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heatherandrichie
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 7/06 2944 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/7/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: same
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June/July brides!
Have/did anyone that RSVP'd a "no" send a card or gift before the wedding? I had 163 invited & 65 "no's". I got one gift and I'm not sure if that was a shower or wedding gift. It came real early from a friend who thought she couldn't make it. What's the norm?
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Posted 6/15/07 1:45 PM
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Nicole622
Baby on the way!!!

Member since 6/06 1327 total posts
Wedding Date: 6/22/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: Watermill
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Re: June/July brides!
yes i had quite a few people that could not attend the wedding that put a check in the rsvp envelope. we deposited the checks and will send them a thank you when we get our thank yous from our photographer..
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Posted 6/15/07 1:49 PM
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Meaghan729
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 1/06 2457 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/29/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
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Re: June/July brides!
Ive gotten a few no's, only 4 came with checks. If I cant go to a wedding, I ALWAYS send a gift. They might send something closer to the wedding- I didnt go to my cousins wedding in CA, so I replied no, but then send a card the week before the wedding.
eta: I send thank you cards to those people because I deposited the checks right away, and plan to also send the photo thank yous afte rthe wedding
Message edited 6/15/2007 1:50:29 PM.
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Posted 6/15/07 1:49 PM
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Flutterbye922
TTC'ing!

Member since 5/06 1289 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/15/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location: Venitian Yacht Club
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Re: June/July brides!
I think etiquette wise they are supposed to send a gift but I would never expect anyone to if they declined the invite.
I have received 3 gifts out of 12 no's.
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Posted 6/15/07 1:52 PM
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heatherandrichie
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 7/06 2944 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/7/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: same
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Re: June/July brides!
Thanks ladies. I hate to say it, but people in FL are cheap (where I live). They're most of my no's! Some are long lost relatives of FH
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Posted 6/15/07 2:05 PM
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leshellem
I'm a Mrs.

Member since 2/06 1535 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/3/2007 2:00 PM
Wed. Location: The Swan Club
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Re: June/July brides!
Got a great deal of nos, three checks out of 75 and two gifts from people who will be attending. Was not expecting anything from no's though, so the checks were a nice surprise.
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Posted 6/15/07 2:31 PM
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Bride4Mike07
I'm now a MRS.

Member since 1/07 1455 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/8/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location: Leonard's of Great Neck
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Re: June/July brides!
I received about 10 "nos" and only 1 gift card, which was thoughtful of them. I'm not really expecting a gift from the "nos' but if they send one, of course that is always welcomed!
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Posted 6/15/07 4:19 PM
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hayleyandsteve
Praying for my favorite Marine

Member since 7/06 6735 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/14/2007 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Crescent Beach Club
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Re: June/July brides!
We got a ton of "no" responses, and have gotten a few early wedding gifts with their RSVP.
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Posted 6/15/07 5:04 PM
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bettybcafe
Picture perfect

Member since 6/06 12883 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/14/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: The perfect place!
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Re: June/July brides!
Ive gotten quite a few "nos" and not many checks...
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Posted 6/15/07 5:10 PM
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