question regarding sex life things

I have a couple of questions

1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some?

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"?

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood?

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough?

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1. if i'm REALLY tired--i just am honest and say i'm beyond tired.

2. nothing wrong with loving quickies--sometimes if i'm super tired but know that he just wants to "get off' i say "do your thing--but you owe me one!" he always pays me back.

3. he has learned that getting nasty or pouting will delay sex longer...i'm not some doll that you just say "i wanna bang" and it happens. so he'll be okay with it. its not very often that i'm denying him sex...but hey i'm only human

4. he jokes that since the wedding band went on he doesn't get the bjs as much. so sometimes he'll say it...but usuallyl not.

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1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some?

This never happens. DH is always in bed before me since he's the 9 to 5er!! Thank God

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"?
I dont think its wrong. As long as you both love them

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood?
He takes it much better now that we had a talk about how we've been together 7 years and we arent always going to be in the mood at the same time. He just threatens to go on the internet and Im fine with that too

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough?

He doesnt really comment on them. There really isnt much I wont do to please him except swallow the protein

Hope that wasnt TMI

Message edited 7/2/2008 11:22:41 AM.

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Posted by Songstress





1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some?

This never happens. DH is always in bed before me since he's the 9 to 5er!! Thank God

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"?
I dont think its wrong. As long as you both love them

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood?
He takes it much better now that we had a talk about how we've been together 7 years and we arent always going to be in the mood at the same time. He just threatens to go on the internet and Im fine with that too

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough?

He doesnt really comment on them. There really isnt much I wont do to please him except swallow the protein

Hope that wasnt TMI

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Posted by kellybean

I have a couple of questions

1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some?

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"?

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood?

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough?

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1. if i'm tired, i'm tired, that's it. i feel bad for about a minute, then we both get over it. once in a while i'll cave, but he doesn't really like that since i'm just not into it.

2. hell no! especially in the morning, best way to start the day

3. he's usually OK when i'm not in the mood, cause really the only time i'm not is if i'm too tired. there are also times when he's not in the mood, and i am, so we both know how it feels.

4. i don't think there's anything i don't do that he really wants me to do.

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1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some? tell him no we can do it in the am and roll over lol.

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"? no absolutely not

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood? shrugs and says fine lol

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough? yea sometimes lol

Re: question regarding sex life things

1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some?
Hmm, depends. He has a way with things, so that sometimes I'll think I'm super tired and there is no way, and he's all kissy and love-y and before ya know it, I AM in the mood! He's so sneaky!!!!! Of course, it's not like that all the time. When he comes to bed after writing, he's usually exhausted and I'm usually sleeping. Gotta have time earlier on or before he writes. TMI. lol

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"?
Like a PP said, not if ya both like em! I like a good build up so I'm not a huge fan of super quicky sessions, hah.

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood?
i think pretty well. either that, or he'll try those moves in #1. i do notice though that if its been too long, he's generally more cranky/aggitated. we both are. its nice tho, bc we need that time w/ eachother.

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough?
No. I'm probably the one mentioning it if anything when I realize I don't do "that" (whatever that is) often enough. And then he might joke about it or hint at agreement in a silly way. lol

Message edited 7/2/2008 12:47:55 PM.

Re: question regarding sex life things

I have a couple of questions

1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some? this usually never happens it's usually me but if it does i'll wake myself up and go for it; he can usually put me in the mood even if i'm super tired.

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"? NO, sometimes I want more of them!

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood? He just rolls over and goes to sleep

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough? No because I pretty much do everything, JUST often enough

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1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some? I just inform him that he can do what he needs to do but i am not an active partner during this particular session and end it like that. If he wants it bad enough then he has it if not then we both go to sleep.

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"? Nope don't mind them at all. Its nice to have long drawn out sessions but when you busy and have limited time it's better then having nothing.

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood? When I am flat out not having it - he typically is fine otherwise i opt for him to put a porn on in the other room and take care of business and leave me alone (which he never does which i find is funny)

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough? I wish, input is great tell me what you want but instead he doesn't so i have to figure it out which annoys me. Usually bring it up as an off topic discussion and i get out of him what he wants.

Re: question regarding sex life things

1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some?
It depends, usually I just go to sleep but other times he gets all lovey dovey and I give in

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"?
I dont think so-as long as you both are into them or wanting them at the same time

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood?
He gets ridiculously stupid and moans and whines and cries

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough?
Of course...but then again he is a guy and if we just finished up he would be whining he wanted more-cant always be happy

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1. If I'm really exhausted, I'll just be honest with him. If I'm just a little tired, I usually go for it.

2. Sometimes the quickies are the best; when you don't have alot of time but just want to connect.

3. I am always in the mood; he is usually apologizing because he's too tired from work.

4. He better not!!

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Im sooo glad you posted this because I am in the same boat as you. I never really talk about it on here because I feel kinda weird about it...like its my fault or something. Alot of times DH is in the mood late and night and I am just friggin tired...I tell him this and hes fine with it, but I really do feel bad about it . We make love 1-2 week...and I just feel its not enough..but sometimes we are BOTH exhausted...I guess having a good marriage means that when one of you are tired you accept it and wait for the next day :)

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1. What do you do when its midnight you are tired beyond belif and your DH decides he wants some?
Neither of us are up that late! But if he wants some and I'm half asleep, he's really good about letting it go for that night. Why bother when I'm in a coma anyway? He's probably more tired than me- the kid gets up at 5am!

2. Is it wrong to love the "quickies"?
Nope - at least you're getting somethin'!

3. How does Dh take it if you arent in the mood?
He's actually good about it but he will tease me and then I end up feeling bad.

4. Does DH ever comment about the things you dont do ? or dont do often enough?
He does but it's always in jest. And it's usually stuff that he knows I would NEVER do! He just loves to get a reaction out of me!

Message edited 7/2/2008 7:47:17 PM.