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Posted by Annoulak

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Posted by November 08 Bride

Ok so I am TOTALLY having a panic attack!!!!! I am starting a brand new job at a brand new school and getting married in less than 100 days. AM I CRAZY?? Can someone also please explain to me what this canceling invites thing is???? I am going to the post office tomorrow to weigh the invite. Then what do I do??? I want to send the invites out the first or second week of September because I have an October 11 rsvp date. IS that good? I feel like I have a million and ten things to do. I cant sleep or focus. Im going crazy!!! Please helllpppp

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Hand cancelling is usually done when the invites are ready to be mailed...the cancellation stamp is done by hand rather than by machine. It is definitely NOT required, so don't stress yourself out too much if you can't find a post office that does that for you.

Your timetable for sending invites sounds good.

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what company did you girls use to get your envelopes printed?

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I am going to use Ink Spun

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INKSPUN.com They did my computer calligraphy and it came out great

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i just printed my addresses on my own computer..it came out awesome! really easy!

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Posted by Jonas9281

i just printed my addresses on my own computer..it came out awesome! really easy!

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Posted by Kimbalina

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Posted by KiTTeN0819

I got my BM gifts last night. I got them all Swarovski necklaces. Feels good to get that done.

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Ohhhh nice gift!!! I would love to see a pic!

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Posted by Jonas9281

i just printed my addresses on my own computer..it came out awesome! really easy!

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Posted by thelastMrsG

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Posted by Jonas9281

i just printed my addresses on my own computer..it came out awesome! really easy!

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I did that too. It was REALLY easy! If any girls need help, let me know.

I do need real help though...I don't know what to get for my BM. My sister in law has 4 kids, a husband that doesn't help and never sleeps. My sister (MOH) is 26 and my best friend is 31. I want to get them something that won't sit in a jewlery box or in a closet.

Can someone help??

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Posted by KiTTeN0819

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Posted by thelastMrsG

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Posted by Jonas9281

i just printed my addresses on my own computer..it came out awesome! really easy!

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I did that too. It was REALLY easy! If any girls need help, let me know.

I do need real help though...I don't know what to get for my BM. My sister in law has 4 kids, a husband that doesn't help and never sleeps. My sister (MOH) is 26 and my best friend is 31. I want to get them something that won't sit in a jewlery box or in a closet.

Can someone help??

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A relaxing day at the spa maybe.

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Posted by Kimbalina

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Posted by KiTTeN0819

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Posted by thelastMrsG

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Posted by Jonas9281

i just printed my addresses on my own computer..it came out awesome! really easy!

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I did that too. It was REALLY easy! If any girls need help, let me know.

I do need real help though...I don't know what to get for my BM. My sister in law has 4 kids, a husband that doesn't help and never sleeps. My sister (MOH) is 26 and my best friend is 31. I want to get them something that won't sit in a jewlery box or in a closet.

Can someone help??

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A relaxing day at the spa maybe.

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I think that this is a great idea!

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Posted by deb08

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Posted by Kimbalina

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Posted by KiTTeN0819

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Posted by thelastMrsG

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Posted by Jonas9281

i just printed my addresses on my own computer..it came out awesome! really easy!

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I did that too. It was REALLY easy! If any girls need help, let me know.

I do need real help though...I don't know what to get for my BM. My sister in law has 4 kids, a husband that doesn't help and never sleeps. My sister (MOH) is 26 and my best friend is 31. I want to get them something that won't sit in a jewlery box or in a closet.

Can someone help??

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A relaxing day at the spa maybe.

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I think that this is a great idea!

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sounds great that is what i am getting my fsil too
she really needs it (she has a special needs child) lots and lots of work - it was a little more but she has been a great help during this planning..

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Does anyone know if Inkspun prints in color ink? I just mailed them envelopes and guest lists but completely forgot to ask abou the color printing. I would love to do it myself I just dont have the time.

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invite update: 40 more bottoms to the boxes to finish and then im done with that part at least

my moh finished the calligraphy on the outer part and the inner envelope....so we just need to trim and fold and stuff on saturday...which is when i expect to be done (minus putting the stamps on)

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Posted by November 08 Bride

Does anyone know if Inkspun prints in color ink? I just mailed them envelopes and guest lists but completely forgot to ask abou the color printing. I would love to do it myself I just dont have the time.

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Posted by thelastMrsG

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Posted by KiTTeN0819

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Posted by thelastMrsG

I do need real help though...I don't know what to get for my BM. My sister in law has 4 kids, a husband that doesn't help and never sleeps. My sister (MOH) is 26 and my best friend is 31. I want to get them something that won't sit in a jewlery box or in a closet.

