies