Positive Thread Time! Things you're NOT stressing about for the wedding!

I did a thread a few weeks ago about people in your life that were WONDERFUL during this planning process and I know it made me a little more positive..

Is there anything right now that you are totally NOT worried about? Something you were stressing about but you think will be fine in the long-run? A vendor? a guest? a BP member? Share.. it will make you feel good!

I'll start with.. I was stressed about the ceremony being at the RH and not having a rehearsal, but after sitting down with my BM and going through it I feel MUCH better and its one less thing to stress about.

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I am not stressing about my bridal party anymore. They are all so happy and thrilled to be part of our wedding. Everyone has been so positive lately. I am really blessed to have such great friends!

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I was worried that father wouldn't let me have my Confirmation earlier.I normally would be making it May26th, but since I'm getting married May6th, he made an exception for me because I attend church every Sunday and have never missed a religion class. I'm sooooo grateful thats over with, because in the Catholic church, you have to complete all 3 Sacraments in order to be married in the church. Pheeeeeeew. What a relief

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Great idea!! I am not stressed about my hall b/c I know it is just what FH and I wanted (semi-casual, great rep, etc). I am truly not stressed about my vendors either; the last thing I need to book is flowers and I had a wonderful phone conversation with a local florist and two days later got a beautiful sample bouquet delivered to me in my colors. The only things that have been stressing me out is family (I feel more like a politician lately than a bride!) and money matters..but when all is said and done, I know it's gonna be great!!

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Great idea! I am not stressed about 1) my band and photog/video 2) my BM dresses (they are sooo cute!) and 3) the man I am marrying of course!

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I am not stressed about my hall and all my vendors...Most of all the FUN I will have all day!!!

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Not stressing at all about the hall and the amazing time we will have! I know that even if little things don't go right I am still going to have the best night ever!

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Great thread I was worried about money but not anymore it is what it is and things will work out in the end

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I need a lesson from all of you wonderful ladies!
I am stressing about EVERYTHING!
Even the damn stamps on my STD's

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Basically I am still in a little bit of a stress mode. BUT ever since the invitations went out I do feel much better

330 invited
22 yes
4 no

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i love this thread! i'm not stressing about the wonderful man i'm going to marry, my BP, and (finally!) my relationship with FFIL and FMIL!

it's all the little stuff that's driving me insane!

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Posted by kelleyangelina

I need a lesson from all of you wonderful ladies!
I am stressing about EVERYTHING!
Even the damn stamps on my STD's

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i am in the same boat as you!!... all i keep thinking of is the negatives...no dress, no bridesmaid dress, no money$$$ lol..no time (i work full time n go to school full time) no florsit yet...etc..
i need to start focusing on positives ....maybe that will help

thanks for th e positive outlook!

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I am absolutely not worried about my bridal shower. Although, I do think that everyone is trying to trick me. Things are coming off the registry and coincidentally I'm going to NY in 2 weeks!!

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I am not stressed about my bridal party anymore, they have al come together in the last few weeks to plan my bachelorette party (this Saturday!) and seem to be genuinely interested in being a part of the big day!

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for a while I was stressing about my gown b/c I orderd a year ago and i've seen newer styles I really liked. But then Sunday I went to visit it and try it on again and I completely fell in love w/ it. I am so excited about my dress and happy that I didn't change it.

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I am not stressed about - my limos, my florist, and my dress choice. I am also not stressed about the man I'm marrying - he's been a saint!!

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I am happy and not stressed about anything wedding related

- Most of my vendors are paid off
- Nothing but wonderful people in my BP
- My MOH has been holding me down making sure I will have the best day of my life
- Love my FH
- Have wonderful vendors.

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I am still stressed out about everything!!! but that is normal for me

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I'm not stressed about:

-my FH (he's the best!)
-our vendors
-the RH
-our BP

I'm still stressing that the BM dresses and my dress won't be in on time (delivery estimated in late April!) and that the church is too small.

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I have to agree to that!!!