Wedding gowns for second time bride

I will be getting married in October of 2003. I have been searching Hi and Low for a wedding gown that would be appropriate for a second wedding. I would like my dress to be cocktail length or just to the floor. Everything I see is just too much gown. I would love something that is very feminine, romantic, and maybe with a vintage feel to it. If anyone could lead me in the right direction, this second time bride will be forever grateful.