Can someone help??

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A relaxing day at the spa maybe.

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I would love to do that, but she lives up state and I can't get her here for 5 min. I am going to take them for a mani and pedi the day before as a small thank you....but that's all I have. My sister suggested DOJ, but they will wear it once and then it will collect dust.

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Message edited 8/21/2008 9:34:30 PM.

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Things Done-
Church
Reception Hall
DoC
Limo Bus
Flowers
Guest List
Videographer
Photographer
save the dates (already sent)
My dress is in
Design & Print invites
Bridesmaids dresses ordered
Block hotel rooms
MOG dress ordered
Card Box Completed
DJ Booked
Honeymoon Booked
DIY menus made
Find Unity Candle
Flower Girl dresses are in
cake topper
Bachelorette party planned
Shower planned
Favor donation cards made
Hair & Makeup trial booked
Ribbon wands made
Mr. & Mrs. letters made
Pre-cana classes completed



-Things to do this weekend-
BP gifts
purchase wedding bands
Invitations assembled and send out

-Not Done-
Mail out invitations
Groom & Groomsmen: Order Tuxes
MOB Dres
Bridal: Veil, DOJ, shoes
Bridal: attend gown fittings
Bridal: Break in wedding day shoes
Bridal: attend makeup & hair trial
Call guests who have not RSVP’d
Ceremony: Make programs
Ceremony: Make unity candles
Ceremony: make aisle runner
Reception: Do not play/must play lists for DJ/Band
Reception: Establish seating arrangements
Reception: Burn CD favors
Reception: Purchase cocktail napkins & matchbooks
Shop & pack for Honeymoon
Assemble OOT bags
Attend shower and bachelor(ette) parties
Write thank you notes for shower gifts & bachelorette party
Schedule ceremony rehearsal
Book rehearsal dinner site
Buy Rehearsal dinner favors
Mail Rehearsal dinner invites
Photo: Must-Take photo list
Obtain Marriage License
Finalize time-lines and all details with all vendors
Make sure you have something old, new, blue, and a six pence in your shoe
Create a “wedding box” to gather your ceremony accessories (marriage license, candles, ring pillow, basket, guest book) and assign someone to transport.
Prepare a “reception box” for accessories such as guest books, cameras, toasting goblets, cake toppers, etc., and assign someone to transport
Prepare tip envelopes
Prepare and distribute day-of timeline
Prepare any speeches or toasts
Prepare day-of emergency kit
Confirm all final payments, schedule, pick up times, head count, etc with all vendors
Confirm HM reservations and travel arrangements

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went and got my stamps for our invites
one more thing done
now i just have to stamp them and they are ready to go!!

and my wonderful FH said i could get the fake pumpkin for our candy table

he changed his mind and said it would look pretty cool and we do have a fall theme so it would go

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yayyy Congrats to you for almost having your invites out I am wayy behind they are just getting stuffed this weekend! You girls are right on top of things!

Last night we made our final menu with The Royalton and go back in two weeks for the tasting!

everyday is something else lately! Yayy!

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I have not gotten a call for anyone- guess still to early for me.

congrats on getting you menu finalized

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My goodness time is flying.. I have a lot on my to do list, besides what I post here and it doesnt seem to be going as fast as planned!!!

I have no vendor appointments yet.. but I am sure that will start soon too.

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Thanks girls...last night definitely was a little overwhelming but exciting! They help you along but at first I felt.."like whoa" lol

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I got another BIG CHECK off my list, we are officially honeymooning for 9 days, 8 nights at Excellence Riviera Cancun in Mexico!!!!!!!

Now on to the 1,670 other things that need to be done

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Posted by JessesGirl

I got another BIG CHECK off my list, we are officially honeymooning for 9 days, 8 nights at Excellence Riviera Cancun in Mexico!!!!!!!

Now on to the 1,670 other things that need to be done

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Posted by Annoulak

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Posted by thelastMrsG

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Posted by KiTTeN0819

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Posted by thelastMrsG

I do need real help though...I don't know what to get for my BM. My sister in law has 4 kids, a husband that doesn't help and never sleeps. My sister (MOH) is 26 and my best friend is 31. I want to get them something that won't sit in a jewlery box or in a closet.

Can someone help??

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A relaxing day at the spa maybe.

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I would love to do that, but she lives up state and I can't get her here for 5 min. I am going to take them for a mani and pedi the day before as a small thank you....but that's all I have. My sister suggested DOJ, but they will wear it once and then it will collect dust.

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Why not get her a certificate to a spa near her house and offer to watch the kids while she goes to the spa...that way she can schedule when it's convenient for her, before or after the wedding

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