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Can I say this on invite? With new question

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magbride
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Wedding Date:
11/3/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Crest Hollow Country Club

Can I say this on invite? With new question

Okay, so Fh and I are footing the bill for the wedding, but out of respect we would like to include our parents names--not just "together with our families" on the invite--without implying that one set paid for the wedding. So here's what we're thinking. Is it okay?


Krista Mylastname
to
Thomas Hislastmame

children of Mr. and Mrs. Mylastname and
Mr. and Mrs. Hislastname

request the honour of your presence

etc, etc, etc....

Update: I posted below, but I should add that my parents have a different last name than I do, so I feel like I kind of have to repeat the last names. Ugh...what to do!

Message edited 7/2/2007 10:45:06 AM.

Posted 7/2/07 10:19 AM
 

Mich0621
Forever my Love 11-18-07

Member since 5/07

3930 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/18/2007 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Watermill Caterers

Re: Can I say this on invite?

it sounds beautiful...it is your wedding...you are entitled to do as you wish...besides, it was your parents who got you to this point today, so why not give them some recognition?!

Posted 7/2/07 10:22 AM
 

CMaria81
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Member since 5/07

986 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/13/2007 2:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Officer's Club at Fort Totten

Re: Can I say this on invite?

I once saw this done as:

The honour of your presence is requested
at the wedding of
Bride X
daughter of Mr. and Mrs. X
to Groom Y
son of Mr. and Mrs. Y

Posted 7/2/07 10:24 AM
 

Kara and Todd
Mrs. P and Loving It!

Member since 9/06

6626 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/11/2007 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Metropolitan

Re: Can I say this on invite?

That's fine, very nice, but I wouldn't put your last names twice. Also, the names should mirror each other. If you put your first names, your fathers' first names should be there. If you go with first and middle, your fathers' first and middle names should be there.

I'd put

Kara Patrice
and
Todd Charles

children of Mr. and Mrs. First Middle KarasLastName
and Mr. and Mrs. First Middle ToddsLastName

Posted 7/2/07 10:25 AM
 

Kara and Todd
Mrs. P and Loving It!

Member since 9/06

6626 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/11/2007 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Metropolitan

Re: Can I say this on invite?


Posted by CMaria81

I once saw this done as:

The honour of your presence is requested
at the wedding of
Bride X
daughter of Mr. and Mrs. X
to Groom Y
son of Mr. and Mrs. Y




I think I prefer it this way, except again, the last names shouldn't be repeated -- the bride and groom shouldn't have their last names listed, just the parents. Otherwise, it's unnecessarily repetitive.

Posted 7/2/07 10:26 AM
 

MJDoc12
WE SALUTE YOU!!!

Member since 10/05

11851 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/25/2007 11:15 AM

Wed. Location:
Watermill Caterers.. A++++

Re: Can I say this on invite?

i agree with kara---you can put your names...but no need for the last names again, it might look a little redundant

Posted 7/2/07 10:28 AM
 

magbride
Just call me Mrs. D!

Member since 1/07

2753 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/3/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Crest Hollow Country Club

Re: Can I say this on invite?


Posted by Kara and Todd

That's fine, very nice, but I wouldn't put your last names twice. Also, the names should mirror each other. If you put your first names, your fathers' first names should be there. If you go with first and middle, your fathers' first and middle names should be there.

I'd put

Kara Patrice
and
Todd Charles

children of Mr. and Mrs. First Middle KarasLastName
and Mr. and Mrs. First Middle ToddsLastName



Thx., the problem is that my parents have a different last name than me, so I'd have to put my last name. My father is really my step-father but I don't use the term.

Posted 7/2/07 10:35 AM
 

natseven
almost 1 year already

Member since 9/06

1540 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/31/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:

Re: Can I say this on invite?


Posted by CMaria81

I once saw this done as:

The honour of your presence is requested
at the wedding of
Bride X
daughter of Mr. and Mrs. X
to Groom Y
son of Mr. and Mrs. Y




I like this way better also.

Posted 7/2/07 10:35 AM
 

magbride
Just call me Mrs. D!

Member since 1/07

2753 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/3/2007 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Crest Hollow Country Club

Re: Can I say this on invite? With new question

Bump

Posted 7/2/07 10:45 AM
 
 

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