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don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

LINDSAY AND BRIAN Posted: Apr 24, 2007 02:43 PM+

LINDSAY AND BRIAN MEMBER SINCE: 5/06 TOTAL POSTS : 349 WEDDING DATE: Aug 11, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 02:43 PM

don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

i really don't feel like planning the rest of this wedding, i am so exhausted thinking about what details i am leaving out and if everything will fall into place and still having work to do at school in order to finish to graduate

ever feel like this is turning into an annoyance

AlliCatB Posted: Apr 24, 2007 02:48 PM+

AlliCatB MEMBER SINCE: 10/06 TOTAL POSTS : 1214 WEDDING DATE: May 27, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 02:48 PM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

ME TOO

I graduate 2 weeks before the wedding & I'm ready to have a break down. I feel ya sister!

LuckiestGirl Posted: Apr 24, 2007 02:51 PM+

LuckiestGirl MEMBER SINCE: 1/07 TOTAL POSTS : 544 WEDDING DATE: Sep 22, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 02:51 PM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

I have been there. . . . i took about a 3 month break from feb till now. . . now im back in gear although its only 1st gear have no energy for the higher ones.....

Pinkiegirll07 Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:08 PM+

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Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:08 PM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

ME NEITHER!!!
I keep thinking about all the stuff that's left to do and as a result... nothing gets done!

portjeffbride Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:37 PM+

portjeffbride MEMBER SINCE: 6/06 TOTAL POSTS : 4589 WEDDING DATE: Jun 09, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:37 PM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

I was going nuts until I finished the programs and placecards.... this month I get to rest and be normal.... next month, all the final vendor meetings begin

FullersBride Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:45 PM+

FullersBride MEMBER SINCE: 12/06 TOTAL POSTS : 2473 WEDDING DATE: Jul 21, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:45 PM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

I totally understand. I have planned my wedding 3 times in 11 months!!! My first two venues 'disapearred on me'. We are also in the process of house hunting in another state where FH is currently living with my parents. We want to close right before the wedding!!!! I'm so tired of all of this planning that I'm at the point where I'm just not going to do anymore of the little detailed things!!!

It will get better!!!! I hope!!! Hang in there!!!!

chacha Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:51 PM+

chacha MEMBER SINCE: 1/07 TOTAL POSTS : 406 WEDDING DATE: Jul 20, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:51 PM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

o man totally felt the same way. I walked away from everything for about a week to go on vacation and when i got back i lost my umpf for it...but then i realized it wasn't my umpf that was lost but the insane obsession that was gone. i was now a normal person planning a wedding....sometimes it feels weird..take advantage of your calmness...make a list and them check them off as you go along. it's nice to see things laid out in front of you and then checked off and completed...hang in there...

Future Mrs. Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:55 PM+

Future Mrs. MEMBER SINCE: 9/06 TOTAL POSTS : 3133 WEDDING DATE: Feb 18, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 03:55 PM

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I wish there were something I could say to make you feel better.....

I remember going through the SAME FEELINGS when planning my wedding. I was actually ready to call the whole thing off and elope just weeks before the actual wedding date!

Hisforever Posted: Apr 24, 2007 10:23 PM+

Hisforever MEMBER SINCE: 6/06 TOTAL POSTS : 2148 WEDDING DATE: Oct 20, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 10:23 PM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

i have been feeling like that too- every now and then... this can be an emotional ride

Soon2bMrsI Posted: Apr 24, 2007 10:27 PM+

Soon2bMrsI MEMBER SINCE: 5/06 TOTAL POSTS : 2007 WEDDING DATE: Jul 08, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 10:27 PM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

don't worry i feel the same way

ggcopying Posted: Apr 24, 2007 10:34 PM+

ggcopying MEMBER SINCE: 2/07 TOTAL POSTS : 1668 WEDDING DATE: Nov 16, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 10:34 PM

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Dont worry
I am taking a 2wk off break from my wedding planning. I am not doing anything wedding related except bridal shows and LIW

bettybcafe Posted: Apr 24, 2007 11:06 PM+

bettybcafe MEMBER SINCE: 6/06 TOTAL POSTS : 12882 WEDDING DATE: Jul 14, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 11:06 PM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

OMG! I started feeling like that a few mths ago...its just such a major pain...too many details...

Roed522 Posted: Apr 24, 2007 11:23 PM+

Roed522 MEMBER SINCE: 3/07 TOTAL POSTS : 748 WEDDING DATE: Aug 04, 2007

Posted: Apr 24, 2007 11:23 PM

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I hear ya!! I took a look at my To Do list last night and I was so overwhelmed. Now that I'm approaching double digits I am really feeling the pressure.

The fact that FMIL is still being a royal Bit@H and FH and I are still fighting about her makes me want to pack a bag and take a few days off from everything.

How about a LIW roadtrip

Hang in there!!

PegaLega Posted: Apr 24, 2007 11:26 PM+

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Posted: Apr 24, 2007 11:26 PM

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Ive been there, I had that same un motivating phase for a few weeks in March...but my FMIL kicked my rump back into gear and now everything is basically done.

It does get to a point where it feels like it is too much. You still do have time and really as long as you have your major things done that take a break until you want to do it again

Mooshyboo Posted: Apr 25, 2007 07:53 AM+

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Posted: Apr 25, 2007 07:53 AM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

Posted by LINDSAY AND BRIAN

i really don't feel like planning the rest of this wedding, i am so exhausted thinking about what details i am leaving out and if everything will fall into place and still having work to do at school in order to finish to graduate

ever feel like this is turning into an annoyance

Me 2..........

JenNDan07 Posted: Apr 25, 2007 08:18 AM+

JenNDan07 MEMBER SINCE: 2/06 TOTAL POSTS : 1134 WEDDING DATE: Nov 10, 2007

Posted: Apr 25, 2007 08:18 AM

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I feel the same way. It is like a second job. I get so overwhelming thinking about all the details I need to take care of.

pixiechickie Posted: Apr 25, 2007 09:00 AM+

pixiechickie MEMBER SINCE: 8/06 TOTAL POSTS : 1118 WEDDING DATE: Jun 23, 2007

Posted: Apr 25, 2007 09:00 AM

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Im with you all! Its a lot of work and all the small details are so draining

StarryEyedBride Posted: Apr 25, 2007 09:01 AM+

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Posted: Apr 25, 2007 09:01 AM

Re: don't feel like planning the rest of my wedding

Have you looked in Day of Coordinator?? He/She could really help alleviate some of the stress!

ntunison Posted: Apr 25, 2007 09:27 AM+

ntunison MEMBER SINCE: 2/06 TOTAL POSTS : 2143 WEDDING DATE: Jun 02, 2007

Posted: Apr 25, 2007 09:27 AM

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i felt like that before and i'm starting to feel that way again. I'm just overwhelmed with everthing. I'm getting married, moving out of state and starting a new job all within a matter of weeks... the wedding stuff alone is overwhelming and i'vehad enough...